why am i here @confusedlimabean - Tumblr Blog

this needs to be said

if, in my posts you see a bigot (i.e. racist or homophobe) dont be rude to them, as when I was homophobic that kind of thing just made me double down and stunted my progress towards accepting myself for a while and as such I couldn't accept others as well either

all this to say treat others with respect until they have proven to not be worthy at which point you should stop interacting with them and move on to other, more important things

#not a shitpost #serious post #i want to build a community that helps others overcome their struggles as opposed to one that degrades people for being ignorant #because that is how you create more ignorance

man what was i doing in highschool

this is just chilling in my drafts

biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist

i am delighted to inform you of the existence of the Rosefinch, which is a real actual bird that exists!

I would like to add,, strawberry finches

They’re dating🥰

biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist

shencomix

There are 3 realizations you make at the gym.

The first realization is that your body hurts, and the weights you're trying to push away from it are heavy.

Second realization is that there are no weights in your hands at all. They are not real. Nothing is heavy. You're just extending your hands forward.

The third realization is that you, too, aren't real. Your arms aren't extending in front of you at all. You're not at the gym. You're a gay little animal person living in an island. You wile away your days fishing and gardening, and buying new decorations for your house. You have cookouts with the other denizens of the island, and even a summer festival. You lead a life of love and safety for 100 years, and then gently pass away in your sleep, at which point of the rest of the island animals carry you up the small mountain on the island, in a casket filled with flowers. They take turns sharing their memories of you and consoling one another about your passing. They lower you into the ground slowly. down and down.

Down

And

Down

But why are you still here?

Why are you seeing all this?

But is this really okay? Are you really dead?

No.

No, you're not dead. Your blood rushes through your body. You're alive. Things are heavy again. Your body hurts again.

Time for the next rep.

confusedlimabean

the fourth realization is that you left the stove on

theweirdwideweb

rimonoroni2

unfortunately very true. Doing Better does not always mean never being upset or never being triggered or never having trouble. often Doing Better means experiencing those things and being able to keep going/cope healthily/move on. if you’re in a bubble with no sensation, if you’re numbing yourself out, that’s not what recovering really is. it won’t help you have a happier life it’ll just make your world smaller and smaller until you can’t fit anywhere anymore. gotta learn to make peace with the hard stuff too, that’s the only way to keep going

#yep

autophage

You make soup in a big bowl. You serve it in a smaller bowl. And then you convey it, using a spoon, to your mouth. But what is the spoon? Simply a smaller bowl still

bibaleen

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some of the things that are recommened for vaginoplasty are so funny like. there's a four week period where i'm "encouraged to sensually explore the area" but "not allowed to climax" like okay doctor-mandated edging. if you say so lmao

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once everything settles i'm encouraged to "share vaginal microbiome with someone who already has one set up" like. scissoring? are you talking about scissoring? fuckin. doctor-prescribed lesbian sex.

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also important information, thank you @cyprozombiegirl <3

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chainsawmansheart

natalieironside

Sometimes I can still hear their voice

breadbird

Breaking: TikTok is better bc it’s more hostile towards humanity

deathbyotpin123

The lack of video content is what kept us here... I thought we all agree that the best feature of this hellhole was and always will be anonymity.

Tumblr's not asking for my phone number. It's not going through my contacts to try and connect me with my fucking colleagues. I can come here and talk about whatever I want without anyone ever seeing my face or hearing my voice. I don't have to censor myself and hide my interests or enthusiasm out of fear of consequences it might have in my real life.

charlesoberonn

I think the biggest misunderstanding they have of Tumblr is that they think of it as a social media platform when in actuality it's a blogging platform with social features.