Phoenix

24 | she/her | bpd | c-ptsd | lgbtq+ | INFP-T | Main blog: @skylarsgrizzly

[bluest-fluff]

When you've been traumatized in ways that made you question your worth, going through hard or stressful times in the future can make it harder for you to believe in your worth in the present. This is especially true if your present hardships activate past traumas. I'd just like to remind you that your worth is immeasurable and does not diminish even when you cannot see it. You have immense worth. You always did, and you have it still.

[unbearable-swagger]

1hr ago me was wrong btw

[spaceviral-archive-deactivated2]

“Your mental illness is all in your head” where did you think it was????? my ass????

[bunnieborderline]

To my fellow BPD followers.. I know alot of you struggle mentally but I wish you all the best and hopefully some of you will get a break this Christmas, you deserve it.

Happy Holidays Everyone!⛄

Here's hoping next year will be better for you all and remember.. If you're spending it with your abusive family members this year, no matter what they say, your feelings are always valid. Never forget your worth, stay strong!

[bpd-phoenix]

Here I am, completely heartbroken and lost again.

[fairycosmos]

family members will be like 😌 i do not see it 😌 about the years of trauma they caused you growing up but then will never let you forget how moody you were when you were 14

[justabittraumatized]

[thestralboy]

I thought I was getting better but no…

[one-abuse-survivor]

You're not a martyr for raising the kids you chose to have

[valentina-poem]

[exhaustedborderline]

text from @especialty

[honeypleasejustkillme]

what hurts the most about having bpd for me is how far im willing to go for others and i try so hard to understand everyone i come across in my life but it’s never reciprocated and if it is, not to the same degree and it makes me feel so fucking worthless, like i don’t matter enough

[positivelyqueer]

There’s power in telling yourself ”no we don’t do that anymore” in response to self destructive urges.

[malcolm-f-tucker]

I wish people would stop saying “It’s July. Well done for wasting half a year.” Did you make someone smile in the past six months? Did you stroke a cat or throw a stick for a dog? Did you learn a new fact or teach someone a new joke? Did you laugh, cry, scream or sing in the past six months? Because if so, congratulations for not wasting your time at all.

[luftblumen-deactivated20150807]

I really needed this

[theradicalace]

I’m bringing this back for December to remind everyone.

You did not waste your year.

If you made it this far, that’s already not wasting your year.

You made it through the year, you laughed, you cried, you smiled, you saw the sun and felt the rain, and most importantly, you’re still here.

You did not waste your year.

You mad it this far, and I’m proud of you.

[honoriaw]

thank you thank you 

[celexial]

especially important this year!!!!

[chronicallyonlinesworld]

[zolekathearsonist]

Bpd moodswings really are something

[ed-recovery-affirmations]

Shoutout to those of you in recovery who cannot leave toxic homes, families, or towns. It takes a lot of courage and dedicated strength to choose healing every day in the environment that made you sick. I see you, and I hope that someday you are well and free.

[valentina-poem]