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I didnât miss that social cue I just thought it was stupidÂ
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Elephants have taken it upon themselves to set up an impromptu toll booth.
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we thought it would be easy
chĂșc mừng nÄm má»i ! wishing you all good luck and good health for this lunar new year !!
in vietnamese culture, the zodiac animals are slightly different â instead of the rabbit, we celebrate the year of the cat ( aka my year hehe ) đș â print available here !
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things that are enjoyable:
showers
things that are not enjoyable:
getting in the shower
getting out of the shower
Damn!
I looked it up, for those wondering this is how that exit is designed:
https://www.google.com/maps/@47.6119279,-122.3301383,16.85z
Dear Seattle:
What the fuck?!?!
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So someone correct me if I'm wrong but basically what the drivers have to do is find a way from going from 100 to 40 in basically no time.
Is that what that is?
From 60 to 25, actually. They have about two blocks to slow down so itâs definitely possible, exceptâŠ. people like to speed. Honestly what concerns me more is the shape
Disabled Representation Has Come Farther Than You Think
Youâve Just Been Conditioned Not to See It.
I recently got into a huge fight with an abled friend about disabled representation, in which he was completely convinced that the stance he held was that of an ally. Heâs a long time friend of mine and I know he really did think he was fighting for us and coming from a place of trying to help us.
And it really got me thinking about the way abled people perceive disabled people. And how that message is internalised and reinforced in so many ways.
My friend was trying to say that characters like Cyborg, Misty knight, Daredevil, Toph, Edward Elric, Bucky, Nebula, etc were not good representation. And he at first refused to listen to me (an actual disabled person) when I was like; no, we like that. we love that. we LOVE seeing badass and competent and sexy disabled people. Itâs validating and empowering.
His argument was that it didnât really count because nobody saw them as disabled and that it would be the same thing as saying Gamora is black representation.
While I understand where he was coming from, both of us also being black, it was hard to get him to understand how it wasnât the same thing.
Gamora is a black actress painted green to portray a green-skinned alien. She has black features, yes, but within the narrative she very much is not a black woman. Sheâs an alien.
But a disabled character is always still a disabled character. Regardless of how high tech or SciFi or magical or fantastical the world or universe is; an amputee with a prosthesis is still an amputee. They are still disabled. Yes, even if their prosthesis shoots lasers.
And other characters, like Toph and Daredevil, who are both blind, have superpowers/superhuman abilities that allow them to overcome their disability. That does not make them less disabled.
Their blindness still impacts their everyday lives. They canât read. They canât draw. They donât know what things or people look like, or what color things are. They canât read someoneâs facial expressions during a conversation. They canât follow a map without assistance.
When I asked my friend for examples of what he considered good disabled representation he said Professor X, Oracle, and the Thinker. And that made me pause and I wonât lie, it upset me. It felt degrading. I got kind of angry at him and it got a little heated.
Because what he was saying is: the smart one in the wheelchair that never actually joins the battle because their body is too frail? Those are the only good disabled characters? The ones who still need to be protected and treated tenderly and are physically weaker?
Do we only exist when you can view us as some subhuman lesser other that you can take pity on?
But itâs not only my friend who thinks this way.
Iâve seen quite a few arguments online about people who donât think Edward Elric is disabled, despite being an amputee.
Who donât think Cyborg is disabled, despite the fact that his entire power set is due to a life support and mobility aid device.
And my friend was shocked that I, and many other disabled people, find these depictions of strong and confident and capable disabled people empowering. He fully expected that I would find those depictions offensive.
And thatâs when it really hit me.
The issue is not that characters like Bucky or Toph or Daredevil are bad representations of disabled characters.
The issue is that people donât perceive them as disabled. Theyâve internalized this belief that disabled people have to be weak and delicate and fragile and in some way physically inferior.
Theyâre only considered disabled if theyâre tragic and/or weak. Or ugly. People love to project a tragic subhuman otherness onto disabled people who are ugly.
If theyâre cool and badass that confuses them. That doesnât fit with the narrative thatâs been built in their heads.
The idea of a competent, confidant, and strong disabled character, especially a cool disabled character is just so completely foreign to them that they donât even consider it.
Now Iâm not saying that depictions of disabled characters like Oracle or professor X are bad or harmful. We need representation of disabled people who arenât strong and donât have superpowers and maybe donât feel particularly empowered. Thatâs a genuine representation of many disabled people.
It just isnât the only one.
I think the issue with disabled representation is not that it doesnât exist (as Iâve seen many abled people online claim in our defense) but that we need to shift the way we think of disabled people so we stop overlooking a lot of the really cool and badass and awesome disabled characters we do already have.
So if you read this far through this essay, please stop for a moment and consider the preconceptions you have about disabled people.
Have you ever overlooked a disabled character because they were strong, powerful, charismatic, or, (God forbid!) SEXY?
And if so, Iâd ask you to take some time to examine in yourself why you donât think of disabled people as being able to be those things.
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This is a really good, really important read.Â
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Got sick of telling people that not all dogs who wear muzzles are aggressive.
Xie Chuanqin is a Chinese woman whoâs a big fan of Japanese lolita fashion. According to this article, in addition to making lolita shoes to sell, she also uses her lolita shoe making skills to create custom shoes for people with a disability of having unequal leg lengths. In this article, Xie Chuanqin says that some people tell her she shouldnât be wearing lolita fashion at the age of 55, but she wonât let them stop her.
I just realized this is a good rendition of Nani and Lilo