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this is qhat happens if you like men after June

#one of those two is me #he's so cute #🫒u #gay

Oh shit. Sally Field kinda went off here. “The garment you knit for yourself as a child.” Might have to read her memoir now.

[Chris Dennis]

venusimleder

Vogue UK, January 1998.

Ph. Paolo Roversi

datadegroove-deactivated2026042

yooo how do I get out lol 😂 how do i get out of here 😅😭

feeblepeon

Oh, well I guess I’ve never tried poison berries before

lawoftheclaw-deactivated2025073

Dj poisoned dog

achillesinhighheels

Tinashe wearing her bara yaoi crop top in New York City in 2014

softhe4rted

self-compassion: an antidote to shame mb

parkchanwoohoo

Went down this rabbit hole of a kind of "couple prank" videos where a girl orders some kind of treat and then the boy says he doesn't want anything and the girl panics and demands that he orders something immediately. I could not for the life of me figure out why they were panicking and apparently it's because they'll look fat(?) if they're the only ones ordering?????? You don't have to live like this there is treatment for this probably

parkchanwoohoo

1) I initially thought the first video was cute because in my mind it was like, oh, the boyfriend must love sweets so much that it's horribly uncharacteristic of them to NOT order, hence the girlfriend's panic! But then when she started being like "NO YOU'RE ORDERING SOMETHING RIGHT NOW" I realized there was like. Some kind of other thing going on. And then all the comments were like "Omfg she got a larger size AND hot fudge, she trusted you 😭😭" and I was like?? Trusted you to... what?? When I finally put the pieces together it was so stupid I was like, oh no way, I'm missing a Key Detail surely

2) This is what I mean when I say fatphobia is not about health and I much prefer the mask-off approach of shit like this where fatness is evoked as specter of behavioral laxity and gender failure

parkchanwoohoo

"No you don't get it, despite being visibly thin, simply being SEEN with a large sundae is enough to hint at fatness, at least a spiritual fatness. By eating dessert in a group, suspicions of spiritual fatness can be negated or at least dispersed equally across the group, but if I'm the only person in a group eating dessert, I've thrown a harsh spotlight on my spiritual fatness by showing that I can't even curb my appetites enough to cohere to group behavioral norms!!"

Vs "Aww you don't want to eat anything? Are you full? Your stomach doesn't hurt or anything, does it? Okay, good, if you change your mind later you can have some of mine, but only if I don't eat it all first 😊" IT REALLY CAN BE THAT SIMPLE