People need to learn the difference between someone who is actually maliciously toxic, vs someone who just doesn't know
A LOT of people are "toxic" purely by accident because they don't know better, or maybe they are aware and they're healing but they made a mistake or they just don't know everything yet
Maybe someone's opinion or take is truly malicious, or maybe they're hurting or misinformed and no one took the time to actually sit, talk, and explain.
Maybe your friend is "using you as a therapist" or maybe, they're just coming to you in trust because you're supposedly their friend and your boundaries are just shit, that's not their fault
Maybe your partner is using weaponized incompetence, or maybe they were just genuinely never taught a certain set of life skills cause some parents are shit
Taking the time to just hear someone out and see their point of view can do a lot, instead of immediately jumping to false pop psychology and cancel culture
Some people are malicious and horrid and don't wanna change. Some people aren't.
Im so sick of this bs going around just cause people are lazy, it's harming FAR more than it's helping