Iām a pregnant Latino trans guy and I need help moving out of a harmful environment
Iāve been living with my fiance since January this year, and things have been okay for the most part. His family knows Iām trans, and they were using my correct names and pronouns. Iām 12 weeks pregnant currently.
But recently, my future mother-in-law found out my deadname, and when she found out I was pregnant, refuses to call me a man and has been buying me feminine clothing and products. She calls me by my deadname, out in public, when the place weāre living in is not friendly towards Latinos. She also is extremely mentally unstable, refusing to get help despite her having multiple breakdowns and threats of suicide/homocide a week. This only happened a couple of months ago, so itās a shock to my fiance as well.Ā
And now, my fianceās dad has become hostile towards me. Saying shit likeĀ āI canāt wait for when your tr*nny ass dies giving birthā,Ā āHey that baby better not come out a darkie (in reference to my black grandfather)ā and other heinous shit. I brought this up to his wife, but she only dismissed him becauseĀ āheās veteran have some respect (deadname)!ā
We need to move out, ASAP.Ā
My fianceās job pays only around $1500 a month, and itās only monthly pay, not biweekly. The places nearby that we have to pick from are all expensive and will take half of my fianceās paycheck just to move in.
Hereās what we need money for:
Groceries (for when we move out so we can have food)
Furniture (if the furnished apartments arenāt that much costly weāll probably go with that but this is still a likely necessity)
Utilities (only electric and internet)
And anything else if weāre not able to grab everything in time before his parents come back from a trip.
Please, I donāt normally do these kinds of posts but Iām genuinely fearful for my life and my babyās life. I stay upstairs all day hiding from them, trying to keep out of their way. I only come downstairs when my fiance is home, because I know they wonāt do anything to me in front of him.Ā This isnāt a life.
Hereās my paypal link (itās got my deadname so please ignore it): x
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