[cackled0g]

My name is Dean but you can call me Dean. Pronouns are he/him. I'm part of a system, and if you bother me about syscourse I will be nuking you from orbit. I like punk rock, metal, and hard rock. I'm an adult and post about adult topics, stay away if that bothers you.

I block liberally. If we are not mutuals do not randomly @ me on posts.

If you get a random follow from this blog it might be one of my alters lol.

Feel free to send asks about anything and everything, but keep in mind that I will take forever to answer them.

[markovchaingang]

the for you page is truly an artisinally blended mix of posts i've already seen because i follow those blogs or the most awful posts imaginable from blogs i could've sworn i'd already blocked multiple times already

[markovchaingang]

i can consistently tell whenever tumblr decided to reset my homepage to the for you tab because all the posts fucking suck all of a sudden

[pathologising]

its almost like its completely normal and human to be affected by the things people say to you to a degree

[cackled0g]

All these TERF asses istg

[cackled0g]

*Peacefully* some people are just too stupid to warrant arguing with.

[feluka]

(getting my reactionary views mixed up) how could you get top surgery... that breast could've grown up to solve cancer

[katrafiy]

lol. lmao even

[lesbian-sweeney-todd]

a. Everyone, regardless of gender (embodied or assigned) is taught misogyny and must actively unlearn it.

b. Men — all men — are structurally incentivized towards misogyny. Men who want to be feminists must actively fight the societal forces that push them towards misogyny.

[dakigivemethestrength]

Hot take for the coiner of transandrophobia, but I don't think trans men are female.

I'm not revoking jackshit from a trans man, because he was never female (and therefore is not the intended recipient of female empowerment). This is trans 101. These fucks can't even get that right.

I don't think any man has the right to take revenge, but he will 9/10 times do it anyways. If something literally kills him, then it's not revenge, it's self-defense. Big difference.

I think the men who are abusers statistic is already way too high, and that men actually really need to be empowered to NOT hurt people.

If you as a man want to be celebrated for taking out your anger, they literally made the military just for you.

[alpineprincess]

tme people, when a trans woman is being vocal about grieving the childhood that she never got to have, it is incredibly disrespectful to lecture her about the things that suck about growing up as a girl, because we DID grow up as girls. girls who were deprived at every angle of all the joys we sought, shoved into places and spaces where we did not belong, tortured by a community with a deep hatred of transfemininity.

if your instinct when confronted with a trans woman's grief is to contradict her and "correct" her, you need to do some serious self-reflection about why you believe it's your place to speak over her.

[barbies-modern-cousin]

I knew that the general populations of tumblr hated non-white women with a burning passion only matched by their love of shipping two white guys together but after reading the Kimberlé Crenshaw essay that originally coined "intersectionality" and seeing the way its been bastardized on here legitimately has me seeing red. The way something as simple to understand as, "women who exist on multiple axis of oppression, i.e. black women, often have their unique experiences erased when separate discussions of anti-black racism and misogyny are had" has been warped into "marginalized white people and men face unique discrimination on account of them being [insert marginalized identity] + white/men and if you disagree ummmm haven't you ever heard of intersectionality? *links wikipedia page* checkmate, bigot!"

Like, I am just at a loss for words. I don't know how to explain to these people that marginalized white people and men are not oppressed or neglected on the basis of being white/men, so it's quite silly (and that's being generous) to assert that there is any type of intersection between their marginalized identity and their identity as a white person/man that makes them uniquely oppressed. In fact, in positing such notions you lend credence to fascist concepts such as "anti-white racism" or "anti-male sexism." And when I try to explain this, they will ignore me, hurl misogynistic and racist slurs at me, or most bewildering of all bring up white people and men with additional marginalized identities as a "gotcha!" of... sorts. Either you fundamentally do not understand what I'm trying to explain to you or you're being willfully obtuse, but either way you are twisting the writings of black feminists so that they can fit into your incredibly reactionary worldview and I refuse to engage with you ghouls any further on that basis.

TL;DR: Before you try to lecture anyone, let alone feminists of color or transfeminists (least of all feminists who are both!) on "not understanding what intersectionality is," you should probably read the original essay by Kimberlé Crenshaw first. This may seem like a no-brainer, but alas, it is not.

[xeric-adenium-obesum]

"oppression olympics" WE GOT FUCKING BARRED FROM THE OLYMPICS!!!! AND YOU DIDNT!!!!!! SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!!!!!!!

[orangeskiss]

they should invent an online ftm space that doesnt have this weird childish victim complex rivalry with transgender women

[bunniesrabbits]

going on estrogen will make you like men, going on testosterone will also actually make you like men, breathing and existing in the world will make you like men too actually . what ? you’re a lesbian ? don’t be ridiculous . have you considered that you might just not be far enough in your transition to realize that you’re sexually available to men, actually ? what about men ? have you considered transitioning into being a sex object for men, actually ? after all, it’s only natural .

[kojiutfdryst]

One of the first victims of Epstein to speak out was a Latina transgender girl, Ava Cordero. She was sixteen when she was lured to Epstein’s apartment under the guise of helping her career in modeling. Ava Cordero was mocked, belittled, and denied by the media, her transness somehow overshadowing her status as a victim of assault. The media (Dareh Gregorian and Lucy Carne of the New York Post) specifically somehow spun it as Epstein being a victim of the case and treated her claims as an attempt to defame Epstein. Mind you, the journalists, Epstein’s lawyer (Gerald Lefcourt), and Epstein himself, were able to get away with this specifically because she was a transgender girl.

Trans woman was one of the first to publicly accuse Epstein – she was mocked for it

One of the first people to publicly accuse Jeffrey Epstein of abuse was a trans woman, Ava Cordero – she was mocked for it.

[lesbian-sweeney-todd]

"They hate us all": True! A helpful reminder that assimilation will not save you.

"They hate us all equally": False. An attempt to obscure the ways in which anti-queer policies are disproportionately targeted at trans women, especially trans women of color. A retread of that classic white feminist error of assuming all women have a "common oppression", which obscures race and class differences among women.

[girl-bytes]

you can explain the material things that could be done to make trans women's lives easier, and someone who thinks misandry is real will show up like "that pales in effectiveness to my strategy, abolishing gender". and then they wont abolish gender