Realized today in therapy that I have a serious mental block when it comes to thinking/talking about my body as a physical thing. Every time our sessions go in that direction I freeze up and stop talking.
Iâm sure thereâs some trauma behind it. Itâs just unsettling. My mind totally shuts down. Iâm scared to see whatâs hiding behind that block.
How do you describe something like your own mind shutting itself out of a piece of itself? I thought I held the keys.
Parents told Nottinghamshire registrarâs error on birth certificate cannot be changed
A newborn baby girl will have to go through life with the wrong sex on her birth certificate after a registrarâs error, which her parents have been told they cannot change.
Grace Bingham and her partner, Ewan Murray, were excited to register their first child at the Sutton-in-Ashfield Registration Office in Nottinghamshire last week. But, after nights of broken sleep, they failed to notice the registrar had written the wrong sex on the birth certificate until after it had been submitted.
âWe were horrified but assumed that, as we saw the mistake just a few seconds after it had happened, correcting it would be an easy matter,â said Murray. âBut although the registrar apologised for her mistake â and the area manager also apologised â it turns out that birth certificates canât be changed.â
this article is interesting because it demonstrates that cis people can very easily apply structural thinking to sex assignment - this couple immediately identifies that their daughter, having mistakenly been assigned male at birth by the registrar, will have administrative problems in employment, education, travel, and so on. they pretty adeptly identify the foundational role that sex assignment plays in the administrative and civil functions of a state, and how incorrect sex markers effectively produce a ârationalâ reason for discrimination within these administrative and civil arenas:
The General Register Office (GRO), which is responsible for administering all civil registration in England and Wales, and the Home Office have both confirmed that Lilahâs birth certificate cannot be reissued, although an amendment can be made in the margin of the original document.
But Bingham said this is not enough. âPeople reading a birth certificate might easily miss a tiny note in the margin â which means that Lilah could be regarded as male when she applies for school, her passport, for jobs â for everything that she needs a full birth certificate for.â
And given that this was published in The Guardian, this article makes zero mention as to why itâs impossible for this couple to receive an updated birth certificate with correct information (something the author notes was possible to do a year ago), but the reason is obviously transphobia.Â
Now one might ask why thereâs no exception for cis people whose birth certificates were recorded incorrectly at birth, but this reveals the instability of cissexualism. How would you determine who is a cis person with a mistaken birth certificate, versus a trans person who wants to change their mistaken sex assignment record? Sure, you could say well, this is an infant, of course sheâs âreallyâ âbiologicallyâ female (something the parents argue in the article as grounds for having their childâs birth certificate re-issued), but 1) that certainly canât be argued for in all cases, 2) 'biological sex' is understood by medical doctors as alterable through hormones and surgery, which trans people are often required to undergo in order to change their records, and 3) binary sex assignment is already imprecise and discretionary, particularly if infants have sex characteristics that donât conform to binary F/M assignment standards (which is part of how the category of intersex emerges, framing this failure to conform to state census categories as a biological defect - and in fact, many intersex people do not discover they are intersex until the onset of puberty or later, at which point they are even less in luck if they want to change their sex assignment - and if they donât, if they are cis but have sex characteristics that do not conform to cis standards, they will be discriminated against anyway).Â
Even setting aside the issue of transgender and intersex people for a moment, states fuck up all the time in administration! you've probably either experienced this directly or know someone who's had some kind of record fucked up by the government at some point in their life. If you get married they could fuck up changing your last name, fuck up your disability status, record your social insurance number wrong, print the wrong address on your driverâs license, fail to acknowledge you as a dependent when filing taxes, incorrectly mark you as having graduated when youâre still a student, fuck up your immigration paperwork, record your name wrong during immigration, etc etc into infinity, and this is not even getting into errors that occur when different levels of government pass information between one another. This level of administrative rigidity is purely to punish people who fail to perform cissexualism correctly, and in the case of this couple's child, the administrative error of the state is imputed to them as a personal failure that she and her parents will now have to deal with for the rest of their lives.Â
I think the ultimate analysis is not that transphobia will become less precise and hit more "wrong" targets as it expands its reach, but that this is the exact same operational logic as all other liberal state measures - if you encounter a systemic issue, itâs your fault for not avoiding it, fuck you, go away. Youâre poor because youâre lazy, youâre unhoused because youâre lazy, youâre disabled because youâre lazy, and your daughter is now administratively transsexual because youâre lazy. In this case, we donât even need to assume the intentions of the state - they outright say it:
The family complained to the GRO but was told the mistake was their responsibility and could not be fully rectified. âThe duty to ensure that information recorded in any particular entry is true is the responsibility of the person providing the information and not of the registrar general or the registrar recording the birth,â the GRO said.
But it never says that, it just asks you wich one is greater and the text ends there, wich leads you to thinking that one indeed has greater value then the other, and that the one with the greater value is the answear
âWhat transness and especially a pre-transition dysphoria actually feels like, to me at least, is much more internal and intangible. The language that I use to try to talk about it is language that I'm borrowing from the surrealism of David Lynch â the dreamlike nature of his films â or the body horror of David Cronenberg.â â JANE SCHOENBRUN, I Saw the TV Glow writer/director (x)
Reblog if you would be comfortable living in a dormitory with an openly transgender or intersex individual. Weâre working on a campaign for gender neutral housing and we could use your support.
"Trans women are actually women for real, not in a metaphorical sense, not in a "anyone can be anything" sense, but genuinely actually make more taxonomic sense to classify in the category of women than any other group" is a position you'll find is pretty radical even in queer spaces
A lot of people who'll say "trans women are women" treat it more like a concession that they're making to be nice, rather than a factual observation about the world.
Once at work someone was running a women's leadership training thing. I asked if it was trans inclusive and she proudly said it was because it's open to "women and people who identify as women".
She was shocked by the question "who are the people who identify as women but aren't?"
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