I want the Irish Special

This is a NSFW blog and if you're not 18, get off my lawn and go back to Facebook. INFP - Old enough to know better, young enough not to care This is a hate free multi-fandom blog, containing Cut & Run, Supernatural, Teen Wolf (even though I quit watching when Hoechlin left). I may not like your ship, but I won't try to sink it either.

[brainfuzz]

Due to the proliferation of bots, any new followers without a real icon, title or header or a history of posts will be blocked.

If you're sending me a message requesting donations, fundraising, or me to reblog a fundraising/donation post, I'm going to delete it unless I'm following you. I don't care what it's for. I don't have to time to vet these things, nor do I have time to vet the people you say have already vetted you. If you truly need donations or attention on your fundraiser, There is a Radio Free Monday program that will give you a lot more exposure than I can. Go fill out the form.

Edit: Having this post pinned has an interesting effect. It appears that pornbots like the first post on a blog so they seem legit, which also makes this an easy way to block them.

[beardedmrbean]

[fangirlshenaniganrex-deactivate]

REBLOG if you are old enough to remember what a VCR is.

[rhymingwithpurple]

"you think you know supernatural better than jensen ackles?" I think I know supernatural better than god

[brainfuzz]

God didn't know Supernatural. That's why Cas was called a spanner in the works.

[hotgirlcastiel]

[longseasons]

[gwydionmisha]

Bonus: If I buy a book I get to keep it! The publisher can't turn up at my house at random and confiscate all the books I bought.

[shadowen]

This is an anti-despair checkpoint! You must share something you're looking forward to before scrolling on.

[ruinedchildhood]

[dduane]

If you don't want LinkTree putting your imagery into AI... get out now

Just canceled my account (not that I used it that much). But I won’t permit this. Via @unaminh.bsky.social:

IMPORTANT: For any artists/writers/etc etc, using Linktree to point people to their work, from 5 July, they'll be feeding all imagery you use on your landing page into DALL-E by OpenAI.

…Just so you know.

[aceynk]

playing off of tooie @dragongirlsweetie's poll but i want more specific information on the longer end of things.

What is the longest song you have in your library? (not including album mixes, sets, and any other combinations of multiple shorter songs)

< 15 minutes // bald

15:00 - 18:00

18:01 - 20:00

20:01 - 25:00

25:01 - 31:00

31:01 - 40:00

40:01 - 48:00

48:01 - 55:00

55:01 - 65:00

> 65 minutes

Remaining time: 1 day 23 hours

if you chose any options other than < 15 mins / bald, please put the song you are thinking of in the tags!!! thank u ^-^

[baraphalloplastyclinic]

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

[ladyfoxfire]

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

[dressedupliketheking]

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

[ramblingandpie]

Adding: even apart from a breakup... my dad just dropped dead in January (no condolences necessary we were no contact for almost a decade) and apparently he and his fiancée had a financial plan that was "he lives forever or at least outlives her" and uh. She is. Kind of up shit creek! Because his pension stopped. The house was in his name. My sister and I are *fine* hanging onto it so she can stay there but, like, might not be able to because he had a ton of debt and the "sheltering the primary residence of the widow(er) from being forced into being sold" only works if you're actually married!

I mean don't get me wrong he also probably was financially abusive but.

[brainfuzz]

Also if you do become a housewife, get a credit card or the cell phone bill or something only in your name. If you only have joint accounts and your partner is the primary account holder you have no credit history. So if something happens and you’re on your own you won’t be able to buy a car, get a credit card or even rent an apartment because you will have ZERO credit history.

[apolladay]

Were you in band, orchestra, and/or choir in school?

* I was in band, orchestra AND choir

* I was in band and orchestra, but not choir

* I was in band and choir, but not orchestra

* I was in choir and orchestra, but not band

* I was only in band

* I was only in orchestra

* I was only in choir

* I didn’t do any music in school

* see results

Were you in band, orchestra, and/or choir in school?

I was in band, orchestra AND choir

I was in band and orchestra, but not choir

I was in band and choir, but not orchestra

I was in choir and orchestra, but not band

I was only in band

I was only in orchestra

I was only in choir

I didn’t do any music in school

see results

Remaining time: 11 hours 26 minutes

[a-silly-poll-side-blog-yay]

have you ever had a beef with a teacher/prof

yes

no

hard to say

results

Voting ended onJun 3

[lobstabear]

To my 25 - 35 year olds, you've reached the age where people around you are starting to give up on themselves because they think it's too late. Don't let that energy rub off on you. It's not too late.

[knittingontheroad]

I became a tattoo artist at 49.

Married the love of my life at 50.

Got my Class A CDL at 59.

You've got time.

As long as you're breathing, you've got time.

[byjove]

Sometimes I see people from countries with public healthcare systems post videos that are like “This is the reality of socialized medicine. I had to wait in the ER with my sick baby for 4 hours.” “I had to wait 8 months to see a specialist. That’s egregious.” or “They didn’t have a bed for my loved one in mental health treatment.” and it’s like. Come to America babygirl. You can experience all of this and have your insurance deny it and pay thousands and thousands of dollars for it. Like I know healthcare systems in countries with public health can be bad but when I see someone imply they’re bad because the healthcare is universal, I want to jump through the screen and put my elbow on their throat. “The NHS is deeply flawed, therefore we should abolish it and go back to private healthcare. That will definitely make healthcare in this country better!” I am going to Kill You.

[brainfuzz]

My husband tried to use this argument against socialized medicine once. A friend of his has family in Canada and their father needed an MRI with contrast for some heart issues. He lived in some tiny town in Manitoba, and the closest MRI was in Winnipeg. There was a 6 month wait. The friend's sister, however, was a healthcare professional in a hospital in Minneapolis, so she flew him down to her, found a doctor and had the test done. Ultimately it probably saved his life as in hindsight, they don't think he would have lived the 6 months to get the test had he waited.

At the time we lived in New Jersey, where you've got a choice of at least three hospitals in a 30 minute drive, so he was very used to the idea if one place can't see you quickly, try somewhere else. This was his reasoning for hating on socialized medicine. Canada has it, my friend's father would have died under its care because of long waits, therefor it sucks.

Now we live in bumfuck nowhere and I have to drive 30 minutes to find a grocery store and there are only two within that distance. Somehow there are two tiny hospitals also within that distance, but for any specialized care, we have to drive at least an hour. And by specialized, I mean ophthalmologist, cardiologist, allergist, colonoscopy, endoscopy. Routine specialists.Those appointments are at least a 3-6 month wait. Did we suddenly become part of socialized medicine? No (but I've been told that once we're old enough for Medicare it'll get worse) we just moved out to the middle of nowhere, where there aren't enough healthcare options for the amount of people that need them.

Kind of like living in a tiny town in Manitoba and having to go to a city for routine specialized tests.

[your-url-is-problematic]

love the CC function on emails. "you should know about this but you don't have to take care of it."

[your-url-is-problematic]

love the BCC function even more. "you shouldn't know about this but you can eavesdrop. keep it to yourself." ok then 💅✨

[brainfuzz]

Alternatively:

CC: I have asked you repeatedly for something and am now passively letting you know I will not be taking the fall for this when it explodes.

BCC: I have asked you repeatedly for something and gotten no response, and I want someone above my paygrade to see it isn't my fault, but you'll never know until you try to blame it on me.

[hymnism]

making a collection

[putridghost]

Wait I have more

[acemingo]