CYNIC

HELLO | WE ARE THE CYNICALSYSTEM | BODILY 20-25 | BETROTHED | MDNI | PROFIC AND DARKSHIP FRIENDLY

[cynicalsys]

HELLO, I'LL BE WRITING OUR INTRO POST HERE - 🛸

MDNI PLEASE WE DO NOT WANT TO INTERACT WITH MINORS

SOME OF THESE ARE MOSTLY JUST A BYI HONESTLY

DNI if you are cis and cis presenting. This may seem rude but it's trauma based. Women or men it does not matter. Queer folks please int!

IF YOU ARE A HOMESTUCK, HLVRAI, SCOTT PILGRIM, FORSAKEN, OR DSMP INTROJECT OR KIN PLEASE TREAD WITH CAUTION MOST OF US ARE HOMESTUCK OR THE OTHER LISTED ADJACENT INTROJECTS AND ARE VERY COMFORTABLY SOURCE CONNECTED, THIS BLOG IS TO MAKE FRIENDS WHO CAN RESPECT OUR BOUNDARIES, SOME OF US ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH DOUBLES.

WE ARE THE CYNICALSYS YOU CAN CALL US CYNIC OR ASK US OUR NAMES BUT SOME MAY NOT RESPOND TO THAT SO PLEASE KEEP THAT IN MIND SOME OF MY HEADMATES ARE VERY SKIDDISH WHEN IT COMES TO PEOPLE IN GENERAL WHILE OTHERS ARE SOCIAL BUTTERFLIES

NOTE: RARELY SOME HEADMATES MAY USE SIMILAR IDENTIFYING TAGS!

WE ARE A DIAGNOSED TRAUMAGENIC SYS WITH SEVERAL OTHER DIAGNOSED DISORDERS AND HIGHLY SUSPECT OTHERS WE WILL AND MAY USE TYPING QUIRKS AND ITS UP TO EACH HEADMATE TO CHOOSE WHETHER THEY PUT TRANSLATIONS OR NOT

PLEASE DO NOT ARGUE OVER IT WE WILL DELETE COMMENTS THAT ARE JUST PLAIN RUDE!

- SOME OF OUR MORAL STANDINGS -

WE ARE PROFIC, DARKSHIP, AND PARAPHILE FRIENDLY

WE ARE NOT PRO-C OR NEU-C FRIENDLY WHEN IT COMES TO THE PARAPHILIAS THAT CAN BE HARMFUL OR TRAUMATIC TO SOMEONE

NO CONTACT PARAPHILES ARE WELCOME TO INTERACT BUT PLEASE KEEP CONVERSATIONS WITH US SFW UNLESS WE BECOME FRIENDS

WE ARE ANTI RADQ

WE ARE VERY FRIENDLY ABOUT NEOPRONOUNS, OR IDENTITIES THAT DONT QUITE FIT IN MOST CATEGORIES AND WILL ALWAYS TRY TO RESPECT ANYONES PRONOUNS BUT THINGS LIKE TRANSAGE/RACE/ETC ARE NOT TOLERATED PLEASE

ENDOGENIC WILLOGENIC AND TULPAGENIC IDENTIFYING PEOPLE DO NOT INTERACT WITH US WE WONT INTERACT AND WE WILL BLOCK

WITH THAT OUT OF THE WAY HERE IS A LINK TO OUR LIKES AND INTERESTS: LINK HERE

[melancholic-whimsy]

say egoisitical or selfish instead of narcissistic please 😭

[cyclone-sam]

sorry but if you can't even handle the existence of fiction about abuse and incest, then how the hell are you having conversations about it irl. Someday, you will meet a victim of these dark acts of abuse. you will have to hold back your vomit long enough to listen to their story. the reality of it will slap you in the face and fiction will feel so small.

I don't trust any of you to give victims dignity if your "activism" consists of bullying writers, readers, and artists who are trying to explore and empathize with those topics through art.

[mfimthestraightestshota]

*someone follows me*

Me: Oh cool! Let's see their blog!

*watches their dni list*

"DNI PROFIC DNI PROSHIP DNI PROKINK IF YOU ARE ANY OF THESE YOU'RE A DISGUSTING AND PERVERTED SOUL AND I HOPE YOU DIE AND YOU DESERVE TO BE SKINNED ALIVE"

[cynicalsys]

i believe there are no other profic spaces i can join and feel comfortable in because of my stupid and weird problems and boundaries. i want more friends and i want to like make art with people and just have fun and meet people who enjoy chatting, but befriending a lot of other systems or lots of yumeshippers who ship with specific medias is really hard for me because i can't interact with people who indulge in certain ways with certain medias. honestly just destined to have like the smallest amount of people in the world i can be entirely comfortable with that they're not breaking a boundary in some form or way? guess that's what going through all kinds of messed up stuff does to a guy in life. i just want someone who is funny and cool and wont make me super super uncomfortable to chill with sometimes and like know they wont be weird or creepy to me or other boundary breaking things. it's not like i hate selfshippers or other systems or anything, i'd give anything to be able to not have the boundaries i do, those being the ones in my byi/dni on my pinned. i wish there was a place i could go where i didn't have these issues, or i wish my own server would become more active. the worlds a really lonely place when you have disorders/symptoms of said disorders. have spent months looking for friends or spaces to make friends and it's looking really bland for me. - 🌪 edit - i've also noticed this trend that like a majority of profic spaces are still really against no contact paraphiles, or at the very least very picky and choosey with them. like they'll go "oh x y z fictional scenarios are fine!" but they draw the line at the lolisho fiction. it's really irritating.

[vampire-loving-vampire]

u people have got to get more normal ab people who don't make sense to u . I mean like people who ramble on and don't know how to have proper conversation . people who are completely incomprehensible . people who talk about delusions and hallucinations . people who can't understand social cues . people with speech impediments or no speech at all . people with vocal tics . not just because it's the decent thing to do but also bc this is most common in the most vulnerable marginalized people . youth , elders , mentally ill , disabled , addicts as well as more generally people with accents & non English speakers .

[eptck]

you have to be kinder to people with memory issues.

you have to be kinder to people who are slow processors.

you have to be kinder to people who don't understand your jokes.

you have to be kinder to people who forget important dates.

you have to be kinder to people with cognitive decline.

you have to be kinder to people who were always this way, too.

you have to be kind. you have to be kind.

[thelittledaily-deactivated20260]

REBLOG THIS TO GIVE THE PERSON YOU REBLOGGED THIS FROM A GOLD STAR BECAUSE THEY’VE BEEN STELLAR TODAY AND THEY DESERVE IT ⭐️

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

people have said good things about you behind your back, without your knowledge. people have shared their love for you with others.

[cynicalsys]

TADC SPOILERS!!!

i hate that people are immediately jumping to calling jax a trans woman when it's extremely obvious they are queer, and not solidly one thing? if gooseworx says something sure, we can go with them being a trans woman, but why does everyone in the queer community immediately fallow the binary genders. everyone just hates queer folks who don't fit into the two boxes. staying in those boxes wont make cis straights like you.

they literally mention something about being a complete genderfuck, like finally some good representation for someone potentially.not following a binary concept and everyone immediately say it's one thing or another. everyone puts people into these cinfined boxes and i hate it.

we should love and support our whole community, there is hardly any representation for those who don't follow a binary solid thing. it's okay to make headcanons or to relate to something bit it just shows how much people still confine themselved to these binaries and it's harmful for people who don't. -🌪

[coffeeismyboyfriend]

A sentence that always makes me sad is:

"I understand you have trauma, but that doesn't mean you can write [taboo topic]."

Yes, you absolutely can write a taboo topic. In fact, a lot of therapists suggest using fiction to cope with trauma and many encourage writing/reading dark things if it makes you feel better because its fictional

It makes me sad that so many trauma survivors who've already lost their personal autonomy are being told they're not allowed to have it again in a completely safe way

Prioritizing the "safety" of fictional characters and intolerance of discomfort over the feelings and coping skills of people with trauma will never not disappoint me, and remind me that not everyone truly cares about trauma victims when the conversation gets uncomfortable

[pro-faggotry]

A fictional character is just a figment of imagination. A fictional character is lesser than an object. You can not hurt a fictional character. It is not real. It is a vehicle for concepts and nothing more.

If you are making the choice to emulate what you see in fiction, that is your choice. You did that. Not the fiction. You did. Take responsibility for your shitty actions. You aren't as stupid as you want me to think you are.

[catgirltoes]

What the hell happened to the energy around gender neutral bathrooms. Remember when we were fighting for all bathrooms to be gender neutral. But now we can barely argue that people can use the gendered bathroom of their choice. Maybe there's some single stall bathroom tucked away in a basement somewhere.

[tape3ater]

URGENT; Help us escape hazardous living situation!

I posted about this once before, but I'm posting again out of desparation, as our living situation is getting worse. Despite paid utilities, our power keeps randomly getting cut assumedly due to faults in the building, and we are also randomly being left without warm water to even take showers. That is ontop of the already heavy issues which are elaborated on in my GoFundMe. I've also decided that people can donate to my Cashapp instead if they wish, which I'll also link. If anyone chooses to donate, either me or my boyfriend @cynicalsys will draw a piece of art for you, even if its doodles. You can see examples of my doodles on @tape-eats-art and my boyfriends on his Toyhouse My boyfriend will draw almost anything except for oc x canon (just a preference), and I can really only draw single characters, usually humanoid.

[planetpopstarian]

To those concerned that liking l0licon or Sh0tac0n makes them a pedo, please read some of this, which states otherwise.

If I like lolicon, does it mean I’m a pedophile? A therapist’s view

It's crucial to emphasize that fantasy remains distinct from action, or even from other kinds of desire.

[fuckantishippers]

Antis will see this and say "anything to justify pedophilia." And that's why you cant get through to them.

[autistichalsin]

Periodic rent-lowering-gunshots:

Fiction is not reality.

You can enjoy things in fiction that would be awful in the real world. Like playing a murderhobo in a game! In the real world, being or supporting a murderer-thief would be pretty damn awful, while in the game it's just good fun. Same with anything else you choose to do with the pixels on the screen, like kinks that don't affect anyone real, so they're okay in fiction, but would be pretty damn bad in real life.

No one else is responsible for your online experience. They are required not to harass you, but they are not and never will be obligated to not post about ships, kinks, or tropes you dislike just to avoid you seeing them. It's up to you to blacklist words or phrases, block tags, or even block users as needed to avoid seeing content that upsets you.

No one can force you to read anything against your consent. Any content you don't like seeing can be instantly avoided by closing out of the offending post/fic.

You are not owed an online experience free of discomfort.

Nothing that happens in your imagination can ever make you a bad person. Words you write or read about fictional characters will never make you a bad person.

The claim that media consumption influences real-life behavior is intellectually dishonest and serves only to excuse the behavior of real offenders.

Fiction is a safe way to explore horrifying or confusing concepts. Therapists agree that fiction, even (or especially) about taboo topics is a good coping mechanism, especially, but not exclusively, for trauma survivors. Fiction is to adults what play therapy is to children. This doesn't stop being true if the work in question is of a sexual nature.

Sex isn't an inherently worse or better motivation than anything else. A work written to create feelings of arousal isn't dirty, shameful, or in any way less pure than works written to entertain, provoke moral questions, or for other reasons. And worth noting is that multiple purposes can exist in the same story, especially fanfiction.

You aren't entitled to an explanation for why someone reads, writes, or otherwise enjoys certain works, kinks, tropes, ships, etc.

[tongue-tearer]

"i helped a darkshipper find a new coping mechanism"

well that sounds nice but did you actually comfort them and find a coping mechanism that actually works better for them or did you just manage to gaslight them into thinking that what they're doing is going to turn them into a predator one day and that they're just as bad as their abuser? do you actually know anything about mental health or do you just assume stuff and act like its the truth because it makes sense in your brain? do you actually know what you're talking about or do you think a coping mechanism works the same for everyone in the whole world? do you know how MOST (not all) victims cope with their trauma or do you assume a coping mechanism is automatically unhealthy for everyone in the world because the kind of stuff it may contain PERSONALLY makes YOU uncomfortable and assume a coping mechanism is healthy just because you PERSONALLY don't find the stuff it has "icky". do you really care about that person or do you just want everyone to be the way you want them to be without anything you PERSONALLY may find "icky"? do you have any proof that darkshipping is unhealthy or do you assume that people who like darkfiction don't have critical thinking skills and morals?

obviously this kinda stuff does not work the same for everyone and i am fully aware of that. but are you aware of that too?