"my gender goals are to look like a transfem that no one respects enough to call a woman. #representation!" every day i grow closer to only speaking with other transfems it's so fucking grim out there. why are tmes like this.
like i can't get over how blatant this is. the insistence on calling what is clearly a trans woman a man, even when she's on estrogen. the implication that she won't pass, that a "cis femboy on estrogen" won't just look like a woman, the implication that trans women always look like men. the idea that a misgendered sexualized caricature of transfemininity is a cool subversive bit of representation, the gender goals of a tboy. "i want to look like a girl, but the kind you misgender and disrespect!" transfeminized bodies are a fucking costume to you people. you see it in art, you see it in porn, you see it in drag, you see it in fucking femboy culture, you see it amongst tmes of all stripes. you all want our bodies but you hate the girls who inhabit them. fuck off
