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Just so know know this is something people with borderline personality disorder may do and this post is ableist. Sometime the person will accidentally kill themselves trying to get the other person to stay. They have an intense fear of abandonment. The more you know https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=to5qRLRSS7g

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as someone with bpd, yes we do have an intense fear of abandonment, but if we do shit like this it is STILL TOXIC and STILL SHITTY. this post is absolutely not ableist. yes, seek help for the person in question immediatley but DON’T let them manipulate you like this. they need help, but you are not responsible for them and if anyone treats you like this (especially repetitively) you are in an abusive relationship. y'all are truly fucked up for making people think that they’re ableist for getting out of a toxic relationship.

geekandmisandry

I just…also as someone with bpd like… We still know, like… Right from wrong? Yeah, I have an intense fear of abandonment, yeah it is tempting to use self harm to regain that control, yeah I’ve done it when I was younger. Doesn’t make it less manipulative, or abusive. You are still using it as a tactic to try and control another person to the detriment of their health and safety.

Like, those who excuse this and actually defend it are just huge red flags to me.

Cool motive, still abuse.

songless

Yo

surprisebitch

x

aliveontuesday

I left my house in the middle of the night and walked to a bridge to jump. By the time I had walked all that way and was at the bridge. The effort to climb to a spot to jump didn’t seem worth it all of a sudden.

scampchamp

When I was 17 i decided I wanted to kill myself. I hiked up to the top of this mountain to a summit called “Maidens Cliff”. there was a plaque at the beginning of the trail that told the story of a girl who had accidentally fallen and died while on a family hiking trip and how the cliff was named after her. By the time I’d made it to the top I’d changed my mind about jumping. About two years later I went back to that trail and hiked it with my family (they were completely unaware of what I had planed to do to myself on that cliff years prior). My mom read the story on the plaque aloud to all of us and I was so thankful that I had changed my mind about jumping because all I could picture was my name on that plaque instead of the girls. Time helps put life into prospective. The things you are going though are not worth ending your life over. Keep fighting. For your friends, for your family, and for your future self. You are worth it, life is worth it.

bone-and-brawn

Men: Your Consent Matters Too

Fellas, listen.

You don’t have to do anything sexual that you’re not interested in. Moreover, you don’t have to explain why. “No” is a complete sentence.

Not interested in getting pegged? You don’t have to. Monogamous and not into the idea of another partner? Okay. Not sure about period sex? Cool.

And if your partner decides to question or mock your maturity or your masculinity or your sexuality because you say no? It’s time to re-evaluate the relationship. See if you don’t deserve better than that.

caleb-michelson-deactivated2018

Boost

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BOOST MORE!!!

alexputyourpantsbackon

Things that will make me fall for you:

singing around me, even if you’re not the best

talking about movies and books you love

telling me jokes, yes including the stupid ones

sharing your music with me

really talking to me…about your life and your future etc.

maybe liking me back?

yeah

dontletthisheartgo

lol tru

curseworm

human brain: sometimes we need to do boring things with no gratification or immediate benefit

monkey brain: absolutely not. die

lemonsharks

Human brain: ok what if we eat chips while we do the boring thing

monkey brain: I’m suspicious but keep talking

neverthere12345

such-justice-wow

Teenage alcoholism is so important to recognise. It is not healthy to be getting absolutely wasted a few times a week and sometimes young adults become alcoholic without realising it. If you are unable to have a fun time without drinking or you feel like you need to drink when others are in an overwhelming way then consider getting help.

mungeondaster

No really. Get help. It starts with parties, and then it’s “lol im just sad all the time” and before you know it everything is awful and you’re spiralling out of control. Don’t get sucked in and don’t let tumblr Depression Culture make you think it’s normal.

friendlystrangers

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badpunsgoodpizza

This would be me, it’d be worth it.

attackofthekillershwees

I’m watching a documentary on Netflix about animals getting prosthetics and this vet just hand sculpted a prosthetic beak for an injured swan and the very first thing it did was use its new beak to bite someone

manic-pixie-meme-grrl

that is very on-brand for swans

dankmemeuniversity

showerthoughtsofficial

When you’re criticised for being short, they’re really just saying the worse thing about you is that there isn’t more of you.

panic-defense

“I’ve never been to war. I can’t have PTSD.” Yes, you can.

“I’m not suicidal. I can’t have depression.” Yes, you can.

“He’s never hit me. It can’t be abuse.” Yes, it can.

Suffering is not a contest. Your experiences are valid. Seek out the help you need.

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SUFFERING IS NOT A CONTEST

newfoundfelinity

SUFFERING IS NOT A CONTEST

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SUFFERING IS NOT A CONTEST

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wouldn’t it be nice to be remotely ok in any capacity

thepiscesactor-deactivated20121

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

minotaursauce

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

xaldien

“You’d be surprised”, said Xaldien, who just lost four followers and received a lovely “men can’t be raped” anon shortly after reblogging this the first time.

minotaursauce

Yowch, disgusting.

samuraiko

If I don’t reblog this, assume I’m dead.

glory-of-hera-blog

Always reblog this

nygmobblepot-der-pool-deactivat

If you Dont reblog this if u see it then i cant call u my friend

witchofthefuture

IF ANYONE TELLS ME THAT MEN CAN’T BE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND RAPE, I AM SICKENED BY THEIR MERE PRESENCE ON MY BLOG.

If you disagree with me, unfollow my blog, block me and never look at my blog again.

If you want to debate about this or send anon’s about this, I will reply but your actions have consequences.

witchofthefuture

Out of 19000+ followers I have, only one of you actually reblogged about this issue, yet a lot of you have reblogged and liked a picture by playboy about catcalling and that how men should never do it.

Additionally, I have received abuse in my ask box (which I will be answering when I can) and threats. In particular death threats and rape threats.

I can see the real problem here already. Male domestic violence and rape is just invisible in our society because we don’t want to talk about this because it just damages the status quo of this fucking website.