Chill Vibes

A simple place to hang out and be/make friends.

[djdangerlove]

I still love Carlos Reyes with my whole heart.

[antigothesis]

Children/teens aren’t allowed to be sad or in a bad mood because they can get yelled at for it and ridiculed and told to ‘change your attitude or I will for you’, while adults who are sad or in a bad mood, are allowed to yell at and take their frustration out on the kids. Adult privilege huh?

[antigothesis]

And when the adult is in a bad mood, it’s the kids job to step on eggshells in order to keep them from not exploding, and when they do, it’s on them.

And when the child is in the bad mood, it’s their job to try to hide it, and when they break apart trying to, it’s on them.

[randomslasher]

What extra sucks about this is that adults literally have more experience, context, perspective, and brain development to help them manage emotions. Adults who do this are shit. We are the adults, we should not be expecting kids who are still developing and learning about the world and trying to figure out their place in it to be the ones who are emotionally mature. 

People who treat adulthood like a power trip are honestly shit and should not have authority over kids. 

[lifehackable]

This is potentially life saving information everyone should know.

[tarcroach]

No you guys this post helped me find my cat. He was missing for almost a month and I’ve had him for over 12 years. After seeing this I put his favorite blanket he always slept on outside hoping he would smell mine or his scent and he was back the next fucking day asleep on it.

[ittygittydiddynator]

When my cat got out, we called and called for him, and then, later that night, I remembered similar advice to this, and so put his little scratching pad, which he adores, on the front porch. Not even half an hour later, I heard a thump, opened the door, and there was his big butt, meowing at me.

[sparklesmccheesy]

Important and vital

[natasha-romvnoff]

I don’t care that I reblogged this today I’m reblogging it again

[writing-n-ocs]

This is an exception to not being related to writing.

[castielismyhusband2266]

I hope this helps somebody

[randomslasher]

Interestingly enough, calling for your lost animal can make it harder to find them, as the animal will hear the stress in your voice and they will think “there’s danger, I’d better hide!” 

If you are out and about looking, more effective is to just talk in a normal voice, like you’re on the phone. Your animal will hear you and you will sound like safety, not danger, and may come running. Cats especially rarely wander far from their home territories but are expert hiders, so encouraging them to come out is usually just a matter of assuring them everything is safe. 

Scent and calm vocal tones!

[adampvrrish]

not to talk about doctor who but remember being a lonely depressed teenager and hearing him say '900 years of time and space and i've never met anyone who wasn't important'

[alternageek]

— view on Instagram https://ift.tt/39UbApi

[sadhoc]

Text from image:

“co-quarantined with an abuser? worried about having to self-isolate from #coronavirus in a dangerous home situation? 

Please reach out – contact @ ndvh National Domestic Violence Hotline: 

CALL 1-800-799-7233

TTY 1-800-787-3224

Chat at thehotline.org” 

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[shutyourmoustache]

PLEASE SPREAD THIS INFO!!!

[feralraccoonman]

IMPORTANT!!! SIGNAL BOOST THIS SO IT COULD HELP SOMEONE IN NEED!!!!

[im-the-grace-up-my-sleeve]

@official-lucifers-child @friendlywolfgirl @yoshiyoshikage-tira-munchakoopas

[official-lucifers-child]

i know you tagged me because i can signal boost this but… this is me? and i’m actually thinking of calling this number?

[museifushindoushugi]

for the record, ‘not feeling anything’ is a valid and not unusual response to trauma or grief

so if you feel empty and devoid of feeling, it’s not because you’re a cold and uncaring person.

[morganoperandi]

Sometimes, not feeling anything is the only way you can cope.

[pervocracy]

Be prepared for a delayed reaction, too. It’s very common to be totally calm during a crisis, and then days or weeks (or years) later suddenly get hit with a tidal wave of “HOLY SHIT THAT HAPPENED.”

Sometimes your mind waits until it feels safe to start processing things emotionally. It’s a powerful survival strategy, but it can really blindside you, because just as you start to feel like things are okay, you’re overwhelmed by the realization of how not-okay things were before.

This may not happen, and that’s okay too. But it’s something to watch out for when your initial reaction is numbness.

[teenagerposts]

Me with my friends problems vs. Me with my own

[avoidantproblem]

over-explaining everything because you’re scared of not making sense or people thinking you’re stupid

[wildwood-faun]

the thrilling sequel: under-explaining everything because you’re afraid of being seen as a rambling mess

[princeheathen]

the stunning conclusion: wildly varying between both based off the most recent way you’ve fucked up 

[meowthiesaurus-deactivated20190]

It really is okay to be you!!

[positivity-in-pain]

❤️❤️❤️

[humofnight]

i love one (1) disaster wizard

[curlicuecal]

It’s a good metaphor tho, because the situation is never going to get better if you don’t eventually pull the door. And afterwards, no matter what the damage was, you’ll have a working cabinet, whatever plates you could salvage, and a place to start putting new plates.

[artbymoga-deactivated20200516]

Reblogging for that comment ^

[starjeweled-alpenglow]

Hats off for negative jokes turned to wholesome posts

[rosarenn]

So this was me for a long time. Afraid to open the door, certain that all that I was would crash and break. That I could never be repaired.

But I opened the door.

And what fell out and crashed to the ground was not me. They weren’t my dishes.

They were other people’s dishes.

Put inside we without my permission, when I was too young to know that I could not hold them all.

I opened the door, and I’m still here.

It turns out, I’m not that fragile.

[randomslasher]

Oh damn it got better

[knight-of-time64-deactivated202]

THANK YOU TWO FOR MAKING OUR LIVES A LITTLE BETTER

[yodamn]

Just Something I've Noticed.

So I'm not a very big account. I know I'm not. I write a little here and there but mostly I read, reblog, I try to interact as much as I can. I get tagged in stuff and I swear I try to continue it! I have it saved Im just HORRIBLE at tagging people I over think it too much. There are SO many talented and creative people that post and many of them inspire me to write more. Even if its fics, fanart, headcanons, or even some comments on reblogs! So many of you. And yes even those who think they don't matter, play a big part in the content I LOVE to see.

But recently Ive heard and seen of people getting hate. For what seems to be no reason. I dont know who they are, what theyre saying, etc etc. I just have one question.

Why?

What drives you to send people hate? To give them death threats? Who raised you? Who taught you to act like that? No one. No. One. Deserves to receive hate. No. One. Deserves to be told to kill themselves. You dont know what that person has been through, or is currently going through. The Star Wars fandom is NOTORIOUSLY toxic. Disgustingly Toxic.

And for what? You don't like a headcanon they have? You dont like something they ship? You dont like who they are? Because you are so childish you dont even have the idea to just not follow them. To just avoid them. To blacklist things you dont like. You dont have the brain cells to just mind your own business? Pathetic. And I'm gonna state something that I remember reading at the begining of Fanfics in yon olden days.

Dont Like? Dont Read.

Dont Like? Dont Reblog.

Dont Like? Blacklist it for yourself.

You. Cannot. Control. The Content that other people create. Because YOU dont agree with it. It is childish. Its is inappropriate. It is pathetic. And you SHOULD be ashamed of yourself. I don't care who you are. You can ask people to tag. You can Blacklist things. It is YOUR responsibility to know YOUR limits. And lemme just

You.

Cannot.

Force.

Creators.

To.

Do.

Anything.

That is NOT. YOUR. CHOICE. You DO NOT get to decide what other people create. You DO NOT get to police the work of other people.

Constructive Criticism? Perfectly Fine.

Threats? Gate Keeping? Hate? Unacceptable.

And if you continue to do so, you clearly arent responsible enough to have any social media accounts. Log off and take a hike. Go find yourself on a drive or pet a cat. Idk. Just get. A. Fuckin. LIFE.

Let me tell you guys something. If youre sending hate to these sweet people. These amazing people. Who take time out of their day. Out of their lives. To create content. For us. Of which they dont have to do? You are worse than scum. None of these phenomenal and creative people deserve that.

You wanna hate me? Go ahead. Do it. I don't care. I dont care about single one of you pathetic worms who think you can act like a bunch of morons. Because at the end of the day I KNOW I'm better than you.

And if youre a creator reading this. And regardless of if you get hate or not. Regardless if you're into star wars or not. I'm telling you this from the bottom of my heart.

You Are Better Than Them.

What You Do Matters.

If anyone is reading this and wants to talk to me go right ahead. I'm violently caring. I swear it. I'll get pissed for you. Ill transform into the FBI and find these guys. I'll do my best! I'll hype you up the best I can! I've got confidence to share! Confidence for days!

Tag yourselves! Tag people you know get hate! Tag creators! Of ANY fandom! I am 110% down to hype and support.

Cherry out. ✌🍒

[pixel8or]

[recaption]

[pascalcampion]

October 10, 2019Mental Health day.

A very simplified version of a very serious, very complex matter.

#pascalcampion

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

When I was a kid I had a reputation for faking sick because nothing much seemed to be wrong with me. Years later I found out my symptoms were psychosomatic due to the constant stress of untreated mental health issues. I spent 20 years in chronic pain because the adults around me just saw a child who didn't want to be in class

Listen to your goddamn kids.

[sometimesyouhavetobebrave]

...i just lost a lot of leftover guilt from missing so many days in elementary school.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

Children SHOULD miss school when they are feeling unwell, physical or mentally. And every child is going to get sick sometimes. That is normal. It’s a bad sign if a child never misses a day of school--that is often a sign of neglect or abuse. Children are children, they do not have the same stamina, authority, or the same communication skills to articulate their needs that adults have. 

Normalize giving kids days off for their mental health.

[memeuplift]