feminist killjoy @cassandra-first - Tumblr Blog

Texas Democrat 🤠Radfem but not a separatist. Bisexual and hetero partnered. My job is working with domestic violence victims.

Anti-prostitution, Nordic model advocate

Anti-pornography

Anti capitalist

Anti-surrogacy

To say that the female body isn’t the site of female oppression is to deny the very facts of patriarchy. Sex based oppression is real

#pinned

kiefbowl

time for some observations

kiefbowl

you end up spending more time with coworkers than your actual friends and family. that's such utter bullshit. I didn't choose these fucking people lol

kiefbowl

2. people call shit "fake food" or "not real food" and then eat it anyway. if you really believed that you wouldn't eat that. stop moralizing snack food!!! just eat the cheetos in peace pls

kiefbowl

3. it's foggy out right now

kiefbowl

seinfeld voice: what's the deal with all this fog? it's like a cloud you can walk through. you ever seen this? a cloud on the ground? you're supposed to be in the sky!

kiefbowl

4. male comedian must be the easiest shit job in the world. they'll literally just stand there and tell you their weekend plans and everyone is like guwaff guwaff guwaff you hear this guy? I know, he said that!!! he said bitches be shopping hahaha

kiefbowl

I used to think stupidity was largely a myth. that we all struggled at times with a lack in judgement and a gap in knowledge. that all human minds were capable. this year has challenged me on this belief.

5. my coworker A***** is the dumbest person I've ever met. and she's rude to me. for no fucking reason.

kiefbowl

6. it's only 3 o'clock. I feel like I've been at work for 10 hours already. and I rolled in late. I'm in the torture tesseract I think

huariqueje

Fireworks over Lake - Mia Bergeron , 2026.

American, b. 1979 -

Acrylic on flat panel , 6 x 6 in.

despazito

radfemtextandart

helenvaughans

📢📢📢

niiwa-angel

I work with homeless people and illiteracy is often a major part of why they're in that situation in the first place. If you can't read the forms you need to fill out for housing, social assistance, or medical care, you don't know what you're signing up for. If you can't read job applications, you can't know if you qualify for a job or not. If you can't read, you can't fill out a resume or a job application properly.

Not only that, you can't be warned about the dangers around you. My area has several places putting up warnings about drug poisonings and tainted drug supplies in the area, but that doesn't matter because most of my clients are reading at a 3rd grade level (if that) and can't read the words like carfentanyl let alone know what it means for them. We put up signs with instructions on how and when to use Narcan but if my clients can only follow instructions through pics, those words are useless.

My clients end up in hospital a lot and are often released with a pamphlet of instructions for how to take care of themselves once released. They may as well print out the instructions in Russian for all the good it does for my clients, who can't follow along! They cannot understand the tasks they are supposed to be doing for their health and it means that they often end up as frequent flyers in the ER for ailments a literate person would have been able to tend to on their own.

I could get more into this and maybe I will one day, but if we really want to do something about homelessness, we need to be doing something about the literacy crisis.

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capacity2

They’re on Reddit saying texting “hi” is low iq and gives people the ick and that’s why they got ghosted. They don’t let u say hi no more….. we’re in a loneliness epidemic bc everybody is a weirdo about every little thing im cracking up

la-vie-en-lys

If you say "hi" and that's it you sound like you don't give a shit. Why would I want to talk to someone who won't even introduce themselves properly? Make an effort or suffer your loneliness epidemic.

capacity2

You people are crazy . You’re just crazy. This isn’t a normal world anymore

auttumnleafs

It's poor netiquette. If someone sent you a letter in the mailbox that just said "hi" would that not drive you insane?

capacity2

I would send hello ^.^ back ….. and feel warm inside

haleyhalcyon

I would tear it into pieces with my hands.

Who the fuck are you?

Fuck you for the anxiety you gave me from getting a letter from a name and address I don’t recognize.

Fuck you for the time you made me waste having to open that letter.

Fuck you for the complete bullshit feeling of finding out that you literally just wrote “hi” and expected that to communicate anything or resolve anything.

I don’t know your stupid douchebag ass, and I don’t want to. Fuck all the way off.

I’m here all pissed off just from imagining that hypothetical. It’s nothing short of disgusting that SOME shitheads think that this is acceptable behavior.

capacity2

You need to be euthanized

classyflame

Did y'all like, know, that it's incredibly weird to start up a novel right at answering the phone? It's a good way to get accidentally flagged as a telemarketer or something.

You say hi. You start with hi in a conversation. DMs and similar are conversation areas. This isn't even about emails and letters.

People are out here ready to tear apart some stranger in the street for saying hi to you and y'all wonder why you're alone 😭

haleyhalcyon

Stepping up to a stranger on the street, yelling “hi” at them, then standing there in silence staring at them makes you a creep.

please don't say just hello in chat

Web chats are asynchronous. By the time the other person even sees your meaningless “hi”, you may be AFK or asleep.

You wouldn’t just call someone, say “HI”, then sit in silence and make the other person ask you who you are. No, you say “This is [name], calling you about [topic].” within the first few seconds.

You wouldn’t just mail someone a letter in an envelope, just to write “hi”, and make the other person send you a reply to ask you who you are. No, you put your whole message right there in that letter.

Even in real life, you wouldn’t step up to a stranger and blurt out “HI”, then stand there grinning like a creep and staring right into their eyes to pressure the other person to ask you who you are. No, you start the conversation up with an ice-breaker, like a compliment, the question you actually want to ask, or just a rhetorical small-talk question.

This isn’t demanding you to “start a novel”. This is telling you to actually start a conversation like a normal fucking human being can. This is basic manners.

You people are terminally self-centered and have no respect for the time, social battery, and boundaries of others.

P.S.: On a similar note to “No hello”, here’s “Don’t ask to ask”:

hi

hi 👋

hiiiiii❤️❤️❤️

ummm buddy don’t you know that conservatives view two adult women who want to get married exactly like how they view men in diapers who post online about wanting to get raped by dogs ? better start defending them or you’re next

gnomebutch

g1rluninterruptedd

everything will become a dog whistle soon. y’all keep letting these males infiltrate our language, spaces, and communities. there will be nothing else for us.