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🔮My Posts are Feminist/ Feminist friendly.

Do not use my posts to put your Anti-Feminist views.

Do not use my post to dismiss Female problems.

Do not use my posts to mock Feminism.

I don't share your misogyny. They are not for you to replace them with your shenanigans.

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So I've been thinking.

In the Hogwarts universe, it's canon that unintentional magic happens when emotions are strong, even if the person is in a high grade.

So imagine BPD kids breaking windows constantly in their rage episodes or burning curtains out of excitement or in a euphoria episode.

They also would, by logic, be the strongest wizards. 🐍

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guys. please. for the love of god.

STOP EXCUSING BAKUGOU MITSUKI’S TREATMENT OF HER SON

you shouldn’t excuse masaru either, but she’s the main problem.

this isn’t cute. it’s not funny. and it’s definitely not good parenting. this is a mother hitting her child and telling him that his traumatic experience was his own fault for being “too weak”. it’s not acceptable, ever. period.

this is the result of her parenting. bakugou flat-out says that his parents (probably just his mom) used violence to put him in his place.

we also have yet to see any sign that masaru did anything to prevent this

BAKUGOU MITSUKI IS AN ABUSIVE MOTHER, BAKUGOU MASARU IS A NEGLECTFUL FATHER, AND TODOROKI’S ABUSE BEING WORSE THAN BAKUGOU’S DOES NOT CHANGE THE FACT THAT BAKUGOU KATSUKI IS A VICTIM OF CHILD ABUSE

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Tw: Child abuse, Misogyny, Mention of ED, Racism, Swearing

Friendly reminder that white kids are abused too, and they are valid.

Rich kids are abused too, they are valid.

I have read and heard a lot the:

"If it was a white/rich kid this wouldn't happened"

Yes it would, it is in fact, happening.

Dismissing someone of their mental illneses and/or abuse because of their skin color, sex or social status is fucked up.

Also white women/girls ≠ white men/boys.

"I'm so sick of the white rich girls that have eating disorders, they have everything and they still bitch about things"

White and rich girls face mysogyny in their daily life, so no, they don't live out of abuse and trauma.

Remember you are valid

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TW: Misogyny, Sexual orientation, Gender identity, Trauma.

Some times Asexuality in someone came from sexual trauma.

A lot of times Transexuality came from trauma, especially from females who had to deal with misogyny trauma.

A lot of Bisexual women choose to identify as Lesbians because of their justified repulsion towards men.

This is a fact, people can be and feel in a way as a result of trauma, that's okay, it doesn't make you any less valid. Just because this works as a coping mechanism doesn't mean it's not real, it doesn't mean is not you.

I know it may be hard to come to terms with this because these facts have been used to invalid who you are by parents, doctors etc. Or because you start to think that if these things didn't happen to you, you may be not like you are now, and that makes you invalid somehow now (it does not), but please don't deny something like this can come from trauma.

Don't help the ignorance grow.

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I just wanted to see some Body Neutrality. I didn't wanted to be Triggered by Skinny Shame. The amount of toxic accounts I had to block...

Body Neutrality is not even about body size.

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TW: Child sexual abuse mention, Pedophilia mention, Pederast mention.

Why people don't want maps until they are of their liking

I'm was going to make this a long post but pedophile apologist took my will to live so I'll make this as short as I can.

First there was a theory with Fenrir being a pederast and that the attack of Remus Lupin could have contained child sexual assault.

I don't remember if JKRowling accepted this as canon, it doesn't matter because she doesn't decide what is canon after the yellow book, so her say in anything about Harry Potter is unimportant.

However the Fenrir theory is the only one that makes sense.

Because Remus Lupin is not just a Pedophile is also a Pederast.

A lot of people like to "keep an open mind" and don't call this Pedophilia because he is with a consenting adult. Everyone is ignoring the problem and how the books managed this subject.

If you didn't know or are still in denial a lot of kids who are sexually assaulted and normalizes this after their brain finish their development there is an alarming high chance they will be pedophiles as well.

This happens because sometimes the child brain can not deal with how traumatic the experience was and shields itself and believes that what happened was normal. A lot of poeple don't accept this fact because they don't want to feel empathy towards them. This is a flawed morality.

You can feel empathy with their inner child, but not with their pederast adult that they are now. They deserve to have their abuser in jail for life or death, they also have the responsibility as adults to seek help and if they act on it (pederast), they deserve jail for live or death.

Is not that hard to understand, now, were Lupin fits?

A Ephebophile is someone attracted to 15-19 years old and is a type of pedophilia. As we know Nymphadora Tonks was born in 1973 were Lupin was born 1960. They have 13 years of difference.

They romantic relationship was evidently in her first appearance in The Order of the Phoenix set in 1995 were she was 21-22 years old and lupin was 34-35. Her brain just reached full development (21).

The question is, when did they meet? Unfortunately we can only suspect they met when she was 18-19 when they were working together.

Another question is, was she mature for a relationship with a men 13 older than her? The answer is clearly "No" but people like to say a women of her age is mature enough, however were are talking about Tonks, we know from the books her impulsive and clumsy personality, this doesn't necessarily make her inmature but it does help.

A woman is attracted to older man for their protective and mature personality, this happens because they didn't have a father figure or the one they had wasn't protective, this applied to Tonks doesn't make sense since is said that her parents were only good. Women aren't attracted to older man out of nowhere.

Now all this information is a good context, but what everyone should be focusing is Remus Lupin, was he attracted to 18 years old?

Remus Lupin is a Pederast, specifically Ephebophile, this is not debatable, is a fact, there is another fact, Remus Lupin didn't want to be with Tonks.

Lupin had express how he was too old and dangerous for Tonks and their relationship was not good for her and a baby was a mistake, he was aware of this, even though he already date her, then Mcgonagall said how Dombuldore would have approved of their relationships ( which at this point I wouldn't be surprised ) alongside with Molly.

And that is the most weird thing, why would two older women, who the were only presented as responsible, think that what he was traying to express was wrong, I can only imagine this was JKRowling perspective.

Now there is also the fact that Remus was more concerned about what bad he was to Tonks that the fact that he was attracted to her, knowing her since she was 19, most likely he did normalize what happened to him and in his eyes there wasn't a problem to his attraction and there was no guilt for it.

Remus impregnated Tonks when she was 23 years old and died a month later of giving birth.

Other pedophile and pedestrian relationships in Harry Potter

Fleur dated Bill Weasley when she was 18 and he was 25

So the book and movie are pro map/pedophilia, JKRowling is not a Feminist, of any type. And my favorite character Mcgonagall is ruined. Anyway, happy Valentine's Month.

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TW: Tourture mention, Child abuse mention, Misogyny, Sexual assault mention.

Can people please stop saying Sirius, James and Lily are Feminists.

James literally tried to manipulate Lily into dating him.

He tortured Snape to get her attention and then proceeded to say that he wouldn't touch him again if she dated him. He clearly dosen't care about consent.

Sirius didn't care about anything that has nothing to do with torturing Snape.

Lily end up dating James and marrying him, taking his name. He didn't change his beliefs of behavior in any moment and didn't regret torturing and Sexually assaulting Snape. Lily knew this.

None of them are feminists, quite opposite actually.

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Ppl who support MAPs are just as bad as them 💖

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If you are going to post something that is Neurodivergent you should say Neurodivergent instead of just Autistic behavior, or ADHD behavior.

The reason is because this wouldn't lead to someone to think they are Autistic or ADHD, instead of having other mental illness, illness or disorder.

As well as not grow the stigma of being neurodivergent only makes you Austitic or having ADHD.

People can be neurodivergent when they only have; Dyslexia, Bipolar disorder, Borderline personality disorder, Anxiety, Depression or others.

Don't dismiss other disorders.

Also neurodivergence isn't necessarily inherited through genes, it can be acquired by trauma.

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TW: Child abuse mention.

♂️Just so we get this straight, men having less child custody was created by men for men's benefit. So they would be able to leave their responsibilities and neglect their children.

♀️And womens who abuse their children on the excuse of their fathers not being around deserve jail just as any other abuser.

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I need to say something that I don't hear anyone talk about

TW: Child Abuse, Child Torture, Swearing, Sexual harassment/abuse, Child sexual harassment/abuse.

And is that people like to hate on Snape a lot and love The Marauders and Lily, they like to point out all the things Snape did, as an adult I remind you, but ignore all the things they did to him, like it never happened.

So I will remind you

First James tied him up so he wouldn’t fight back and when he swears at him he choke him with soap and sexually harass/abuse Severus. And if you think someone stripping someone else of their clothes and humiliate them in front of everyone is not sexual harassment we are going to have a very short conversation. There is the thing that this wasn't the first James did this to him. Which it would be sexual abuse.

After James leaves Severus in his underwear, Lily smiles at that, Snape calls her a mudblood in a moment of heat without any textual reason. Snape being sexually harassed in front of everyone, and Liliy contains her smile.

She tought sexual harassment was funny, who does that? Who is enough of a shit of a human being to smile at someone who is being harassed publicly, especially to a friend, because in her eyes she was a friend of Severus, what would Harry have done if Ron was being harassed? or Hermione? He would certainly not smile, I can tell you that much.

Lily even has the nerve to scold him for having called her a mudblood and being friends with Death Eaters, after she contained her smile, and Severus was aware of this fact, since all that was in Severus' memory.

I almost missed to mention that she walked away while her “friend” was still being stripped from his underwear, all because he said a slur. If a friend calls you a slur you have all the right to stop being their friend, but you don't walk away from that and let that happen, that’s just heartless and shows you never really care for them.

Some people think that Snape actually deserves that, because of his actions, actions that happened when he was an adult.

How exactly do you deserve something that happened to you before you act wrongly? I still wonder, because that's not how this works.

You don't get punished for something you unlikely would do, you just don't mix these things either. If you do something, you should be punished fairly for what you did, If someone did something wrong to you, you should have the right to have this person being punished for what they did to you, fairly. Pain and abuse aren’t tradable.

None of these things happened to Severus or Lily or The Marauders. And a child is never at fault of their abuse, never.

And I focused on Lily because she is viewed as someone gentle and kind, instead of a hypocrite.

When Harry wonders why she would marry someone like his father, it was possibly because she was like all the audience Severus had when he was being abused, the difference is that she pretended she wasn't.

And for all the people who love the Lily and James relationship or think it’s lovely, James threatens to hex Lily when she pulls her wand out, and trying to manipulate her into date him by torturing her “friend”. We already knew of his abusive behavior by not taking a no for an answer , and well… Everything else he did.

If these things didn't have happened to Severus he most likely wouldn't turn out the way he did, people aren't born evil, they could be born without empathy, which is not the case of Snape.

James was a mentaly healthy boy, he was also privileged with a wealthy wizard family (and feel superior by it) with loving parents, there is no reason for his behavior more than that, this is weak writing by JKRowling, but that is not a surprise. It could be that he was jealousy of Severus for being “friends” with Lily, but jealousy dosen’t make a minor sexually harass/abuse another.

(I just reread the book and it was in fact because he wanted to get Lily attention, not exactly by jealousy.)

He also bullied other people and hexed them, anyone who would bother him.

Sirirus grew up in a house of Death Eaters and, again, it doesn't explain what external influence made him hate the doctrine his parents tried to give him, and it wasn't his friends since he hated them, their doctrine and Slytherin House before going to Hogwarts. Weak writing.

Sirius send Severus to Remus while he was a werewolf, with the intention that that would kill Severus and make Remus a murderer, for the people who still don’t have it clear, Sirius atempted to kill Severus, and wasn’t a loyal friend.

18 years old Regulus black did realize how bad the situation was when Voldemort killed people, Regulus felt that wasn't right, and sacrificed himself trying to stop him.

He would not get along, much less have a relationship with James or Sirius, he was a Slytherin, James and Sirius hated Slytherins, didn't matter their beliefs or personality, they bullied anyone weak who couldn't defend themselves, in that case Severus.

It’s said that James saved the live of Severus (like that would make amends for all the abuse he give him, It wouldn’t), when it could be that he simply was saving his friend from becoming a murderer.

We were shown a Peter excited when his friends tortured Severus, which make sence his then future actions.

What did Severus do to them? Just existing according to James.

The list of things that we know James and Sirius did to Snape (they probably did more since they started bulling him since first year)

Tied him up

Hang him upside down

Choke him and make him gag with soap

Hex him and caused him bleed

Tried to make one of his friends to kill him

Sexually harass him publicly

Stripped him naked

Hang him upside down

Verbally abused him

Physically abused him

Physically torture him

This lasted for a period of seven years. Psychologically, being abused for years, and the most important years of human brain development do affect it, deeply, which could lead to developing all the trials and mental illnesses that Snape has been shown/implied to have in his adulthood.

But putting all this horrible things aside, the one who is the most to blame for how Severus turned out, and then makes fun of him, when he is an adult for joined the Death Eaters, for letting James and Sirius did this things, and even help them have more authority, was Albus. He was the adult, the director that supposed to protect the students, and fail by his own decision, he didn’t guide them, he genuinely thought that if a kid is being bullied or harassed they should know how to defend themselves, that they were responsible of their own safety, he is childish and irresponsible, neglected and abused his authority and students, and the character to have the most blame for everything that happened in Hogwarts. And he did know very well what they were doing to Severus.

So my point is, you can hate Snape, you can even hate Draco, who, correct me if I’m wrong, never did the most extreme things that James and Sirius did, and changed before he reached adulthood, I wouldn’t give you shit for that. But if you like Srius and Lily and James and Albus then you are just being a hypocrite and you don’t hate the Slytherins because they are bad, that's just an excuse.

Source: Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix