Anti-TERF

Trans Male. Sick and tired of TERF/TEHM's bullshit, I do not encourage violence or threats.

[god-of-sporks]

Yay...

We love being called a trender bc yknow. How dare a trans guy wear makeup? God i just want to...look nice. I've been more confident lately....why are ppl such assholes...Like what's so bad with me not being miserable all the time and wanting to look nice. why the fuck are cis men allowed to wear makeup but not me. this is bs.

[greatestbadtimes-deactivated202]

Cis men shouldn’t wear makeup either unless it’s to cover acne.

[god-of-sporks]

yeah no if i wanna look nice I'm gonna look nice. If my fellow guys wanna look nice who gives a fuck. You don't get to tell people they can't wear makeup.

[greatestbadtimes-deactivated202]

Yet here I am, telling people what they cant wear

[god-of-sporks]

Ok but why the hell should you care what people wear or don't wear? It doesn't affect you at all.

[greatestbadtimes-deactivated202]

It does though, it affects us all. The more we “tolerate” degenerate behavior the more society declines

Want to be normal? Want to be treated with respect? Then be a man. It’s not hard drop the makeup

[god-of-sporks]

It's makeup honey, calm down. I am treated with respect, and I'm comfortable enough with myself where I can present how I want.

I don't know where the hell you come from where men wearing makeup is "degenerate behavior", but i think you need to reevaluate some things about yourself. It hurts no one.

I am a man, some stuff on my face doesn't change that. It never will. I'm sorry you're so insecure that you need to take it out on people who are comfortable with themselves.

[greatestbadtimes-deactivated202]

“Calm down” nigga ur going off

[can-terfs-just-stop]

Bruh yr getting heated abt a man wearing makeup...

[greatestbadtimes-deactivated202]

???

[can-terfs-just-stop]

Ya called a guy wearing makeup "degenerate behavior" which makes...no damn sense...could ya explain?

Also like. You got upset about a young trans guy wearing makeup so yeah.... chill a bit?

[god-of-sporks]

Yay...

We love being called a trender bc yknow. How dare a trans guy wear makeup? God i just want to...look nice. I've been more confident lately....why are ppl such assholes...Like what's so bad with me not being miserable all the time and wanting to look nice. why the fuck are cis men allowed to wear makeup but not me. this is bs.

[greatestbadtimes-deactivated202]

Cis men shouldn’t wear makeup either unless it’s to cover acne.

[god-of-sporks]

yeah no if i wanna look nice I'm gonna look nice. If my fellow guys wanna look nice who gives a fuck. You don't get to tell people they can't wear makeup.

[greatestbadtimes-deactivated202]

Yet here I am, telling people what they cant wear

[god-of-sporks]

Ok but why the hell should you care what people wear or don't wear? It doesn't affect you at all.

[greatestbadtimes-deactivated202]

It does though, it affects us all. The more we “tolerate” degenerate behavior the more society declines

Want to be normal? Want to be treated with respect? Then be a man. It’s not hard drop the makeup

[god-of-sporks]

It's makeup honey, calm down. I am treated with respect, and I'm comfortable enough with myself where I can present how I want.

I don't know where the hell you come from where men wearing makeup is "degenerate behavior", but i think you need to reevaluate some things about yourself. It hurts no one.

I am a man, some stuff on my face doesn't change that. It never will. I'm sorry you're so insecure that you need to take it out on people who are comfortable with themselves.

[greatestbadtimes-deactivated202]

“Calm down” nigga ur going off

[can-terfs-just-stop]

Bruh yr getting heated abt a man wearing makeup...

[4hoseok-deactivated20190806]

I havent had any food for nearly two weeks ive been living off of water and gatorade if im lucky i buy $1.75 ramen and just eat that but its making me feel sick.

Its 11:00 at night and i have had no meal and i am going to bed once again without food. I feel that i am selfish for crying and for asking for any sort of help because i feel like i do not deserve anything good so this is difficult for me to ask but i really do need help i have high blood pressure and i cant even afford the medication sometimes i feel light headed and nauseous. Ramen isnt helping me out anymore and i feel like im starting to become more ill everyday and i dont want to be hospitalized again.

Please help

PayPal: [email protected]

Venmo:eunji1997

[4hoseok-deactivated20190806]

this is extremely urgent we received two letters one was from the gas and we are now getting billed $513 with a disconnect still for the gas and light now.

We have had our phones disconnected for a month and i use wifi to call my nurse when i need help for something its my only way of contacting people so if we have no light / electricity then i am completely screwed.

I have a brother who has low functioning autism meaning he acts aggressive when his enviorment is changed but autism varies with each person and hes also very sweet and kind he really loves drawing and his cars and i want to help him the best i can and give him what he needs but it has been hard whatever money i get goes to him first.

I barely have food in our home or just anything really so please from the bottom of my heart please consider donating to help me and my brother out

Paypal: [email protected]

Venmo: eunji1997

Cashapp: parkeunji

[4hoseok-deactivated20190806]

so just about an hour ago our gas was cut off again for the 2nd time in now two months and it stressed me out and I had a full panic attack because I don’t know if our lights are next i dont even have my phone connected so if there’s an emergency I won’t even be able to call someone for help I need $150 to connect it again and I don’t even have it please help me out I’m begging

[4hoseok-deactivated20190806]

Please please help me out my brothers surgery is on Tuesday and i dont want to be in a home with no lights or gas it’s 90 outside it’s hot and we have no air conditioning

[b00bconnoisseur]

Holy shit shit shit i dont have a card or anything to help donate but i still wanna help boost this

@masochist-incarnate @dirtysocke @not-my-brain @a-world-to-burn @thatoneemobooknerd @loraznerd @im-hella-anonymous @dontyoustealmyusername @miner0rw00zer @leg-stealing-bee @queen-baelin @kingantlion @kinda-clouded-mind @mia-bean @scarredandsick @biggest-goofiest-fish @timetravelingcacti @the-collector-of-souls @ everyone can u help me boost ??

[candeladlr]

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[chronicallyvegan]

Science finally supports that we are all born as blank slates and gender is merely a construct

Last month a study on the human brain showed that we were wrong: brain structure is not gender-specific.

[zvaigzdelasas]

If any of my followers believes that “brain sex” is a rigid and well defined category check this out

[spyderbones]

I actually did a study on this in my freshman year of university!

I had to give a ten minute presentation on gender and a) how it’s different from sex, and b) whether or not there’s such thing as a “male” and “female” brain.

I found COUNTLESS studies supporting the idea that the brain itself is unisex- there is very little, if any, difference between “male” and “female” brains, with one exception. I’m by no means a neuroscientist but this is what I understood from this particular article: there’s this tiny part of the hypothalamus (a small part of the brain) that has neutrons in it, and the number of neutrons varies. HOWEVER, when the brains of cis men and women and trans men and women (who had not taken hormones for years prior to the time of death) were studied, it was found that the cis men and trans men had almost identical average neutron counts, and the cis women and trans women had almost identical average neutron counts. So if you’re DMAB but realize at some point that you’re a trans woman, as far as your brain is concerned, you ARE a woman! The same goes for DFAB trans men (intersex/nonbinary individuals weren’t studied, unfortunately).

TLDR; Your brain doesn’t care what you were “born as”, only what you really are!

[grace-and-ace]

I’m currently reading a fantastic book that goes through and debunks old studies that “find evidence” to support gender roles. SPOILER ALERT: they were all poorly done studies and their evidence is unsupported bullshit.

[strengthins0lidarity]

Y’all terfs hear that?

(Hopefully not cause I don’t want them on my blog.)

[can-terfs-just-stop]

TERF/GENDER CRITICAL BLOCKLIST

To preface this, don’t be idiots and don’t threaten people. Thank you.

@a-terf

@diagnalley

@radicallyaligned

@liberatingwomenisrad

@feministvenus

@astrolo-bitch

@discyours

@wildwomanradfem

@pussylovingbutch

@radicalfem-positivity

@terfrific

@radlatinxz

@sursulapitschi

@radfemetc

@magical-woman

@spill-the-gender-tea

@radfem-tomato

@mspollutedstar

@postmaleones

@newly-impassioned-soul

@radicalnova

@afabist

@womyn-first

@allbymyradself

@radicalfeminismisback

@s-the-empress

@yonic-blossom

@radfem-moira

@girlsfrommars

@grlreign

@radjuniper

@gravebian

@womyn-are-rad

@criticalandpissedoff

@radgoblin

@lez-exclude-men

@cisthoughtcrime

@virago-presenting

@watermelinoe

@manhattanrf

@the-bisexual-veg

@bitter-badfem-harpy

@tervenity

@omgwlw

@aferret

@menalez

@sunn-bunny

@lovely-medusa

@niceterf

@actualfeminism

@terfspace

@paganterfs

@uteruslesbian

@told-everyone-real-facts

@galpatines-before-palpatines

@fempersephone

@radicalneptune

@terf--of--the--day

@sunbrightstarlight

@chocostaline

@witchywymyn

@gynonychus

@tiredbutexcellentreadingfriends

@terfcicle

@ignis-divine-eleison

@haroldtheyrewuhluhwuh

@ms-hells-bells

@thewitchofwentworth

@bisexuelldoe

@floralsbian

@swerfnterf

@radfemtwitter

@auntiewanda

@totallyradicalblog

@radicalfirestone

@raging-rad-feminist

@tooiconic

@radowl

@a-room-of-my-own

@empanado-feliz

@radfemichigan

@cottagelore

@vajazzled-vagina

@kennysblog2

@uterii-my-duderii

@leftistmagneto

@radicaltomie

@phrogwithablog

@sapphic-schizo

@radfeminist-suggestions

@rad-feminism

@celtyradfem

@old-school-butch

@gender-critical-appspot

@millenialsfabwlw

@latina-and-rad

@the-radical-buzzard-of-discourse

@radicaleverything

@liberatewomyn

@femaledevil

@smol-feminist

@naturerad

@gynocrattweetsandreciepts

@forrest-lesbian

@capricornflakes

@yesfeministsarerad

@bigmeansweatydyke

@aurorevallee

@kyuarad

@cheif-urbosa

@a-broader--sensibility

@cisbitch

@clitorcrit

@terfspace

@islamissexist

@rad-fem-fatale

@wetmeadow

@radfemblack

@priestesssappho

@lavender-hopes-dreams

@radredrecluse

@evil-terf-hands

@transreceipts

@kuhweerz

@fckyourconversiontherapyrhetoric

@deathsgreenhorse

@vanillaandproud

@butchfeminist

@prozacsnorter

@parttimepup

@cantweave-toogay

@theflowerlesbian

@kaijuu-baby

@lesbian-sera

@wayward-womyn

@our-radical-thoughts

@bedhed

@loving-bouquet

@yourgenderisfake

@criticalqueenlesbian

@7866890

@translesbophobia

@transactivistsitow

@liberalgayman

@technically-not-a-terf

@butchnymph

@sighingtirf

@revengeofthehorsegirl

@baehraini

@topsy-tervy

@lafemmfatale

@lesbian-ed

@fagdaze

@probablyaterf

@gentlyradical

@vtervs

@eowyn-is-a-radfem

@neneyne

may update in future.

[thetroublesofbeingtrans]

GC2B Pride Month Binder Giveaway

For pride month, I’ve decided I’ll do a gc2b binder giveaway! Please note that the main target audience for this giveaway are trans people who are minors or otherwise unable to obtain one on their own, who have families who would not aid them in getting one by other means. Obviously I cannot screen for every single person who enters the giveaway, but I would hope that those who consider entering can try to understand the purpose of this giveaway.

Finding a binder that was cheap, accessible, and safe when I was first transitioning was really difficult for me, and I want to help someone out there who might be in a similar situation.

This giveaway is only available to those in the U.S, as I’m planning to open one for other territories later on in the year. 

All reblogs until July 1st at 12:00am EST will count for this giveaway

How to enter this giveaway: 

Reblog this post

In the tags, put “thetroublesofbeingtrans giveaway” if you’re entering or “thetroublesofbeingtrans boost” if you’re simply boosting the post.

If you win, you will be able to choose any gc2b binder, tank or half, in any color you’d like. 

Good luck!

[abdulraveman]

[the-book-ferret]

Same.

[can-terfs-just-stop]

@quinnthemastermind LOOK AT THE BABY

[queerlection]

[Image description - Image of the nonbinary pride flag with the text: Valid even if I don’t pass. End description.]

Please support me on kofi if you are able to <3

[can-terfs-just-stop]

@quinnthemastermind u are valid even on days u dont pass

[marauders4evr]

Do you have any triggers?

Jello, Popsicles, Soup Broth. 

[marauders4evr]

Nah, I never joke about Jello, Popsicles, and Soup Broth…

[marauders4evr]

Indeed, I am!

I’m a disability advocate whose triggers are Jello, Popsicles, and Soup Broth. 

[marauders4evr]

I legit just lost a follower over this. 

They must be really big fans of Jello and/or Popsicles and/or Soup Broth. 

[marauders4evr]

For those who have trouble detecting sarcasm - the last sentence about them being fans of said foods was sarcastic. But a few people have really unfollowed me over this. 

The other three replies, including the original, are serious. 

Jello, Popsicles, and Soup Broth are my legit triggers. I would never joke about that. 

I know it sounds bizarre. But trust me, I’m serious. 

(I’m also not a big fan of fluorescent lights.)

[marauders4evr]

It should be noted that I haven’t received this many death threats since the Great Snape War of 2013. 

[marauders4evr]

This is by far my favorite reply:

[marauders4evr]

All right, folks, take your seats, because class is now in session! Let’s have a little talk…

Yeah, yeah, I know it’s Saturday, but learning is fun.

I’ve had seven surgeries in my lifetime and will probably have many more in the future. And one such surgery, which happened about nine years ago, involved really fun (*sarcasm*) things like tubes that are shoved up your nose and end up in your stomach (I know, I didn’t think it was possible either until they did it), eight gallons of really disgusting fluid, pain, lots of pain, and the direct order that I had to evacuate every single bit of food that was inside me.

And that was before the surgery even began!

After the surgery, I had to stay in the hospital for about a month.

And I was on what’s called a clear-liquid diet.

What’s a clear-liquid diet?

For this particular hospital:

Water, Jello, Popsicles, and Soup Broth.

A meal that was delivered to my hospital room three times a day.

That’s all I was allowed to eat.

For those of you who enjoy doing math: I was in the hospital for a month, which is roughly 30 days. I had to eat this meal three times a day. That’s 90 bowls of soup broth, 90 containers of Jello, and 90 Popsicles. Ninety times I had to eat these things. In the span of a month. 90.

Which means that nine years later, I am actually physically unable to eat these three items without vomiting. It’s a sensory trigger.

So why didn’t I talk about this from the beginning instead of enduring four death-threats, six unfollows, and nineteen messages/comments (not including the death threats and the ones that just said ‘Popsicles, Jello, Soup Broth’ over and over again)?

Well, there’s two reasons.

A.) I don’t have to. People don’t ever have to explain why something is triggering to them. Once they say that it is, it should just be a given.

And

B.) The above comment is right. I am a disability advocate. And part of that advocacy includes advocating on behalf of people with triggers. And so, you’ve all been part of a social experiment for the past few hours - an experiment to see how people react when they see that someone has really bizarre triggers (out-of-context).

And I’m a bit sad to say that many of you have failed. Even other people with triggers and/or other advocates. 

So listen because this is really important:

I know that triggers are a sensitive subject and I know that there are people out there who do joke about them.

But there are even more people out there who have triggers that seem really bizarre and even silly.

And you know what?

You cannot invalidate those triggers.

You cannot assume that someone is joking, you cannot assume that they’re mocking other people with triggers that are more commonplace or ‘sensible’, you cannot assume that they are anything less than genuine.

If someone tells you that they have a trigger, you need to believe them, no matter how bizarre it might seem.

Class Dismissed.

[xxdevilbydaylightxx]

[starmansymphony-moved]

WAIT

JOKER CANONICALLY STOLE THE INVITE

WHO WAS IT ORIGINALLY TO

[gorps]

He fucking stole goku’s invite

[can-terfs-just-stop]

@quinnthemastermind

[cupidurl-deactivated20200725]

[can-terfs-just-stop]

@quinnthemastermind

[leland-chapman-the-bounty-hunter]

Since this site is going tits up (literally), I am going to create a bandom Discord server. Reblog this post if you want a link to it. 

[yoongis-toosh]

“ if i killed myself tonight, the stars would still appear, the sun would still come out, the earth would still rotate, the seasons would still change … so why not ? “

no

do not tell me

your best friend

would not sit at your lunch table

for three fucking days

just staring blankly at your old seat

wishing you were there

to fill that space with laughter.

do not tell me

your younger brother / sister

would not break down

in the middle of class

because you guys started talking

about your favorite subject in school.

do not tell me

your mother

would not stare into the mirror

with trembling lips

wishing she could be

bringing you home from the hospital

rather than escorting you away

in a casket to the nearest graveyard.

do not tell me

your father

would not begin working the night shifts

to distract himself

of the silence at home

because you’re not up

until the ungodly hours of night

talking to “what’s—their—face”

on the phone

because you guys love each other.

do not tell me

your partner

would not go into your room

and put on the last hoodie you wore

trying to desperately imprint

your scent into their skin

so they never forget your smell.

do not tell me

your friends

would not stare blankly

at the gymnasium wall

after the principal

has announced your death

to the entire school

making no sound

trying to convince themselves

this is just another one of your jokes.

do not fucking tell me

this bullshit line

of how the stars would still shine

the sun would still appear

the earth would still rotate

and the seasons would still change

because without y o u

lil beautiful piece of human being

none of these people would want any

of that to happen.

——————————————————

cred.

[can-terfs-just-stop]

fuck

im about to cry

i really fuckin needed that

[can-terfs-just-stop]

doot doot

[libraunlocked]

[gremlins-2-the-new-batch]

they….. they made no nut november legally binding….

[vriska-coded]

*laughs in mobile user*

[can-terfs-just-stop]

Still doesnt unlock it. all the tags are clear anyways. no more being horny ya thots

[coelasquid]

This whole “trust Tumblr blindly” thing is eventually going to kill someone, as I became pointedly aware of on one occasion I was making fun of how poorly a particular bleach-based drain declogger was working on my sink and got a chorus of really dangerously misinformed people telling me to pour vinegar in after it because all cute little cool kid diy home care blogs they’re following talk about vinegar like it it’s the big secret the cleaning companies don’t want you to know.

And I cringed knowing that someday, some Well Actually expert who read a blog article once is going to give that advice to someone who unfortunately didn’t take high school chemistry and isn’t aware that MIXING VINEGAR AND BLEACH MAKES CHLORINE GAS.

[death-limes]

holy fucking jesus tits reblog to save a life

[can-terfs-just-stop]

boost this shit

[tonights-episode]

tonight’s episode: THE WRITER’S BARELY-DISGUISED FETISH

[bugcore-moved-deactivated201902]

[aquatic-sardonic]

give 1 good example of a fetish in that show!

[bugcore-moved-deactivated201902]

i can name a few