bird watcher

I think abt dick grayson a lot dicksteph and dickrose and heldick2 pioneer. But mainly brudick birdwatching on ao3 21 MDNI! PROSHIP! BATCEST!

[wormbraind]

tired of dnis. doing a summoning ritual to attract all the weird socially unacceptable freaks so i can make them my mutuals

[birdw4tching]

I love this show

[three-semicolons]

Do you understand how many of my takes can be summarized by this????

[twistpixel]

you do miss babs dick same haircut. you do miss it.

[birdw4tching]

Why is babs constantly hanging out in dick’s apartment instead of him randomly climbing through her window and bothering her while she’s on her computer. We used to be a country

[birdw4tching]

Every time the titans tried to talk to each other about their problem it went one of two ways

1. “So and so has the same issue as I do. Must be normal!”

2. “So and so is in a situation that I recognize as bad and I have the extreme opposite of that situation. I’m so much more normal than that guy.”

So everyone think they’re the most normal and that’s why they’re like that

[dickgraysonsptsd]

some % of why dick grayson is so appealing to me as a reader who is a rape survivor is that like it is literally just like that sometimes. someone rapes you and you have to go to work and get groceries and do your homework and wash the dishes. sometimes you have to go to work or class or the grocery store with the person who raped you. maybe you don't tell anyone about it for five years and maybe you never tell anyone. you compartmentalize it most of the time because life won't let you put the tasks of living on hold for you to process it, and maybe sometimes you compartmentalize it because that lets you live a life where it didn't happen. literally just a relatable guy

[calebwittebane]

you have destroyed and betrayed yourself for an amazing reason

[imtired-likerllytired]

How dick Grayson deals with conflict

Dick Grayson 95% of the time: hey man you’re overreacting we’re all trying to do some good here so let’s calm down and work through this

Dick Grayson that other 5% : hey man we get it you have crippling ptsd bc of the plan that you fucked up and got your wife killed and we all have to sit here and lie to your face about it and tell you it wasn’t your fault when deep down you know you could’ve done something. And it’s even more sad because she had your pathetic excuse of a man self for a husband? Come on man, she must have been a saint if she wasn’t getting something somewhere else because we all know you weren’t… preforming… and she was definitely unsatisfied. Anyway I guess we’ll never know, sorry did I say we? I meant you because I know? Why? Because of the fact I’m not fucking bad enough at my job to get my fucking wife killed? You ever think about trying to be competent? No? Okay? Just a suggestion

[pigeonsplease]

[birdw4tching]

Dick trying to sound normal about Batman during the titans’ early years: yeah it’s all good sometimes I feel like we’re so intertwined I can’t tell who’s veins my heart is pumping blood through but we’re cool like that

[keysmashslushy]

in my dream world the Roygarth bullying turns lowkey psychosexual and Garth is Roy’s sadist awakening and one day this dawns on Garth and he is Not Comfortable with it

[keysmashslushy]

I need them to be sparring that turns into Roy mocking Garth whenever he gets him pinned (common occurrence) and Garth feels Roy’s half-boner against his hip and there’s a beat of silence as they both decide what to do about it but Roy keeps going and doesn’t acknowledge it and Garth feels slimy sick and is ruminating over it all week and trying to decide whether that was like how he feels

[birdw4tching]

Mr. emotional incest vs Mr. abandonment issues

[dickgraysonsptsd]

hot take but people use “eldest daughter syndrome” to describe Dick even tho it isn’t accurate bc they mean “emotional incest” but don’t want to use the language

100000%!!!! this is also why they don't use spousification and why i think parentification (which refers to inappropriate role reversal with an adult, typically a parent or guardian) is so consistently used in this fandom to mean "parenting a younger sibling" (which is a possible element of parentification, but is not the primary one--parentification is far more likely to be used by professionals and in academic writing to refer to a child "parenting their parent" or acting as a surrogate spouse for a parent).

people are uncomfortable with the reality of emotional incest because it has the scary yucky i word. it's easier to make dick's relationship with bruce about the younger bats and create a (largely non-canon, to my understanding, even in rebirth) dynamic where dick is an overburdened parent figure to them rather than to acknowledge that his relationship with bruce is definitionally inappropriate for a parent and child.

this could be somewhat sidestepped by just not centering the father-son element of bruce and dick's relationship to the exclusion of everything else, but dc and the fandom have both put all their eggs in the father-son basket. when that is the only dimension allowed for their relationship it makes the rest of the established canon of their relationship (which is ostensibly all canon!) emotionally incestuous.

i think batman & robin year one (2024) was an effort to combat this by creating a new early days batman and robin history that isn't emotionally incestuous/inappropriate in light of them being only father-son now (and in light of the us's like cultural obsession with "grooming" at the moment--we can't have "batman creeping on robin" as a potential reading or even as something readers can joke about). but b&ry1 portrays bruce as like... basically not caring about dick. so it is actually worse imo. or at least it pisses me off more

[wonderfultroia]

every time dickbin is drawn with long pants, dark cape, and heavy combat boots an angel loses its wings

[birdw4tching]

*spins fast*

This what I’m talking abt

[birdw4tching]

Would you ever date a fan?

Blades go too fast

[keysmashslushy]

give your 🫵 favorite child character an unsafe secret with an adult in their life. Give that grizzled old character unresolved rape trauma from years ago that they haven’t really touched. Give that young idealistic character a night they’re desperately outrunning. Give the love interest repressed memories that are going to abruptly start manifesting and cause relationship problems. Make the comic relief character molested. Rape your faves now 💥💥💥