Caught In a Dream, Far From Reality

[coldhearthotlove]

Changed my url to the name of the book Winter was reaching for in RWBY Chibi… Lol…

[coldhearthotlove]

Laughing, because I remember reading a post on here a long time ago - something along the lines of:

“All the bullies in school who are girls, become nurses; and all the bullies in schools who are boys, become cops…”

And at the time I didn’t really get it;

But, I just found out that one of the most abusive, narcissistic, evil women I’ve ever interacted with in my life is a nurse - and she’s married to a cop…

[coldhearthotlove]

Perk of being autistic:

You can watch a movie with horrible acting, and still enjoy it, because you can’t tell the difference between good and bad acting.

[coldhearthotlove]

This shouldn’t have to be said but, cishet people who are not true allies do NOT belong at PRIDE events or LGBT+ spaces…

Examples:

A cishet man who has a bisexual girlfriend, but does not support marriage between two men, does NOT belong at PRIDE…

A cishet woman who has a gay best friend, but fetishes gay men, and thinks lesbians are gross does NOT belong at PRIDE…

A cishet person who supports their gay sibling, but does not support transgender people, does NOT belong at PRIDE…

If your cishet partner, friend, etc. does NOT accept every subgroup in the LGBT+ community, do NOT invite them. They’re not true allies if they only support one subgroup in the LGBT+ community, and we don’t want them there…

They must be supportive of the entire community, not just you, and the subgroup you belong to…

[I would even question why they’re even your partner, friend, etc. to begin with if they’re not a true ally, but that’s another topic.]

[coldhearthotlove]

I miss when DOGE used to be a quirky meme about a Shiba Inu, 10 years ago, and not an entire government agency dedicated to firing good, hardworking people…

[foone]

one of my least favorite game naming schemes:

Game (2018)

Game: Subtitle (2021)

Game 2 (2025)

DON'T NAME YOUR THIRD FUCKING GAME IN A SERIES "GAME 2" YOU FUCKERS. THAT'S NOT WHAT 2 MEANS

[thecorporatetower]

This is LITERALLY us with Subnautica rn. “Subnautica” okay. “Subnautica below zero” okay. “Subnautica 2” makes no fucking sense. It’s technically Subnautica 3. Also Subnautica below zero is so fucked goated and it got disrespected and we’re still not over that

-Syntax and Natasha/Angel

[foone]

fun fact: that's exactly the game series that inspired this post!

[coldhearthotlove]

Me: “I’m not a girl, but sometimes I like playing as a girl character in video games; because I like seeing a female character be the protagonist in the story, and if there’s a customization mode, I like dressing her up in cute outfits…”

Someone Online: “Have you considered, you might be an egg?” 🏳️‍⚧️👀

Me: “……….”

Me: “…I’m transmasculine…” 🧍🏻

[coldhearthotlove]

I think I can only be with another demisexual person - because having a partner still finding other people hot, while I only have eyes for them and no one else just feels weird…

[Don’t tell me I’m being “controlling”, “possessive”, “jealous” and “everyone checks out people while they’re in a relationship/married”, etc. All I want is exactly how I feel about them to be returned. I have zero interest in other people when I’m in love them, so I want a partner who has zero interest in other people when they’re in love me. Hence, why I need a demisexual partner. If you and your partner like to check out other people together, watch movies with actors you find hot, and have celebrity crushes - knock yourself out. I just don’t personally want a relationship like that myself…]

[coldhearthotlove]

So, Tik Tok is banned in the U.S. now, but I’m reading that people in other countries (Canada, U.K., etc.) aren’t able to access it now either??

Can someone outside the U.S. (and countries where it was already banned, like India) confirm if Tik Tok is currently working for them right now?

[patrickbabeman]

if i got h*terosexually m*rried i would change my last name to my husband’s but only because i hate my f*ther so much

[coldhearthotlove]

As a transgender person - I can’t stand the term “deadname”…

I’m not dead…

No aspect about me is dead…

I’m alive and well.

I wouldn’t call a former hobby I once had, my “dead hobby”…

I wouldn’t call an old hairstyle I had, my “dead hairstyle”…

I wouldn’t call a place I used to live, my “dead home”…

Even if it was stuff about my past I hated, and wanted to forget…

I prefer terms like “birth name”, “former name”, “given name”, “past name”, etc…

Even something silly like “retired name” is fine.

Literally ANYTHING more appropriate…

“Deadname” just sounds awful - ESPECIALLY considering the high suicide rate in the transgender community, AND higher risk of being homicide victims compared to the general population, and even the rest of the LGBT+ community…

[coldhearthotlove]

I hate whenever someone says anything against weed, someone ALWAYS has to chime in:

“Alcohol is worse though!! Does that mean we should ban alcohol too??”

As someone who is strongly against marijuana, AND grew up with an alcoholic parent -

Yes, I 100% support banning alcohol too…

People who are against weed AND alcohol do in fact exist…

[coldhearthotlove]

When You Die and Become a Ghost, do You Think:

A) Your ghost is blob (like Casper).

B) Your ghost is naked (with your ghostly junk hanging out).

C) You wear ghostly clothes, but you can change them whenever you want.

D) The outfit you died in becomes embedded into your ghost, and can’t change.

Voting ended onOct 21, 2024

[coldhearthotlove]

So many people homophobic/transphobic people on Twitter claim that young FTM transgender boys/men are actually just “straight tomboys going through a trendy phase”; and they’ll “outgrow it” once they hit puberty - and become super feminine women married to men…

But..?

I’ve known I was trans since I was a toddler in the 90s?? (I had ZERO exposure to anything LGBT+ related as a kid. I didn’t even have any (openly) gay family members). So there was no one to “influence” me…

I’ve l ways preferred boyish things (especially clothes)? The only reason I didn’t “seem” more “masculine” as a kid was because I was always yelled at or made fun of whenever I tried. So to make everyone else happy, I acted like a “normal” girl…

I only ever had crushes on girls (as a kid), and only ever was romantically/sexuality attracted to women?? I never had a crush on a boy as a kid/teen; and I never was into men now as an adult. I only ever see myself marrying a woman…

I’ve identified as transmasculine for years, and my feelings about my gender identity haven’t changed…

I’m 30 now…

When is the day supposed to come when I realize I’m actually a (cis) woman, start turning extremely feminine, start getting attracted to men, and want to “settle down” and get married to a man and have kids??

I’m extremely curious to know…

Because according to Twitter homophobic/transphobes this is supposed to happen one day as an adult…

[zooophagous]

I know I sound like your mom but you kids need to stop fucking vaping

[theiliad]

question. do you believe in ghosts?

yes

no

Voting ended onNov 10, 2023

making this one binary. no ghost agnosticism allowed. but explain the nuances in the tags if you want.

[permeate]