Bapak Pelajaran Hidup yang Bisa Jadi Tak Sempat Dilisankannya Kepadamu. Bapak is father in Indonesian, but i called my father "Papa". No this writing is not end of year sentimental note. I saw this book yesterday while searching for other book. This book got me at "Bapak", a figure who i lost physically 1,5 years ago. He passed away, caused by heart attack, an attack that we didn't think would happen to him, ever. Pelajaran Hidup yang Bisa Jadi Tak Sempat Dilisankannya Kepadamu means life lessons that he may never say to you, and this title part got me teary instantly. I don't have beautiful father-daughter relationship like most everyone else, but it doesn't mean i don't love him. It's finally true to me that you don't know what you got till it's gone. People say this often, so often that i take it lightly. Then it hit me so hard when he's gone, no backward, no rewind, gone, period. I love him so much till it effing hurts. It was and is still hurt because i didn't say "i love you", "i care for you", "i'm proud of you" as many as possible as many as he could heard. Don't wait till they're gone. Say that you love them, you care for them, you proud of them, you'd do anything to make them happy, your loved ones. Don't use codes nor alien language. Say it directly, use words they understand, act it wholeheartedly, so they feel how warm your love is. Do not wait until only sorry and regrets fill your heart.
