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transfem | mid 20s | she/her, nothing else

[dinocardida]

hi i post/reblog whatever i want here, usually untagged. this means nsfw, so if you don't wanna see that, just block and move on.

[ultramanzer0]

is prev a warrior of light or an agent of darkness

warrior of light

agent of darkness

Remaining time: 2 hours 37 minutes

[shamebats]

Oh come on lady, you can't deny a man his gaycation

[shamebats]

You must surrender yourself mind, body and soul to the gaycation or be destroyed

[shamebats]

Someone on reddit already suggested a sapphibbatical

[the-haiku-bot]

Someone on reddit

already suggested a

sapphibbatical

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[mechanica1-hands]

how could you leave out the best part—the aquarium bit

[shamebats]

"become a fish" (gay)

[ladyananas]

men will jump through an entire circus' worth of hoops rather than admitting they're bi

[helpless--romantics]

[theivorybilledwoodpecker]

The level of mental hoops that guy had to jump through to say to his wife, "No, honey! Of course I wouldn't be cheating on you! Sex during gaycations doesn't count!"

[theivorybilledwoodpecker]

Holy fucking shit! It gets trippier!

I mean, I feel horrible for the OP and her SIL...but "surrender to the gaycation" made me laugh way more than I should have.

[emilynyaaa]

this is an insane story

[flickering-leaves]

“Some men never return”

Helpppppp 😭

[brightlotusmoon]

[harperhug]

Um…here’s the reddit link? I’m speechless.

[handageddon]

Don't worry honey, all the other men on gaycation aren't real people and they stop existing after. Hey, where's all the homophoboa coming from suddenly?

[mananabuffins]

That's the beauty of the gaycation!

[authoratmidnight]

It get wilder. I only found out about this b/c of a youtube video reading the Gaycation post but, this isn't even the first one.

7 years ago someone posted this-

And 5 years a different user posted this-

What is happening with these people??? What weird ass cult did they find??

[catboy-artist]

I read the shithead guy’s rambling in Nagito Komaeda’s voice

[mlembug]

"some men never return because they're "totally feminized" into the state of permanent "pseudo-gayness"" is my favourite line out of the entire post

[newholecity]

yeah deeply unwell disabled women who like to pretend to be dogs have had it too good for too long. they need taking down a peg.

[newholecity]

i do think the gall of framing it as an uplifting piece about leaving your shitty girlfriend -- as opposed to a sad short story about a kind of miserable situation that can and does happen -- is especially bad. deeply unwell disabled trans women can be hard to care for! people get burnt out! but to frame "escape" from being someones primary caretaker as a reclamation of your true self is cruel.

[tammog]

Also the constant "she is acting so much like a man. She is just a man in women's clothing. And she wears those clothes but does not do women's work, you know, being in the kitchen and cleaning everything".

[hijabi-detected]

Do ‘feminists’ who believe that Islam is inherently abusive towards women.. Understand the direct damage they cause towards abused Muslim women?

Like, if a Muslim woman were to open up about any abuse she faces (whether from a spouse, or a parent, or someone else in the community) one of the first reactions she may get is ‘Islam abuses women. Islam is a bad religion. Islam is backwards, its behind, its abusive, we need to get rid of it’.

This initial extreme reaction is just making Muslim women afraid of opening up about abuse.

We know that if we mention any abuse, the automatic response (the expectation) will be to give up our religion and our beliefs. These feminists care about us, but only if we conform to that expectation. Otherwise, we’re brainwashed, we’re complacent, we’re part of the problem. Muslim women end up being unsupported by everyone around them, including the very women that claim to want to help abolish abuse against women.

This applies to queer Muslims too. By calling the entirety of Islamic society queerphobic, you indirectly let queer Muslims know that they are not welcome. And they're not. They end up in a state where they are not welcome in their homophobic societies nor in the communities that claim to be 'queer-friendly'. They have to build their own spaces, and then still end up getting constantly attacked from both sides.

Your islamophobia isn't helping anyone.

[thisis-islamophobia]

This is Islamophobia

Women are going to get hurt by abusive men no matter what, what should be done instead of blaming religion is to blame the men who can't even read their own scriptures. Stop trying to blame everything but the scumbags themselves.

[kunaigirl]

Me: "Damn people are REALLY BAD at knowing when to tag their eyestrain art/images...either that or they just don't care about photosenitive epileptic people like me. I feel really sad now." Person: "But Allison, what if they just don't know or understand what qualifies as eyestrain and what doesn't?" Me: "You know what? That could be a factor...While it is always better to be safe rather than sorry (so YES people should always tag eyestrain even if they're unsure if it "counts" or not) maybe you've got a point?"

Anyways! HERE'S YOUR HANDY GUIDE TO WHAT CAN COUNT AS EYESTRAIN! I'm pulling this straight from the Artfight rules page about what needs to be labeled and filtered as eyestrain because it's VERY helpful and VERY accurate! I also know not everybody has an AF account and might not always have access to this handy guide, and this is an important resource; That's why I'm sharing it here! (under the cut)

PLEASE TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY!!! THIS IS ABOUT THE HEALTH AND SAFETY OF OTHERS!!!

Full eyestrain AF page link

"But Allison! How were you able to screenshot that example if you're so sensitive to eyestrain?"

I dimmed the HELL out of my computer screen and looked away while taking the screenshot and did the same when putting it into this post, that's how lol. BUT YEAH ANYWAYS!!! Once again:

PLEASE TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY!!! THIS IS ABOUT THE HEALTH AND SAFETY OF OTHERS!!!

[rightdownright]

by the way this is medical. this could save somebody from a migraine all the way to a seizure. this has always been serious. treat this seriously.

[hotvampireadjacent]

[yandere-angela]

makima sea bream

[maidthings]

[sailatina2-deactivated20251222]

Are puppies petit bourgeois? Well they are really really small and little so they got the petit part down.

[bitchautism]

@sailatina3

[sailatina3]

Little did I know how relevant this would be.

[storyweavingspider]

[misselaney]

Natural Black Hair Tutorial! Usually Black hair is excluded in the hair tutorials which I have seen so I have gone through it in depth because it’s really not enough to tell someone simply, “Black hair is really curly, draw it really curly.” 

The next part of Black Hair In Depth will feature styles and ideas for designing characters and I will release it around February. If you would like to see certain styles, please shoot me a message!

[smallrevolutionary]

YES! BOOSTINGGGG FOR MY FOLKS WHO WANNA/NEED TO KNOW HOW

[this-site-isnt-safe-for-me]

[this-site-isnt-safe-for-me]

💯💯💯

@rinsedrice

[this-site-isnt-safe-for-me]

completely valid complaint i hope she and her partner get the money they need

[morganitism]

Can we be serious

[morganitism]

Come onnnnnn

[dinocardida]

This is basically saying "rags-to-riches stories are basically the most anticapitalist thing you can do" but with feminism. It does not actually shatter capitalism/the patriarchy to move between classes, and using the privilege one gains from this "bulldozing" against the underclass you were once a part of (as most privileged people do, especially if they refuse to recognize their privilege) actually reaffirms it.

And this post so blatantly shows that transmasc misogynists do get it despite their unwillingness to acknowledge it. They clearly recognize that women are an underclass ("someone the patriarchy deems as lesser") and that they transition into a [higher] class ("bulldozing your way into a social class"). But they refuse to actually acknowledge this and instead cling to their AGAB, which just maintains the system of transmisogyny.

[sapphling]

[nihilist columbo voice] just no more thing

[storyweavingspider]

Transphobia is so fascinating sometimes because I just got an example of why “everyone is transmisogyny affected” is a bullshit statement on my bus ride home.

A man starts complaining about how “the mobility aids are taking up too much room in the aisle” about me and two older folks (in their 80s+), a man with a cane and a woman with a seat-type walker, in the disability seats. He starts trying to get the attention of the woman with a walker by calling her “man” and “sir”, even going so far as to get up and shake her walker to get her attention, to try to tell her to fold it up.

Multiple folks instantly jump to her defense about how “she’s a lady, that’s obviously a woman” and I tell him to stop complaining/touching mobility aids of people in fucking disability seats.

He swaps to me and spends the rest of the ride apologizing for misgendering the woman to the people around him (“I respect women all the time!!”), swapping between threatening to attack me or talking about how I need to “keep that shit (dressing as a woman) at home”. Nobody reacts beyond giving him disapproving side-eye and telling him to “shut up, you’re disturbing everyone” with no reprimand of his transphobia this time.

This is the difference between transmisogyny wrongfully and temporarily levied at TME people and transmisogyny directed at trans women. TME folks get protection whereas for TMA folks the average extent of care is the annoyance/inconvenience to other TME folks.

Stop pretending shit is the same.

[transsexual-feminism]

This is transfeminism!

[innumerable-voices]

I just adore girls who show off immaturity

Pig tails, bracers, sticking their tongue out to concentrate, pointing their feet in, babbling at me for hours about all their favourite things

*dreamy sigh*

[innumerable-voices]

Most normalist milf ever: do you ahhh, do you maybe need help tying your shoe laces? >.<

[innumerable-voices]

Obviously I'd never want to sexualise or infantalise anyone's physical or intellectual disabilities,,, unless you're into it in which case awww your lil handsies don't work like they should? You get so so sleepy all the time? You stumble over your words and repeat yourself? You can't think good like you used to and it makes you so so grumpy and frustrated? It's okay little thing mama is here I'll brush your teeth and wash your hair and tie your shoe laces and listen to you talk endlessly and make you feel so good in that special way only mamas can, just trust me and it'll all be ok

[innumerable-voices]

You deserve people in your life who will love everything about you including your disabilities not in spite of them

[innumerable-voices]

You deserve people in your life who will love everything about you including your disabilities not in spite of them

Feels like one of the most important things I've ever said

[sapphireh3art]

fascinating how you if you stand firm against transmisoginy and prove yourself a traitor to the state of white supremacy you can experience a sampler platter of what trans women are forced to live through at all times

[technofeudalism]

being a pervert used to mean something. it used to require a smidgen of creativity and effort. in the past, you would have to commission your local internet deviant if you wanted feet content of video game characters. now your fetish is packaged and sold to you via micro transactions linked to your apple pay. capitalism is a blight.