I've had to remove a lot of internet people from my online life in the last year+, but the one whose reason I still boggle over is the one who decided that safe building standards are Jewish oppression of poor people.
Not sure I'll ever get over that one. Literally a case of "You self-built your house out of things that are going to go up in flames if someone looks at them wrong and fall over in a harsh wind, the electric needs to be up to code, etc etc." being taken as a sign of Jews oppressing people.
Oh and also the person who thought it was Imperialism (tm) and Cultural Genocide (tm) for Israelis to use Hebrew terms for things instead of Arabic terms. Can't believe I forgot that one.
But at least those two were straightforward. The one that gave me the most stress is the one where I just couldn't tell.
They'd post a lot about humanitarian problems in Gaza. They'd post fundraisers that I could not tell if they were funding terrorism or not; they didn't post any of the truly obvious scams.
They never made any posts that made it clear they understood that there was a lot of money going into Gaza and it was going to Hamas. That they understood that Egypt had a closed border with Gaza.
They never posted anything about the pain and suffering of the captives. They never posted anything about the pogrom. They never posted about any of the problems any Israelis were facing.
All they posted about was the humanitarian problems in Gaza. Which certainly exist.
I lived with that stress of it, waiting for them to unmask as an antisemite, for a long time, before I gave up and just stopped. Because it's possible that the only people they possible cared about were Gazans and they weren't going to be antisemitic about it, but... on the other hand, if the only people in this that you care about are Gazans, then I'm not sure how you are morally different from the first two people.
But was this the right decision? I suspect not. But-- it removed a great deal of stress from my life, always wondering, but not wanting to get it confirmed that yet another person who I greatly respected thinks that Jews don't count, and always wondering if this would be the day, if this would be the moment, when I'd find out.
I chickened out but yet, I'm not exactly chickening-in to go discover what has happened in the interim.
Ah, Eurovision. When else will a bandom tumblr suddenly take a violent swerve, declare a wish for a violent death upon a singer, and scream fuck zionists free palestine. And then go back to bandom blogging as if that's a socially acceptable thing to say. Which in that person's world, I guess it is.
The one liberal politics blog that hasn't gone full Hamasnik, and because of which I contribute money to it monthly, has now decided that Greta Thunberg is a victim and not to blame for, *checks notes*, a publicity stunt in a war zone that has not hurt her in the least and certainly helped her continued grandstanding and publicity-hounding existence.
Turns out I'm still not immune to "oh shit, this one person I thought was okay just reblogged a post calling all Israelis 'settlers'. Oh no oh shit oh no, I was rooting for you, I was so hopeful, nooooo".
Hoping and praying this was an aberration. I don't want to lose someone else. This is the last person from that fandom I'm still following, the rest immediately became October 8th Nazis.
Please let this not be a sign. Please let this just be a random reblog. Please.














