Parker Higgintoot @conquester - Tumblr Blog

maybe this is a hot take but i don’t care if a man is lesbian nor do i care if a woman is gay

i don’t care if you’re a non binary girl who takes testosterone or a gender nonconformist boy on estrogen

i don’t care if you use neopronouns and xenogenders to describe your gender and your relationship with it

gender and sexuality are complicated, fluid, and individualized. i don’t care how other people describe themselves nor do i care what other people do with their bodies.

#hot take on this site i guess #transgender #transsexual #transmasculine #lgbt #lgbtq community #gender nonconforming

vampirebeverage

I am fucking BEGGING transmascs (and everyone else) to not let the animosity of a VERY SMALL GROUP of very online transfems impact how you interact with transfems or think about transfems.

please, please, please remember that this "hating transmascs" and "kill all TMEs" bullshit is just a few edgy weirdos on the internet who enjoy saying inflammatory things for shock value.

transfems are not your enemy, and YES, you do actually need to unlearn transmisogyny. Not because you're transmasc, but because we live in a transmisogynistic society.

transfems are not a hivemind, there's no broader transfem consensus that transmascs are Evil Privileged Abusers, but the small group of people who think that way WANT you to believe that they are representative of trans women everywhere. they're super not. they really are just a handful of angsty people online looking for someone to pick on.

all trans people have more commonalities than differences. there aren't two distinct species of trans people from two different planets, there are just trans people with a wide diversity of experiences and walks of life. we are all affected by the same systems of oppression.

find community and mutual support with transfems. build solidarity and have conversations about how we can help each other. the only way we all get through this shit is together.

tyrannosaurus-sock

Y'all, did you know that it's a privilege to experience misogyny, actually. Oppression has come full circle. We're now actually privileged for being oppressed. We've done it. We've solved all the world's problems.

#it sure is a privilege to experience anti-transmasculinity #AND misogyny at the same time!#ain’t that right folks?

drsaikiscorkboard

This Pride Month, let us advocate for and support our trans men and transmasculine siblings—not as an afterthought, not as a footnote, but as a necessity.

Transandrophobia is real. It is documented. It is the discrimination, shaming, harassment, and alienation specifically faced by trans men and transmasculine individuals.

This is not a hierarchy. This is not an attack on trans women. This is a data point.

Trans men face systemic discrimination before, during, and after transition. The visibility paradox means that as they become less visible as queer, they do not become less oppressed—the oppression just changes shape.

Trans men are routinely shamed, told to "reflect on their misogyny," and dismissed simply for being male. This shaming impacts mental health, self-image, and access to care.

Radical feminists and trans feminists who dismiss transandrophobia need to reflect. The problem is not feminism. The problem is specific actors who have decided that transmisogyny is the only axis of trans oppression worth naming. Both things are true.

Trans women face transmisogyny.

Trans men face transandrophobia.

Acknowledging one does not erase the other.

The silencing of transmasculine voices follows documented patterns:

"You're not really oppressed, you're just men now."

"Your trauma doesn't count."

"You're betraying womanhood."

"Be quiet and listen to transfems."

These are not neutral statements. These are silencing mechanisms.

Trans men deserve to be heard and seen—not as a threat, not as traitors, but as people navigating a specific, intersectional form of oppression.

This Pride Month, I am not asking you to celebrate them.

I am asking you to stop erasing them.

Listen. Believe. Reflect.

Then do better.

— Dr. Kusuke Saiki

PS. I have sources:

https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-031-49509-2_9

https://thesocietypages.org/girlwpen/2011/09/21/transgender-employment-experiences/

https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-030-12633-9_9

https://www.newstatesman.com/ideas/2025/02/transfeminism-radical-feminism-toryn-glover-essays

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2025/01/masculinity-is-crippling-society-could-trans-men-be-the-key-to-changing-that/

you have to love that small trans man trying on men’s clothing at the thrift store even if he gets discouraged when everything is too big on him

#transgender #trans man #transmasculine #ftm #trans ftm

pupgrrrlriot

I'm goin crazy here someone help meee

thatguy-thatman

imjunebitch

if you assume a trans woman is going to top because of her genitalia start running. I am coming to get you.

imjunebitch

if you assume a trans man is going to bottom because of his genitalia start running. I am coming to get you.

imjunebitch

if you assume a nonbinary person is going to fill some sexual role because of their genitalia start running. I am coming to get you.

if you are between the ages of 16-20 and want to see a lot of live theatre in the st. louis area the next 11 months please hit me up. i also costume and usher shows to get free tickets. my show partner leaves town in 2 months and id like to see at least 2 shows a month during this coming academic year 🙏

#we can come support each others shows too #how fun would that be #boyblogging #me #theatre #theatre kid #future costume designer in the works #musical theatre

puter-puppy

guys i think this pony might be gay or smth

nancylou444

Bonus Canon LGBTQ+ Characters of the Day

Nancy and Isaac Higgintoot (Ghosts)

frozen-autumns

transandrophobia tag simulator

cis-person-ally Follow

hey, I know making up a word for your own "oppression" feels good, but have you considered that nothing you experience uniquely occurs to trans men? I know this is hard to process for you birthday bois, but I recommend the term transemasculation. this means the only trans-specific oppression you face is comparable to cis men having their feelings hurt!

tmetransguy Follow

I fucking hate other TMEs man I wish they'd finally die or detransition so I stop getting confused for MRA transandrobro truthers everytime I follow somebody

thesamethingyoureadeveryweek Follow

you guys do experience transphobia, but you inherently have male privilege. you are not oppressed for being a man. you don't experience misogyny. when you transition irl everyone accepts you, because women- I mean trans men ditching femininity for masculinity is rewarded

15 comments from fite-club trying to start shit Unblock

fandomdiscourseblog Follow

all of you in the tag report this fucking freak documenting-transphobia until the blog is gone, they said they don't care what people do in fiction even if they personally find it distasteful

documenting-transphobia Follow

another trans man has been confirmed murdered this month. more are still missing, and the two news articles that mention these murders misgenders the victims to be documented as femicide with no foul play detected. please never forget we exist.

realizing the reason why i was attracted to “femboys” (you know the type) in middle school and not now in college despite still being attracted to feminine men is because the “femboy aesthetic” relies on making teenage boys look as young as possible and i’m not attracted to 12 year olds as a 17 year old

#femboys #‘femboys’ are pedophilic #boyblogging #this is a boyblog

motherfucker-somewhat-limited

"children and cis women need to be protected from trans women" and "it's women's fault if they're raped because men can't help themselves" are two sides of the same coin, and that coin is the erroneous belief that having a penis inherently makes you a predator