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Yeah, it's time to get this post out again
Last night I dreamt I lived with my parents and they decided to give my dog away because they didnāt want an animal in the house so I had to scramble to find a way to keep my dog and hooo boy did I wake up with a feeling of complete powerlessness I havenāt felt since I was a child followed by a deep gratitude for being an adult.
I love my mom and we always had animals so I donāt know where this scenario came from but never ever take me back to the powerlessness of being a child.
complimented a cashier on her turtle pin this morning and she said "oh thanks, I am a little bit of a Turtle Person" with the carefully contained energy of Cookie Monster telling you he's mildly fond of chocolate chips
I hope she and the multiple tons of turtle merch she definitely has at home are having a wonderful day
i love this metaphor so much i drew it
multiple people have said being warned about inconvenient side effects helps dissuade them from starting substances, so here's a longer list.
if you're smoking it, you are going to be coughing a lot. you are going to be breathless a lot. your breath and smell are gonna be real bad.
if you're going to be snorting it. do you want to have a permanent sniffy nose? this is how you get a permanent sniffy nose.
if you're injecting it. you will develop weird painful spots and also itchiness.
in general: you are gonna be so tired and you will feel so evil and your sleep will not be normal and you will be pooping way too much or way too little and it will also stink and you will have really bad headaches. and your memory will get worse.
with alcohol - you will unlock evil nausea and grogginess and also you will have crazy dreams and general brain fog
with opiates - do you want to be itchy forever. this is how you be itchy forever.
with psychedelics - basically you will never feel hungry or tired again and no matter how much fun you think it is it is actually hell on earth to not be able to reset your body and you desperately need a reset and you have misplaced the button for reset.
with meth and the associated family -- You will feel your heart in places your heart should not be and also this never goes away
also not fun: spending money on things you cannot afford. and the slow realisation that you promised to never lose control. and then you did.
"i already experience these" Great. It gets worse. It gets so much worse.
"well I can't be addicted to stimulants because I have ADHD / opiates because I have chronic pain" I need you to know. This is a lie. The primary difference on why people experience withdrawals is the strength of the dosage. Also ignores the amount of disabled people who ended up addicted because they could not find their medication otherwise.
this post was written by an addict and if you're going to be weird about addiction do us both a favour and don't interact with me
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if we can set aside attachment discourse for a moment (please) i think the jedi marriage prohibition makes sense in a āplease donāt enter a complex legal, financial, social, and in some cases religious contract, the specifics of which vary wildly depending on planet and cultureā way. the single jedi with a law degree does not have time to draft everyoneās prenups to prevent the whole order from getting sued
#we could create so many interesting new problems if we ignore romance and make it about contracts generally#jedi prohibition on getting a loan. jedi prohibition on signing a waiver before bungee jumping. etc
"Qui-Gon didn't try to buy Anakin or the engine because there wasn't anyone in town who offered a credit exchange service" wrong. Qui-Gon gambled for Anakin under the table because after dealing with the Cyrkon Delinquency of 24850, Master Olobi, Esq, has personally promised to hang by the the toes from the highest tower of the Temple for one week any Jedi who generates any trackable legal transaction or obligation between the Order and the Hutts.
āWhen the handle has snapped off the basket that held all your eggsā¦ā gone girl tier monologue
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When you manage a fabric store in a midwest town, you see this played out in real time. Young women coming in during that first year of marriage - when their husbands go to dental college - pert, bubbling with creative plans. Then, four years on, you help them shift to the reality of balancing budget with creativity - and they learn the value of that inexpensive flatfold table that they used to badmouth - to make that 2nd & 3rd baby their own quilts. And they're exhausted. And they're scared. And they are 1000 miles away from family.
And you have your staff play with their kids while you hold them in the tiny restroom as they come completely undone because they just found out that their golden boy husband is having an affair with the someone he's been doing residency with for the past three years.
He confessed that he'd rather be with the other woman but she's of a different faith and it's more important to have kids than to be happy. And no. No he will not grant her a divorce. And he will not stop seeing the other woman - because he's a man. It's his right.
TRUE story.
Also - She was NOT THE ONLY ONE to fall to pieces in our store for similar reasons.
I loath the ideology of "tradwives". It is a false doctrine preach by Patriarchy not a divine being.
It is the nature of evil to hide this way.
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This is 100% what happened to the host mom I've been au-pairing for. And to many other moms my friends have been au-pairing for.
Married out of college, 4 kids, he spent 15 years building up his career while she took care of the house and the kids. When he was earning $600k a year suddenly he started to pull away - she wasn't as pretty anymore, the kids were loud, the house was a mess... She wasn't good enough anymore. He got himself a flat. He got her me and my precedessors to help with the kids. No, they can't divorce, that would make him pay her money for the kids and he didn't like that. Every once in a while a bill would be unpaid. My weekly checks would bounce. We lived in a $1,5mil house around DC and our gas or water was turned off more than once.
Somehow he was always out of money.
By accident she learned from a friend of a friend that he was actually seeing a young lady lawyer for a few years now. It wasn't her, it wasn't lost interest. He was just a piece of shit.
Thankfully, she had family that took no shit and they stood behind her and borrowed her money for lawyers to force the divorce now that she had proof of him cheating. She's spent tens of thousands to get there while he was resisting every step of the way - because without divorce he wouldn't have to pay her alimony, he could just throw scraps whenever he wanted and still pretend to be a good dad.
She's spent tens of thousands and two years to free herself from this man, and when she could finally go to work (thank fuck she finished college) she was earning $25k a year.
She only managed to get away with the support of her parents and family. Through the au-pair grapevine I've known other families like that. Too many. Lady down the street tried to commit suicide when same happened to her - she was from Taiwan and had no support to get free. And people around scorned her for being "dramatic" - women who held on to their places with their fingertips talked shit about her, because their own husbands would never...! Right?
Right?
This? This is the kind of shit that first wave feminists and suffragettes were fighting against. Hell, even into second-wave feminism.
This? Is why conservatives want to take away no-fault divorce--because if some dude says no to a divorce and you don't have any (IRON-TIGHT) evidence of cheating? Then you're stuck in that situation and he doesn't have to pay a drop toward you and your kids. He can go get a flat, fuck his mistress, and you will starve with your kids until you can get some kind of proof of him cheating and a judge who likes you.
Now imagine all of this horror movie shit, AND you can't open a bank account without this piece of shit opening it with you. That was what women dealt with until about the 70s when we were finally allowed to open bank accounts with a man's signature.
That is what conservatives and fundies want to take you back to. When this shit was just the fucking norm.
There are old white guys still alive who remember who damn nice it was when a woman couldn't open a bank account without a man's signature and his dad could go live a double life with a mistress with zero repercussions and oh how they slather and drool for those times. And how they have waxed poetic about these halcyon days to their desperate daddy-issues sons now eager to please and without the social skills or emotional maturity to understand the fucked up nature of it all.
I'm willing to bet there's like 2 or 3 Tradhusbands(tm) out there for every Tradwife you see, they just haven't found someone they can sink their claws into. Which should maybe terrify you. This Tradwife(tm) movement should really be considered a canary in the coal mine.
why is it so hot. why is it so hot. I am being punished.
I'm having my first 24/7 dom/sub relationship with the entirety of the fucking sun
When you meet Edward Elric he gives off the impression that he's the short-tempered hot-headed "violence is the answer to all life's questions" kind of protagonist, and it's in fact incredible character craft that he's actually the character who ends the series with a negative-3 kill count.
people killed: 0
direct orders of "you really really need to kill this guy" ignored: 1
ongoing murders being committed by Ed's own friends/colleagues that Ed got in the way of to specifically stop that murder from happening: 2
God's worst soldier Edward Elric. Showed up as the youngest member of the Amestrian army, took millions of dollars from them, never followed a single order, helped dismantle their fascist regime, left with a lower kill count than he arrived with, then fucked off to go be a house-husband. Character of all time.
iāve been so well-behaved i deserve to light things on fire now
Not to be a bitch but sometimes people engage with fiction in the most boring way possible, and nowhere is this clearer than in videogames. Like what you mean you hate a character just because they were kind of abrasive when speaking to the player character? "They were mean to me" and it didn't occur to you to wonder why? Like, what might their attitude toward you reveal about the world? About the social dynamics within it? About their own perspectives and backgrounds and personalities? Does it even occur you to ask? Would you only have liked them if they bowed to your presence and talked about how great you are? Like I'm sorry but you're so boring. How boring fiction would be if it cathered to you
ohhh my god I just fact-checked, Nolan actually DID cut the "Nobody" scene from his Odyssey movie. Mfer that is like cutting the Father reveal from Star Wars. Let me speak in a language you understand this is like not dressing Batman up in his suit. "It was not possible to work it in" the TikTok musical with a budget of $4 and a scratched Hamilton CD managed to work it in in SONG form, step up your FUCKING GAME
Okay I almost posted this ginormous tome in the comments but I realized it probably just needs it's own fuckin post. So these are the comments that set me off on this (and I'm gonna tag @catching-fire-in-the-wind also, since I'm really agreeing with them here using, as per usual, a whole lot of words)
Of course it is @squishymamasboy, I'm sure it's actually pretty good. Nolan makes good movies that tell good stories, and I like Nolan movies.
But Nolan is also notorious for pretty flat characters with fuzzy and indistinct internal motivations. Nolan's movie characters only exist so that the plot can happen, rather than the plot revolving around the characters' stories - if Nolan could tell stories without using any characters, he would.
It's the difference between, say, Nolan's "The Prestige" and Michael Mann's "Heat" - two stories about (spoilers!) a set of men with a rivalry that eats both of them alive. The difference is that by the end of "Heat" we understand WHY these two men couldn't just let it go and get on with their lives, whereas at the end of The Prestige all we know is that these two guys were really mad at each other and bitter about the whole thing. We never really learn WHY they cared about being The World's Greatest Magician instead of the other guy so much that they were happy to throw their lives away for it. (And no, "my dead wife" isn't a good enough reason on its face. Because it doesn't explain WHY grief motivated the character to destroy someone rather than, oh I dunno, fall into themself and dissolve into an puddle of despair like everyone else. Why one choice and not the other? If the director doesn't explain, then the only answer is "so the plot can happen." That's the kind of storytelling i'm talking about.) They're both excellent movies, I happily own both, but they're fundamentally different kinds of movie. And THAT is the point being made.
The point isn't that it isn't a good movie, the point is that it isn't a good retelling of The Odyssey.
Nolan's is a style that's fundamentally at odds with The Odyssey, which is at its core a story about a person, his physical journey, and what keeps him personally motivated to get home despite literally everything in existence trying to demotivate him - the story being told is not supposed to be "A man goes through a whole lot of crazy shit on his trip home" the story is supposed to be "here's why Odysseus never gives up, even though he has absolutely every right to."
The choice to remove the "Nobody" part of the story is evidence of the fact that Nolan doesn't really seem to get that. Because it doesn't further the action of the plot for Nolan, it is therefore extraneous in his opinion. But it isn't extraneous to the story being told and the man the story revolves around, who canonical sneaks back into the city AS "NOBODY" and relies on that premise to win back his life and his family. Nolan's failure to understand the importance of the pun to the larger story at hand is a huge red flag that indicates he isn't really trying to tell an epic. He's making an ancient-timey adventure movie with explosions and stuff. He may as well have just remade 300 and got it out of his system.
a spiritual successor to āis there cannibalism in hannibal?ā, my new favorite comment on does the dog die, found in the entry for Cronenbergās Crash:
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