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Haven or Ash. Over 25. It/its or Fae/faer pronouns. Fandom/Personal/Whatever I feel like blog. If you don't want to see nsfw blacklist "#sorry ohsa" no that's not a typo I'm canadian, tagging otherwise is pretty inconsistent

[curiouscarnifex]

New blog rule: if anyone puts anything blaming one group for another getting attacked, anything that calls for people to be hunted down or killed, that calls people freaks, unsourced blocklists, or anything that insinuates some people deserve harassment and abuse or any other related crap onto my dash you're getting instablocked.

I'm fucking done with the hypocrisy and rampent ableism I've seen over the past few days, the amount of people who claim to support people with OCD and intrusive thoughts only to turn around and talk about how thoughts are actually indicative of morality, the amount of people who went from "unsourced call outs and blaming anything but abusers for their actions are both bad" to "okay but I find these people bad so here's a blocklist with no sources just trust me, and also they are really the reason you're being attacked its actually their fault", the amount of people who think that actually ableism is okay when their side does it.

Like fuck off, I shouldn't have to see a post where one side is called 'the sane ones' multiple times on my dash without a single fucking person saying "hey I agree with your point but maybe don't be a raging ableist".

And if anyone tries to drag me into incest discourse you're getting blocked as well. Its an OCD trigger thats already difficult enough to deal with without the added bullshit I've seen the past few days, I don't need to deal with more intrusive thoughts then this shit show has already brought up

TL:dr Saying someone other then the abuser is responsible for abuse is wrong, so are unsourced callouts, threats, and other forms of harassment. You can't claim say one group is wrong to do it and then turn around and engage with it yourself. And if you can't make your point without implying people disgreeing with you are 'insane' as if that is a horrible thing, or other ableist nonsense, shut the fuck up

[jwasontodd]

[mslockheart]

I always have to start the New Years with this picture.

[thestuffedalligator]

Dragons are basically fish, when you get down to it.

There’s no such thing as fish. The word doesn’t have any taxonomic meaning. It’s a word we’ve used to describe everything from hagfish to goldfish, even though a coelacanth is more closely related to a camel than a salmon. But because they inhabit the same ecological niche of “vertebrate animal with gills and fins,” we call them all fish.

Likewise, there’s no such thing as dragons. We call anything that fills the mytho-ecological niche of “dangerous animal that blocks the way” a dragon. And that’s why any kind of argument of what does and doesn’t count as a dragon is moot — wyverns are dragons just as much as a jabberwock or a jaculus or a tatzelwurm, not because they’re closely related in a biological clade but because they fill a narrative niche.

Dragons are also lobsters, but that’s for unrelated reasons.

[jasper-pagan-witch]

Graveyards aren't just your backyard to play in whenever you want. There are people who died resting there. There are living people who have to tend to the grounds and clean up the place.

Respect other people in graveyards, respect the rules of the place, and leave it cleaner than you found it.

[dct239394cvvd098dffgggp]

id rather you have cringy but honest interests than try and act like everything youve ever loved was in an ironic way cause you think that love for simple or useless or silly things is beneath you . pathetic! embrace existence with both hands coward

[feliicityrampant]

i wish there was a site that was like. video game hints. that were less walkthroughs and more “it’s in this general area” or “this puzzle is easy if you picked up all seven clues. are you missing one?” or “don’t forget you can [mechanic].” sometimes im stumped but i dont want someone to just tell me the answer…

[feliicityrampant]

oh good fucking news this exists

[pbdigital]

In a similar vein there is Before I Play which is a site that has contributions to kind of give you a heads up on stuff you probably would’ve liked to know ‘before you played’.

Warning that there may and will be spoilers, though they try to avoid them mostly.  It’s a good resource if you constantly worry you’re missing something important or doing thing wrong.

[ruggedrookie]

“gender and sexuality are separate concepts” and “my gender and my sexuality are inherently connected in ways i cannot articulate clearly with words” are concepts that can and do coexist

[clinical-manners]

Math and science are separate concepts, but those bitches always be intermingling…

[catboyrightsmeow-deactivated202]

I know it tends to be regarded as kind of cringe or unhelpful but oh my god when cis people introduce themselves with their pronouns or write them down on a class project, an unbelievable burden gets lifted off my shoulders. It’s so so so helpful. Because I don’t have to be the one to say it first, I’m just following the trend. The precedent gets set for using the pronouns they list so when I show up and it doesn’t quite match that’s fine.

I don’t normally talk about being a “good ally” whatever the hell that means. But this is a good thing, more cis people should do this thing.

[donesparce]

Wow holy shit

[raptorific]

Just for clarity, they did not delete the movie. What they actually did was almost more of a dick move. They blocked the crew’s access to all footage from the movie, seemingly for fear that some (rightfully!) disgruntled crew member would attempt to download and leak the movie. The footage of the movie does still exist, it’s just locked away in WB’s vault so that nobody who wants to see it, including the directors of the movie, can look at it.

In the interview, the director also clarifies that the movie was not finished, a lot of the footage they had was raw, without VFX or or color-correction or score or proper sound effects, and not all of the scenes were finished being shot. They specifically talked about the Snyder Cut as an example of what would still need to happen in order for the movie to still be released: like the Snyder cut, the cast and crew would need to be allowed to come back and, essentially, finish the movie’s post production.

But, specifically, the Snyder Cut was mentioned for another important reason: “The Movie Was Deleted, The Footage No Longer Exists” says that there’s no point in demanding it from the company, since in that situation they can no longer provide it even if they wanted to. In the situation posited by the tweet above, Backlash is fully pointless, just shouting into the void. But “the footage was blocked and locked away from the crew” is shitty, but reversible. “Release The Snyder Cut” style pressure on WB actually stands an outside shot of working. So, keep up the vocal outrage up, and hopefully, eventually, WB will see that they’ll gain more money releasing it than they’ll save by shelving it.

[spacelazarwolf]

“ur just mad bc testosterone turned u into an ugly hairy bald fatty and not an anime twink”

i wonder why young impressionable trans ppl who want to go on t would be afraid of being hairy and bald and fat. i wonder if it’s maybe bc they’ve watched the queer community treat fat queer people in general, but particularly fat queer ppl who are hairy, bald, and/or not feminine, like absolute fucking shit. i wonder if it’s bc our society assigns morality to looks and fat hairy bald ppl get literally treated like predators simply because of the way they look. i wonder if it’s because they watched the rest of the queer community idolize and prioritize white thinness. i wonder if maybe, just maybe, there are deeply seated issues in the queer community that we might wanna address when they make themselves obvious instead of falling back on mocking individuals for the way they look.

[currentlycryingaboutlancelot]

babysat five kids today and three hours in the oldest turns to me, points to her nine year old brother and says, “look what he made.” what he made was a piece of cardboard with “fuck ass shit” written in capital letters in crayon

[hungwy]

i feel like it shouldnt be necessary to reveal your official diagnosis of Brain Fucked to someone for them to treat you better

[argumate]

strange that people choose to be sad when they could simply choose to never think of things again

[shacklesburst]

did you just rediscover buddhism

[memecucker]

Begone Thought

[decayalectical-deactivated20221]

the amount of stranger danger bullshit i see on here is absurd considering how much i cultivate this space to not show me that lmao. The vast vast majority of interpersonal violence occurs either in instiutions or between people who were already known to each other. Your mum is a bigger threat to you than a stranger, yes even a visibly high stranger

[soul-hammered]

The “don’t do violence because they’ll just do more violence to us back and they’ll get what they want” line truly IS borne of cowardice. It admits that a) violence works, and b) you’re too scared to use something that works

[librarycard]

google search How to become so nonbinary it kills people

[mspeclesboy]

quick shoutout to any nonbinary people who may also happen to identify as men, women, or both in some form. also includes nonbinary people who are boys, girls, are both. gender is weird shoutout to us for breaking the rules people try to set. hope y'all have a great day