DandDisaster @danddisaster - Tumblr Blog

tahthetrickster

who wants to see the worst thing ive seen this week

tahthetrickster

too bad, im showing you anyway

arsondotpng

a non-photoshopped picture of someone actually wearing them, for your viewing pleasure

melonisopod

digitaldiscipline

Goddammit, Moon Moon.

souperluminal

Signal Wizard and the Noise

filibusterfrog

core classes as undead :)

holboldoart

The Crow Beneath the Ancient Arch

Hey I should probably actually post here more, huh??

goobra

my unpopular opinion is that i hate tiktok because now people just publicly watch loud ass videos in public spaces with no regard for anyone else. 100% it was not this bad with youtube, it’s such a different thing with tiktok. put on headphones. you are grown.

Girl……

byjoveimbeinghumble

This is it! This is what social media/smart tech have done! They’ve rotted away any distinction between private and public.

Yes, we do have the right to make demands on public behavior. Of course we do. Have you never heard of laws and etiquette? I’m not allowed to grocery shop naked. You can’t rummage through my purse. I can’t have a work meeting in the middle of a movie theatre.

I remember when it was taboo simply to answer your cell phone in public. The person answering would apologize and try to go to a more private area. Then public calls were normalized. Then putting people on speaker. Then listening to music without headphones. Do you know how many times I have hiked up a mountain or driven to the beach, only to be met with someone blaring shitty top 40 music from their portable speaker, because Heaven forbid you go one hour without noise?

Old woman yells at cloud and all that, but I can’t believe someone is not only admitting this behavior, but saying it’s a good thing! No one likes you! You’re a menace!

elidyce

BEING INCONSIDERATE OF OTHERS IS STILL BAD.

It was obnoxious when it was youtube.

It was obnoxious when it was music.

It was obnoxious when it was the radio.

It was obnoxious when it was dudes wanting to talk to you instead of letting you just read your freaking book.

Do you want to be this guy? Because being obnoxious in shared spaces is how you become this guy.

Wear your damn headphones like an adult participant in the social contract.

10thingsihateabout-all-yall

Best art history lesson ever, thank you

hazeldomain

radicalgraff

“Do not fuck the police, they’re mad vanilla & they always cum first”

electronicgallery

It appears that boredom lies behind the most creative ideas. That's why quarantine has produced some of the most entertaining activities. One of them is the Getty Museum challenge, that so many of you have already seen in our previous article here.

delphinidin4

Narcissus taking a selfie is the ACTUAL best.

simplyclockwork

These are REALLY cool

notallfay

These are art in themselves, in a some of them point out what lockdown was like for us, they’re expressed themselves in a really cool way. But I think these are going to be talked about in the future.

mafuyuh

prof-grace-aspen

Here's the thing:

Cis people really do feel like the gender they were assigned at birth.

Cis women really do feel like women, and cis men really do feel like men. They experience what we would call gender euphoria related to dressing and expressing themselves as their gender, whether that's in a femme way or a butch way or any other way. They feel joy and connection with their gender, with their sexuality and how it relates to their gender. They wear clothes, participate in activities, and express themselves in ways that affirm their gender identity.

Gender critical radfems and terfs will try to convince you that "no woman feels like a woman". They do this for several reasons. Firstly, it's to try to convince trans men they aren't trans, they're just women with no connection to womanhood because "no woman feels a connection to womanhood". They also do it to try to discredit trans women, by saying "If you feel like a woman, then you're clearly not a woman, because "woman" isn't a feeling, it's biology".

A lot of gender critical terfs and radfems claim they are "dysphoric women", and will try to convince you this is a normal state of womanhood. I'm gonna go out on a limb and say no, that doesn't sound normal at all, actually. Most women do not secretly wish they could be men, or more androgynous, or have a penis. Most women don't define their lives through suffering - they love being women.

If womanhood - or manhood - is making you miserable... you might be trans, or you might be gender nonconforming. See if dressing a different way makes you feel a spark of joy and happiness - seek euphoria!

Gender should be joyous, not drudgery.

headspace-hotel

I am a cis woman and I absolutely feel happiness and contentment associated with being a woman, but not with being "feminine—" I started to experience what trans people know as "gender euphoria" when I cut my hair short and started presenting more "masculine." shoutout to butch lesbians for being literally my first experience of "oh, *I* want to look/dress/be like that"

transcyberism

Yeah, I'm a trans man and I know the feeling you're talking about - a lot of times, before I started T, I remember going to the hairstylist and asking for a short cut, only to be given a pixie cut that was a similar style to what a lot of lesbians have, and it didn't make me look or feel male at all. and I remember feeling miserable, because I didn't want to look like a woman with short hair, I wanted to look like a man. The first time I experienced euphoria from a hairstyle was when I asked the stylist to spike up my hair like David Tennant and she actually did what I asked, and it actually made me look male.

headspace-hotel

Yeah, see, if I try to imagine actually being addressed and perceived as a man, all I feel is revulsion and sadness. I just want to be a woman who is just like a guy at the auto parts store

sunspotpony

I seem to recall hearing about an exchange in which somebody’s cis dude friend helped lift and carry something heavy, and got to be everybody’s big strong man, and he was feeling all powerful about it, and realized “wait, fuck, is this what trans folks call gender euphoria?”

Cis people absolutely do get gender euphoria. And I’m fuckin happy for them when they do.