Woe's Daughter

We're the Askosia system, a bodily 20y/o autistic/adhd trans girl just generally vibing and sharing the random stuff that we find interesting. This blog is primarily used by two of our members, and posts specifically by other/specific members will be tagged with their initial. Stuff we're likely to post about include ttrpgs, fantasy writing, mental health and whatever our current hyperfixation is. That being said, Minors, transphobes and the like, kindly keep moving.

[roaches-inthecereal]

[uwuinhell]

[foxmulders]

it’s crazy how much you can read if you read

[redstonedust]

i could never handle being a popular showrunner/writer/creator with a fandom because i know id go read fanfiction about my own characters and have to be physically held back from posting "you guys really think [blorbo] is a top??" on main

[redstonedust]

i wanna see more stories with a time skip epilogue where at least one character has clearly transed their gender and it isnt really remarked upon. bonus if none of them were remotely hinted to be trans until that moment because i think it'd be funny to watch a fandom react to that. your blorbo's happily ever after involves being a woman. dont worry about it.

[loontattoo]

being vulnerable and admitting I don't understand a reference

[thecacophonyspeaks]

being plural is so funny because i’ll be watching from a backseat in my own mind as someone else wearing my face talks and interacts with people i’ve known all my life, which would normally be horrifying but they’re my brain homies so it’s chill

[podencos]

I cherish small intimacies. A head resting against a shoulder, lips brushing against a nose, a kiss on the neck, a hand reaching out for my own

[tpwrtrmnky]

Girl who has increasingly obvious Symptoms over time: Actually I shouldn't put myself first because I'm the Healthy One and therefore responsible for everyone else all the time no matter what

[cottoncandylesbo]

let's fucking go i just got called a "weird little freak" by a really beautiful woman . we're gonna make it out alive

[rockabillywife]

You guys would like my posts a lot more if you had my exact life experiences and internal monologue

[stoatviet-union]

*introducing myself to the guards who caught me* seized to meet you

[kosmogrl]

[poetrylesbian]

good news everyone

[traumasurvivors]

Even if I didn’t have a solid plan, in the back of my head, I always assumed I’d kill myself.

Now I’m an adult and people my age have their lives in order and I’m stuck here, confused, because I never planned to be alive and I’m so far behind.

I feel like I’ll never catch up.

[traumasurvivors]

Hey all.

I want to make an addition to this. I made this post a long time ago.

I’m currently back in university, and I’ve made so much progress with my trauma. I’m in a loving relationship.

Things can and will get better. It’s not too late.

Nothing is perfect by any means. But I’m happy I’m still here and didn’t kill myself. I hope you get to that point, too 💕

[traumasurvivors]

The addition is important! I see the original post circulating a lot, but the addition is important!

[traumasurvivors]

New addition two years later. I’m still going strong!

I’m getting married. I’m still in that loving relationship.

I’ve learned that there’s no real timeline. It’s okay. And while it sucks that I lost time, there’s still so much for me to experience and enjoy.

[traumasurvivors]

Newest addition. 7 years after the original post!

I got married last month! My dog is laying on me snoring. I’ve learned to have healthy friendships and relationships. I’ve learned that I’m not alone and that even when things are hard, I’m going to be okay.

[traumasurvivors]

This showed up in my notes again. And here we are. 2026.

I’ve been married a little over two years. I just got home from friendships that feel like home and family. My husband and I have our own place. I have a full ass book ready to be published.

I don’t know. I’m still in a good place and I can’t believe how far I’ve come from my original post.

[meadow-dot-7z]

Thanks for the offer, I really do appreciate the offer. I'll have to decline for now, as I'm pretty sure there's nothing going on with me, as I lack some of the most crucial symptoms. Thank you regardless ^_^

I'll note that plurality can take a lot of different forms and even if you're only looking at the very narrow slice of plural experiences that are described in the DSM there's stuff like OSDD where hard memory barriers or fully distinct separate identities aren't necessary for a diagnosis, and that beyond that plurality is kinda just a catch-all term for any situation where there's multiple people in your noggin, but that's your prerogative and I won't push ya

[lyrasyst]

It's important to add, the DSM is just a list of constellations of symptoms. It describes and gives names to common associations between symptoms that seemingly tend to appear as a group, but at the end of the day, the stars are still there shining in the sky, regardless of and oblivious to how we choose to group them. Our understanding of our own plurality was delayed by years because we kept telling ourselves the same thing, that it mostly fit but not exactly so clearly it couldn't be the case... and yet it was, both because it took accepting that it could be the case to even notice some of the symptoms we had thought we lacked, and because the DSM is just constellations.

Whether you explore it now or not, whether the conclusion you come to is plurality or not, I wish you luck in your journey towards greater understanding of yourself(s), anon ❤️

[succumbing-song]

[newvegascowboy]

"Tumblr is my bedroom" this "tumblr is a pinboard" that

Tumblr is an apartment complex with thin walls and every so often you just have to listen to your neighbors say the most deranged shit imaginable

[bingomann]