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evoking bertholt brecht’s “the way people cast a play!” quote as a spell against prescriptive, stereotypical, fatalistic typecasting

darkcomedies

idk what to tell you except go look at the fishwives

biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist

getting older can be so amazing? you get more familiar with yourself. learn tips & tricks for troubleshooting your own brain. trial & error helps you build routines that minimize discomfort, maximize reward. your preferences/interests don't get set in stone, but you do find out which ones are going to stay with you in the long-term, and which ones are fun but transient joys to appreciate in the moment.

you learn that the world is so much more complex than you were taught, and that that's okay, and that there's an endless supply of things you can learn or watch or experience or think about if you want to. if you're lucky, you loosen up, stop putting so much pressure on yourself. if you're lucky, you learn to recognize that negative inner voice, and whack it with a baseball bat until it hushes up. if you're lucky, you learn to treat yourself gently, not because you are fragile but because you are worthy of gentleness. (i hope you are lucky.)

and some things will change. some things will get better. some things will get good. and maybe you start to recover from the dehumanizing stress of childhood/education. maybe you learn the power of your own autonomy. maybe you learn how to walk away from bad situations (which is a superpower even if you don't realize it yet). and you get to choose your own clothes. and your own food. and which relationships to pursue! and what you do with your free time. and with your life (but don't worry you get to choose that gradually). and that's crazy! and sometimes scary. and extraordinarily, indescribably precious.

biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist

bitches needed to hear this huh ♥ (you're bitches)

loveridden1999

crossfaded somewhere between "there has to be more to life than this" and "every mundane thing is beautiful when you're with people you love"

nastybabysitter-deactivated2022

i am extremely off putting want to be friends

sandmandaddy69

dogpuppy

papibutch

i hope i'm not just a tumblr blog to you but someone you'd pull into the bathroom at a party to make out with

bryanjamess

glitched-eyes

Haven't seen many people talk about it so I want to say go watch Madfabulous.

Its based on the real life of this guy, Henry Paget 5th Marquess of Anglesey.

As you can see, the man had drip. He inherited his family's fortune at a young age and spent it on jewels, outfits and theatre.

He lived at Plas Newydd, a mansion on Anglesey, and since it's part of the national trust, you can go there yourself. Would recommend it's a gorgeous place. And a lot of the movie is set there.

Having lived a majority of my life on Anglesey, and visted this place so many times, I think it's really cool to see there's a movie which tells the stoey of this figure in queer Welsh history.

Also it's they got a Welsh actor to play him, Callum Scott Howells, which is great to see.

So if you can, go watch it, it was a fun time.