you do not take her for a sign

dysphoric female. gender havers DNI

[schmookens]

[awoman-is-alive]

This is such an insane and out of touch take. men have had thousands of years to stop oppressing women. how many more years are we supposed to wait. how many more times are we supposed to try and get men to understand when the ones who hurt women know what they are doing. why does that fall on women’s shoulders. this post is assuming single sex bathrooms exist everywhere which is not the case, many women are still fighting for access to spaces like public bathrooms and they face the consequences of males entering their private spaces every day. if men are so capable of behaving themselves why do trans women say it’s not safe for them to go into male bathrooms. Or are only women expected to share space with their oppressors, because nobody believes men are our historical and systemic oppressors. would they ask this of any other oppressed population. Something something that Andrea dworkin quote where pointing out the sex class system makes people accuse you of endorsing and perpetuating it

[baby-birch]

"She has become undone, she broke her body into pieces. To live the ritual: to take joy in the customary flights over the meadows, and to sink into the abyss. A month in the garden of existence. A dream born in the golden dawn, later nestled and became silent in the bosom of a mourning Eden. To consume a butterfly is to taste the rare nectar from a withering flower. To bear witness to the subtle heartbreaks of the world. Every movement of the wings is a sigh. I have become undone, I broke my body into pieces."

[sichorean]

This is a post on "Ethical pornography" I made in 2022. People love to use "ethical" and "choice" arguments, however these do not hold up against any scrutiny. And after seeing that pornhubs trending searches are often of war refugees or media that has been proven to be non-consential (Lana Rhodes), you could not make me believe for a second that the end viewer cares at all about the ethics involved.

[sigma-floyd]

[awoman-is-alive]

the amount of times in the past ive been yelled at for spreading "transphobic myths" when i brought up minors going on hormones and getting surgery. apparently this was a horrifying concept only a reactionary transphobe would believe and spread lies about. now theyre realizing they cant cover up the truth anymore so now its actually transphobic to not fully embrace minors undergoing surgery. because its just like ummmm. abortion 🥰

[rude-fem]

“what’s a female?” “what’s a male?” well, what does afab and amab mean? what’s the biological difference between a transman and a transwoman? who is “transmisogyny affected”, and who isnt? what’s the difference between the surgeries that transwomen get and the surgeries that transmen get? who can be a transman? who can be a transwoman, and who can’t?

stop acting stupid, you all already know the answer

[awoman-is-alive]

this post is insane. first i was like "lol they try so hard not to acknowledge biological sex but end up using afab and amab as equivalents to the words 'male' and 'female' anyway. theyre acknowledging female oppression" but by the end of the post the males picked up on it and are yet again taking away a way to recognize and describe female oppression. what word should we use then if afab no longer suffices. they dont want there to be a word at all

[awoman-is-alive]

whenever i watch videos of genderfluid/nonbinary/begendered people explaining their identities they allllways somehow always convey "gender roles are stupid and i shouldnt have gotten in trouble for liking dresses as a boy" and "i was a boy who liked dresses so therefore im not a boy" at the exact same time. "ohhh people put too much expectations on girls to be feminine and ladylike but im special and genderfluid because i didnt like bows and some days i like to be masculine." so basically people told you "girls/boys dont do this" and you agreed? but somehow in a "countercultural subversive fuck gender" way? explain. like when these people are being interviewed or on podcasts or whatever the person interviewing them never picks up on this. i saw someone recently expressing disappointment in alice cooper being "transphobic" (idk what he said something about transitioning being a fad) and she was like "i cant believe he would say that considering how much hes always played with gender (eg wearing makeup...) and also his name is alice???" like is it incomprehensible to you that a man can wear makeup and have a feminine name? you agree that gender is clothes then? how can you claim to be anti gender roles but then act this way. i wish at least some normie interviewer/reporter during educational "i spent the day with a nonbinary person!" videos would question the blatant contradictions because i want to know what the response would be

[awoman-is-alive]

she sums this up so well. from “material girls” by kathleen stock

[guilty-feminist]

[kamillia]

you heard it here first folks, women aren't allowed to ask basic questions or advocate for our rights because.... Uhhhhh...... THERES GONNA BE AN APOCALYPSE OK?!? so just shut up about it :)

[disillusionedmonster]

"As in post-disaster contexts, the reasoning given varies (cultural sensitivities; including women would delay the negotiations; women can be included after an agreement has been reached) but they boil down to the same line that has been used to fob off women for centuries: we'll get to you after the revolution. It's a rational that is the clearly a function of sexism, a symptom of the world that believes women's lives are less important than 'human' lives, where 'human' means male."

- Caroline Criado-Perez "Invisible Women"

[lauren-xx]

—Andrea Dworkin

[genderoutlaws]

Lani Ka’ahumanu marching with BiPOL at Gay & Lesbian Freedom Day in San Francisco, 1984. Lani was a co-founder of BiPOL, the first bisexual feminist political action group, and was instrumental in organizing what would become BiNet USA, the first national bisexual rights organization. | ph: Arlene Krantz

[woman-for-women]

“We first met when Loraine visited San Francisco for the 1985 Lesbian/Gay Freedom Day Parade and ended up marching in BiPOL’s contingent. Lorain dressed as Janis Joplin, carrying a sign featuring Joplin’s famous quote, "Don’t compromise yourself, it’s all you’ve got!” Other contingent members dressed as famous bisexuals, or made costume representations of puns played upon the bi word - Bi Cupids, Bi Focals, Bi All Means. Lani was Bi and Large. We held up wooden BiPhobia Shields to the sidewalk crowds whenever they booed us..."

Lani Ka’ahumanu, Loraine Hutchins, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out, 1991

[guilty-feminist]

[kamillia]

you heard it here first folks, women aren't allowed to ask basic questions or advocate for our rights because.... Uhhhhh...... THERES GONNA BE AN APOCALYPSE OK?!? so just shut up about it :)

[disillusionedmonster]

"As in post-disaster contexts, the reasoning given varies (cultural sensitivities; including women would delay the negotiations; women can be included after an agreement has been reached) but they boil down to the same line that has been used to fob off women for centuries: we'll get to you after the revolution. It's a rational that is the clearly a function of sexism, a symptom of the world that believes women's lives are less important than 'human' lives, where 'human' means male."

- Caroline Criado-Perez "Invisible Women"

[lauren-xx]

—Andrea Dworkin

[sircuitgirl-deactivated20230617]

Remember when they told us abortion was a human rights issue for poor men and gay men but not women? Lmao. You people really want women to give literally everything of ourselves away for the sake of other people don’t you. It’s like punching someone in the face and expecting them to say “sorry my face bruised your knuckles.” Apologetic and servile till the bleeding end and we’re supposed to call this feminism.

They told the suffragists they had to stop advocating for voting rights (which they had been advocating for for decades) during World War 1 because men and their problems were supposed to take precedence. Thank God they didn’t listen to this weak reasoning.

[tockthewatchdog]

I love how we are supposed to think that men have a monopoly on logic and rationality when one of their favorite problem-solving strategies is “kill my entire family and then myself”

[posztolanyidezso]

and women are peak empaths yet somehow they cannot foresee/prevent their husbands committing suicide out of unhappiness

[tockthewatchdog]

it must suck to be so much more statistically violent that the best you can do for a female wrongdoing equivalent to “total family annihilation through cold blooded murder” is “fails to stop husband from killing himself”

[awoman-is-alive]

i genuinely wonder if there are going to be young people who were raised in gender ideology who honestly do not know that homosexuality exists. like as of now i mostly come across people who are old enough where they grew up knowing about same sex attraction, who remember the fight for same sex marriage, but now are working to unlearn that whole concept in favor of gender based attraction. but are there going to be children raised in kweer begendered postmodernist circles who will never be introduced to the reality of biological female people who are naturally exclusively attracted to other biological female people… like theyre teaching the genderbread person to elementary schoolers. bisexuality is being taught as “two or more genders.” lesbian is “non men attracted to non men.” if you ask how lesbians have sex they include people with penises in the equation. this is the information being given to young people now. they arent unlearning anything from the 90s and early 2000s, this is the first thing theyre being taught about sexuality 

[broodsister]

im pretty much one of these people like deep down i understood what bio sex was but because of what i heard about sexuality growing up in the online trans spaces i did (i came out as trans publicly to my family and at school when i was 13) it was…. complicated. like, i basically was operating on the assumption that everyone is bisexual since thats basically what they spout and that because i wasn’t interested in penis it meant that something was wrong with me and i needed to fix my “penis repulsion trauma”. even after i detransitioned i had a period where i was actively trying to change my sexuality and like…. conversion therapy myself. and i genuinely believed it was possible that i could become attracted to men. plus, post detransition but pre peaking (very different separate events for me) i really struggled to define my sexuality because i didnt know that the language for it already existed. i knew i was attracted to women but also that i had been attracted to tifs. i couldnt call myself a lesbian because i was attracted to “men.” it was genuinely eye-opening for me to hear the actual definition of homosexuality. it felt really freeing

[awoman-is-alive]

damn....thank you for sharing

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

Literally none of you know what radical feminism is

[gendiebrainrotreceipts]

No that’s not it either but nice try

[awoman-is-alive]

i genuinely wonder if there are going to be young people who were raised in gender ideology who honestly do not know that homosexuality exists. like as of now i mostly come across people who are old enough where they grew up knowing about same sex attraction, who remember the fight for same sex marriage, but now are working to unlearn that whole concept in favor of gender based attraction. but are there going to be children raised in kweer begendered postmodernist circles who will never be introduced to the reality of biological female people who are naturally exclusively attracted to other biological female people... like theyre teaching the genderbread person to elementary schoolers. bisexuality is being taught as “two or more genders.” lesbian is “non men attracted to non men.” if you ask how lesbians have sex they include people with penises in the equation. this is the information being given to young people now. they arent unlearning anything from the 90s and early 2000s, this is the first thing theyre being taught about sexuality