lies about adulthood/ esp your 20′s
hi! i’m almost 22 and as we all know about things that are supposed to magically resolve themselves and what not, here’s a list of things i realized (feel free to add on!)
pimples, acne, etc. will not miraculously disappear once you’re 18 or 21
you will not just know about contracts just because you’re older
same for insurances, taxes and all that bureaucratic jazz
living on your own does not mean living like a ninja turtle
you gotta figure out what you can cook, bake, etc.
tv and internet costs more money than you think it does
periods will still fuck you up if you have an uterus and are over 18
the mindset “you are an adult now so you’ll be fine on your own” is not true, please talk to others and don’t isolate yourself thinking you’re a failure
living in a shared flat can be awful
so can be living on your own
you gotta find what suits you and this is just trial, error, repeat
everyone will be on a different level, comparing yourself to others your age or just in your field of study/work can be disheartening if you think you should be like or better than them
you don’t have to be better than anyone else, you are just fine
don’t feel guilty about “procrastinating”, rest is not a bad thing and relaxing for a while, an hour, two days, is NOT bad
keep an eye on your mental health, adulthood as the solution to teenage moods/ whatever is bs and you still need to check on yourself