All about that bass, no romo

My blog filled with my aro feels. Will give advice if wanted. Bisexual aromantic agender 23/INFP/Aries Pronouns: they/them

[tepli-mravenci]

[alloaro-pancake]

aros who don't love? fantastic!

aros who love? amazing!

aros who can't tell if they love or not? brilliant!

aros who have a complex relationship with love? wonderful!

[aromanticduck]

And you’re both valid.

Ace version here

[papaartistakabettyrose]

[ace-and-aro-support-group]

Aromantic ppl waiting for a canon aro character in a mainstream movie or tv show

[ID: A meme of Squidward sitting in a box holding out a cup. The text has been changed to say "Spare representation???? Spare representation ma'am????" End ID.]

[alloarojughead]

Romo ppl please stop pining after me im not diggity down with it

[alloarojughead]

Romo ppl please stop pining after me im not diggity down with it

[sockiesock]

here’s to the aros who wish they could experience romantic attraction

here’s to the aros who are proud to be aromantic

here’s to the aros who are also asexual

here’s to the aros who are sexually attracted to the same gender

here’s to the aros who are sexually attracted to the opposite gender

here’s to the aros who don’t know what they’re sexually attracted to

here’s to the aro boys

here’s to the aro girls

here’s to the nonbinary aros

here’s to the trans aros

here’s to the aros (and every single person on the aro-spec)

[papaartistakabettyrose]

[aroloverboy]

Can we please start giving some love to aroallo

And while I’m at it if you don’t agree with what I’m saying please block me I don’t want any exclusionist following me

[raavenb2619]

[ID: The first line says “being confused by romance is okay” in dark green. The second line says “not knowing if you’re aro is okay” in light green. The third line says “questioning being aro is okay” in white. The fourth line says “thinking you’re aro is okay” in gray. The fifth line says “being aro is okay” in black. End ID]

[spooky-peachtea]

Happy pride month! 

You can find this design on my redbubble

[itamiika]

I think what people generally don't get is that you can't just live your life normally as an aromantic. Sure nobody throws rocks at me or anything but that doesn't change the fact that no matter what I do or how happy I am at some point the constant reminders that I'm supposed to be wrong just get to you. I finally reached a state of mind in which I'm happy being alone and I can spend hours on my own (don't trivialize this. being alone can be hard) but at some point every time the world reminds me that I'm missing something. That my friends will never be there for me as much as they are there for their partners. That I'm the second choice. That nobody will want to move in with me because they'll end up being in a relationship and will start living with another person.

That I will be alone.

And I am over that fact. 99% of the time I'm happy because I do things I love and have friends and family around me that I love. But that damn 1% comes everytime. Sometimes it takes longer than other times but it's there... waiting.

Then those pretty thoughts tell me that I'm alone in this society that is build on romantic love... and that I'll always be alone...

You can't just be an aromantic and live happily because society never stops reminding you that somethings missing.

[wannarotinyourhands]

And I think it' okay

[maxinajar]

Haha, just in that aro mood where im salty about everything to do with romance.

[asterosian]

Supporting aroallos requires you to be sex positive

That means you can’t read “casual sex” and think “fucks around without caring about anyone”

That means you can’t treat “no strings attached” like it’s synonymous with “heartless fuckboys using women for sex”

That means you can’t look at someone who wants casual sex and is open about it and claim they must have a “fear of commitment”

That means you can’t blame someone’s depression on their “missed connnections,” aka their one night stands that didn’t blossom into romantic endeavors

That means you’re gonna let others make their own choices about their sex life without judgement or shame or any implication that they’re in any way lacking morals for wanting to have sex with people they’re not in any sort of long term relationship with

[sakana-no-yama]