Let me tell you a secret.
Most men, don't care what weight women are.
Most women, don't care what weight men are.
So, how do we get these outrageous body standards?
Something that I've seen over and over that has made me decide to write this.
Women become obsessed with their own weight personally, and because they do, it created this mental virus around them that spreads and everyone else starts to worry about their own weight. They thought she looked fine, but if she's worried about her weight, well maybe I should be too?
Then it goes on further, it travels to the guys. They start to pick up on what the woman think are perfect standards, fit, lean, toned, curvy, whatever. Then they become obsessed with it. If these beautiful goddesses don't think they look good, then heck, what about us? Big hairy beasty men?
They see that the men with bigger muscles get more women, more admiring glances, so they all start to put the pressure on themselves. What they don't is, those men so obsessed with their own weight have nothing of worth to talk about besides eating habits, weight gain/loss and obsessing over their partners weight that the women never stay around long.
It becomes a circle that travels, mothers pass that to kids, kids pass it to other kids, then it becomes a thing on media, and it just kind of grew into this huge big thing. For thousands of years, women, men have always feared that they aren't good enough, they don't look as handsome as that dude, or pretty as that woman.
But seriously! Let's stop for a minute.
There is a reason why we are all so uniquely different and shaped, why one is slender, and another curvy. Why one is lean and broad shouldered, and another solid and muscular.
BECAUSE WE DON'T LIKE THE SAME THING!
Maybe we should stop obsessing about our own weight, our own fears, for the people around us. Let's start wearing these beautiful bodies that carry such precious souls around in, with the confidence and pride they deserve, because they have kept us alive, fought tooth and nail to be here alive today.
Sure, I'm going to get fat, I'm going to be skinny, I'm going to get grey hairs and wrinkles, but that means I've lived. I've had children, I've seen many people things, walked many miles, seen some beautiful sun, and views. Let's start admiring people for the lives they have lived, not the body's that they live in.









