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❗Nonsharing F/O with Angie Thompson (romantic doubles DNI)❗ Banner by @bea-beast2007

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Hi guys! This is my "yumeship/self-shipping/oc x canon/f/o community whatever they are called" side-blog! The side-blog is still WIP, but you can somehow check back later. Please be nice towards me, this is my first time in the community here. /gen Most of content I post are oc x canon and polycule together just to clarify! My main is @toipandan ! My F/O Masterlist here ! (check the first with my f/o(s) before you interact with me!) HASHTAGS 🌷My general tags: #baitoey ship arts #baitoey ship writings #baitoey ship talks 🌷Stuff for me: #lovemails for baitoey BOUNDARIES 🌷Basic DNI. I block for those that I don't like if you are weirdo, bigot or toxic around me. 🌷If you think aspec yumeshippers/selfshippers can't have f/o without romance, personally please leave this blog. I am Oriented AroAce who is a Sapphillean and I have difficulty with romantic attractions, which is why I made my blog to cope it. This blog is also not for aphobes, sorry. Again, I don't need irl/online partner as a "real lover" to be happy myself, as I don't have interest to be dating someone irl/online due to time zone and mental health. 🌷Do not bring up any yume dramas, f/o discourses, ship wars or anything similar around my blog, I personally do not care for that all. I'm just here to post my content that I made for myself only. 🌷I am Actually Autistic (pro-dx) with undiagnosed BPD! I do have ADHD, Depression and OCD tested before, but they are not properly pro-dx. Regardless, anyone is welcome here (as long you don't fit basic dni criteria). 🌷I am a Nonsharing f/o with Angie Thompson (Trauma Center)! However, DerAng shippers can still interact with me, as long you don't romantically talk about Angie around me. Please note that I also ship Derek and Angie together with my OC when I'm in polycule mood, even though Derek is not my main f/o but he still counts as sharing f/o! Also do not ask me why I'm a nonsharing yumeshipper who is okay with canon x canon ships for multishipping. 🌷I'm also selective sharing with my f/o(s) Balloon (II) and Chung (ELSWORD), however, they are not strictly picky as Angie (Trauma Center). Current moots are OK! 🌷Even if I self-project my ocs for oc x canon ships, not every my ocs are automatically yumesonas for self-ships btw! They are literally my OCs, btw. 🌷Most of my ships are always canon x oc x canon polycule with my f/o(s), if you don't personally like ideas of my polycule together, then don't come to my blog and don't ask me for that. I don't owe my ships to anyone else. Again, I don't need consider my blog to be as "the real yume blog" just because I am multishipper. 🌷I personally don't mind if my f/o(s) are shipped with other canon characters, especially if they are canon love interests or your OTPs of non-canon couples, as long it's not problematic. 🌷This blog also welcomes for aspecs, polycules (canon x oc x canon and oc x canon x oc ships are VALID!), canon x canon shippers and multishippers as well! Everyone is welcomed as long you don't fit the basic DNI criteria. Contents of Multiships involving canon x canon ships are posted on my main blog only.

[clarissasbakery]

idk if anyone remembers them but…. here’s a quick oc post!!! these some of my oldest ocs i’ve had since i was about 15!

[clarissasbakery]

CLARISSAAAA!!! you should totally show us more of your Mephone4 Gijinka 😋

here is more!!! i made a lil doodle

[baitoeyships]

My F/O Masterlist!

NOTICE: This is mainly OC x CANON ships, but I also do Polycule ships involving my OCs being shipped with Canon x Canon couples when it comes to multishipping. However, if you don't like my ideas of polycule involving my OCs with canon x canon together, then personally don't ask. I don't need my blog consider to be real "yume blog" just because I am a multishipper. Also, not every my OCs are automatically "yumesonas for self-inserts"! Again, my nonsharing and selective f/o(s) doesn't apply to every canon x canon ships, I personally don't care if my f/o(s) are shipped with canon characters, as long it's not problematic! If you disagree with that, please do not interact with my blog, thank you.

F/O Color-Coded Guides ❤️Nonsharing (Please do not romantically talk about my f/o a lot. However, having my f/o(s) as your platonic and familial f/o(s) are OK! I tend to be critically defensive and protective with my romantic f/o(s). No doubles, because they are big thin ice for me.) 🧡Selective Sharing (I'm selective with that, depends how picky I am. However, current moots are OK!) 💚Sharing (Doubles are OK!) 💜Queerplatonic (Non-romantic, obviously) 🩵Platonic (Non-romantic, obviously) Main Romantic F/O ❤️Angela "Angie" Thompson (Trauma Center) [This is my main F/O, btw. Mind you, she is undiagnosed-BPD coded character according to narratives and I'm also undiagnosed BPD person as well. However, DerAng shippers can still interact with me, as long you don't talk about Angie romantically. See Derek with canon x oc x canon polycule below for more.] 🧡Balloon (Inanimate Insanity) 🧡Chung (ELSWORD) [Obviously post-3rd job due to the current lore timeline and I haven't planned with OC yet, but soon!] 💚The Mole (Happy Tree Friends) 💚Knife (Inanimate Insanity) [Yes, I am Knife multishipper and Knife doubles are always welcome! He's one of my childhood crushes.] Sub Romantic F/O 💚Derek Stiles (Trauma Center) [Not my main F/O, but I ship him with Angie and my OC together for Polycule! DerAng shippers and Derek doubles interact, please!) 💚Lumpy (Happy Tree Friends) [Same reason with Derek above, but it's The Mole x OC x Lumpy instead.] 💚Ara (ELSWORD) [Obviously 3rd job due to the current lore timeline, haven't planned with OC yet, but soon!) 💚Cactus (Plants vs. Zombies) 💚Valerie Blaylock (Trauma Center) [Markus x Valerie and Valerie x Cynthia shippers, feel free to interact!] 💚Hachisuka Kotetsu (Touken Ranbu) [Not mainly active in Touken Ranbu anymore, but I'm very rarely talk about that.] Queerplatonic F/O (non-romantic, obviously) 💜Scaramouche / Wanderer (Genshin Impact) [used to be romantic f/o, but he is currently queerplatonic in good terms and I'm more romantically interested with Angie, I personally don't mind if you romantically talk about my f/o] Platonic F/O (non-romantic, obviously) 🩵Naoto Shirogane (Persona 4) 🩵Yosuke Hanamura (Persona 4) 🩵Chihiro Fushimi (Persona 3) 🩵Zoey (KPop Demon Hunters)

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Hi fictional character lovers, just needed to make this post.

I’ve been struggling with severe depression and an autonomic disorder for a while now. My Etsy shop and this page have been suffering due to my extreme chronic fatigue.

I’ll try to keep posting and will be putting more instant download items on my Etsy shop, but I’d love to know what kind of instant downloadable things you would like to see on the shop that I can make in advance and you can download whenever you want instantly.

Let me know in the comments or you can DM me. You’re all amazing <3

[baitoeyships]

My F/O Masterlist!

NOTICE: This is mainly OC x CANON ships, but I also do Polycule ships involving my OCs being shipped with Canon x Canon couples when it comes to multishipping. However, if you don't like my ideas of polycule involving my OCs with canon x canon together, then personally don't ask. I don't need my blog consider to be real "yume blog" just because I am a multishipper. Also, not every my OCs are automatically "yumesonas for self-inserts"! Again, my nonsharing and selective f/o(s) doesn't apply to every canon x canon ships, I personally don't care if my f/o(s) are shipped with canon characters, as long it's not problematic! If you disagree with that, please do not interact with my blog, thank you.

F/O Color-Coded Guides ❤️Nonsharing (Please do not romantically talk about my f/o a lot. However, having my f/o(s) as your platonic and familial f/o(s) are OK! I tend to be critically defensive and protective with my romantic f/o(s). No doubles, because they are big thin ice for me.) 🧡Selective Sharing (I'm selective with that, depends how picky I am. However, current moots are OK!) 💚Sharing (Doubles are OK!) 🩵Platonic (Non-romantic, obviously) Main Romantic F/O ❤️Angela "Angie" Thompson (Trauma Center) [This is my main F/O, btw. Mind you, she is undiagnosed-BPD coded character according to narratives and I'm also undiagnosed BPD person as well. However, DerAng shippers can still interact with me, as long you don't talk about Angie romantically. See Derek with canon x oc x canon polycule below for more.] 🧡Balloon (Inanimate Insanity) 🧡Chung (ELSWORD) [Obviously post-3rd job due to the current lore timeline and I haven't planned with OC yet, but soon!] 💚The Mole (Happy Tree Friends) 💚Knife (Inanimate Insanity) [Yes, I am Knife multishipper and Knife doubles are always welcome! He's one of my childhood crushes.] Sub Romantic F/O 💚Derek Stiles (Trauma Center) [Not my main F/O, but I ship him with Angie and my OC together for Polycule! DerAng shippers and Derek doubles interact, please!) 💚Lumpy (Happy Tree Friends) [Same reason with Derek above, but it's The Mole x OC x Lumpy instead.] 💚Scaramouche / Wanderer (Genshin Impact) [Not mainly active in Genshin Impact community anymore, but I still talk him depending on my mood. I will not talk romantically about him if you feel uncomfortable/picky with that around you.] 💚Ara (ELSWORD) [Obviously 3rd job due to the current lore timeline, haven't planned with OC yet, but soon!) 💚Cactus (Plants vs. Zombies) 💚Valerie Blaylock (Trauma Center) [Markus x Valerie and Valerie x Cynthia shippers, feel free to interact!] 💚Hachisuka Kotetsu (Touken Ranbu) [Not mainly active in Touken Ranbu anymore, but I'm very rarely talk about that.] Platonic F/O (non-romantic, obviously) 🩵Naoto Shirogane (Persona 4) 🩵Yosuke Hanamura (Persona 4 🩵Zoey (KPop Demon Hunters)

[baitoeyships]

Added Platonic F/Os and updated my F/Os

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Reminder that it’s okay to be aro ace and selfship romantically. It’s okay to be a lesbian and selfship romantically with male characters. It’s okay to be one thing with real people and it’s different with your f/o(s). You’re absolutely valid, and don’t let anyone tell you different!

[hearts4fiction-deactivated20250]

People with moral ocd/moral intrusive thoughts

Your f/os do NOT think you're disgusting or inhumane, they know you get disturbed everytime an intrusive thought pops in, a nightmare comes back, they see how stressed and exhausted you are every day.

If you have an moral ocd nightmare that was horrible and vivid, your f/os will do whatever they can do make you feel better and less triggered.

If their facial hair triggers you? They're shaving iimmediately. If you dont want to be touched? You got it. Want to be held and reassured? They'll do it however long youd like, anything you need.

If you can't get out of bed or out of the house, they'll bring you your meds, something to eat, whatever you want. They'll stay with you as long as you need them to, even do their work in bed with you

Can't shower/bathe but need to? They'll help you only wash your hair, help you clean yourself off until you reach your limits for the day until the feelings pass. Just calmly talking to you or playing a video or music in the background to distract you through it

Afterwards, they'll make sure the spaces to relax are clean and give you your fidgets, sketchbook, snacks or drinks, whatever you desire.

They dont think youre weak or disgusting, they know you cannot control your compulsions or pick your nightmares. They just want you to feel comfortable with them and in your own skin.

Do not steal, reuse or edit. Ib is fine with credits. Not proof read

[baitoeyships]

Nurse4Nurse Art Trade made by @/bea-beast2007

[shitpostships]

happy disability pride month to all disabled selfshippers!! your f/os love you and support you wholeheartedly. they don’t love you in spite of your disability, it’s a part of you and they wouldn’t change a thing about you. your f/os catering to your needs will always be canon because they love you and want to see you happy and healthy. and if your f/o(s) are disabled too, even better!! you both feel so lucky to have each other to lean on, no matter what.

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Imagine being really sensitive and your f/o comforting you after someone hurt your feelings badly. They would bring you into their warm embrace, maybe even hum a comforting lullaby to calm you down as they reassure you that you’re okay.

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If you have a hard time taking your meds, your f/o would always bring them to you and encourage you to take them. Expect 100/10 cuddling sessions afterward.

“Good job, sweetheart. I’m so proud of you. C’mere. I’m not going anywhere.”

[takeyourhands]

self shippers with cluster b disorders: YOU ARE NOT EVIL, YOU ARE NOT UNLOVABLE, YOU ARE NOT HATED, AND I AND YOUR F/O'S WANT NOTHING BUT HAPPINESS FOR YOU

[fictional-others]

For my BPD followers:

Reminder that your comfort character loves you no matter what and will never abandon you, even when you have a shift.

[selfship-help]

shoutout to 'contradictory' selfshippers!

shoutout to lesbian selfshippers who selfship with male / masc characters!

shoutout to gay men selfshippers who selfship with female / fem characters!

shoutout to straight selfshippers who selfship with the same / similar gendered characters!

shoutout to aro/ace selfshippers who selfship romantically/sexually despite not feeling any attraction for it IRL!

orientation is a very complex thing. just because you selfship with characters that don't 'typically align' with your sexuality doesn't mean you aren't that sexuality! you are valid either way, and your f/os adore you regardless!

proship dni plz!

[fengfictofag]

Hate having OCD but I know my F/Os would be there for me and comfort me when I'm stressed out or experiencing awful intrusive thoughts

Fellow selfshippers with OCD, your F/Os love (doesn't have to be romantic) you regardless and would be there for you

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Shoutout to selfshippers with NPD, ASPD, BPD, HPD, SZPD, and any sort of other personality disorder. Your F/O's love you and will always be here to support you. They will always support you through your highs and lows. They will always accommodate your needs, and they will always love you regardless.

Proship/comship/anti antis/variants DNI | Non-traumagenic "systems" / endo supporters DNI