🌈 Disability Safe Space

A disability safe space for rambling, hot takes, pointing out ableism, positive tales, and more! pfp by me :)

[disability-safe-space]

.𖥔 ݁ 🌈 Disability Safe Space 🛝 ˖ִ ࣪𖤐

🍄 Intro, byf, dni, and extra info ☁️

[Scroll to bottom for DNI]

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Hi! I'm the creator of the blog. My name is Leonis, and I'm the host of the Crimson Skies ✦ system. The PFP art is by me, but the mask I used for it is not.

Pronouns; He/cloud/fish/blood/fang, feel free to just use one of these, all, or some :)

Gender; I'm sebgender ! (Self-coined Sebastian Solace xenogender) And also a trans dude. I align on a very masculine side of stuff in general :)

Age; I'm 18. If you're uncomfortable with my age you may block or DNI ! :))

Extra; I'm an alterhuman, trauma survivor, and I have a silly cat

Main acc : @princeleonis

Popular Sebastian Solace rp acc ; @official-sebastian-solace

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Why the kidcore ish blog theme?

Well, I find kidcore and bright playful liminal stuff to be comforting. I tried to make it so the blog doesn't cause eyestrain (I really hope that's the case) while remaining colorful and fun. It also serves as a reminder that disability doesn't have to always be doom and gloom, but those who are disabled can still be whimsical :)

Also, it's nostalgic for many, and might bring some smiles in these hard times!

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What can I submit here?

- "Is this ableism?"

- "Ableism is when..."

- "Am I being ableist?"

- Mobility aid stuff, pos, neutral, or negative

- Disability or ableism related vent (these may often just be posted with a single sentence for others to reply to, as I'm not great at comfort)

- Disability related polls

- Disability positivity

- Questions about me / my bio / my beliefs and dni (for example, if you're unsure if you fit in my DNI or not, feel free to send an ask about it before blocking or following)

- Symptom talk

- anything else related to mental or physical disability!

TW appropriately at the top of any submission that may have TWs so I can tag them

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Before you follow;

First of all, read our DNI.

Second of all, I am not a licensed professional. I don't know about every disability or what they may be like, and I cannot provide comfort very well a lot of the time.

Third of all, I am self diagnosed with certain things. I cannot afford to get medical exams, I live in America. Do I plan to get diagnosed? Once I move, slowly, yes. With everything possible.

Some things I WILL mention I may have, especially because it changes how I interact with people;

DID/a CDD, autism, BPD, NPD. These actively affect how I interact online.

I am also physically disabled, currently suspecting fibromyalgia. I am diagnosed with mild scoliosis as well. Also have lung problems with no actual source cause other than getting covid from 2020 or so? But yeah. Just some stuff :3

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Do Not Interact

- (Pro) endos/willos. I don't believe in fakeclaiming anyone's experiences, but endogenic and willogenic claims are medically impossible. Plus, a lot of the community likes to harass peeps. Neutrals are on thin ice- endos/willos, especially willos, are pretty ableist, and not siding can often be siding.

- Anti Polyminds. POLYMIND IS NOT A TERM RELATED TO SYSTEMS, ENDOS, OR ANYTHING SIMILAR. I am a polyminded alter due to the symptoms of my personality disorders.

- Anti sysplex. Sysplexes are not endos. They are disordered and traumatized. They are just not systems and don't have CDDs (usually, correct me if I'm wrong)

- transandrophobia deniers! It exists. I had someone who used to be really close to me go heavy transandrophobic towards me, you will not convince me it's not real. Same goes for specific transphobias against any part of the spectrum, if you are a denier, gtfo :)

- T R A S H obviously

- Pro contact / pro harmful paraphilia. However, paraphiles in recovery are 100% supported here, actions will always speak over thoughts and disorders.

- Narcisstic abuse / cluster b abuse / "disorder" abuse believers. Doesn't exist. And again I have like two cluster bs and a bajillion disorders /exag

- Pro ai !!! We hate AI here. Boooo ai

- Anti good faith / contradictory labels

- (Pro) Radqueers and transids.

- Proshippers.

- Anti mogai (Xenogenders, neopronouns, etc)

- Anyone who condones harassment (unless we're harassing a corrupt politician, I'm in)

- Fakeclaimers. If you don't have ACTUAL, SOLID PROOF like admittance from the person about DID or any disorder, don't even TRY

- Anti alterhumanity ! Including non harmful physical therians. As far as I can tell, only a small part of physical therians are being harmful in the first place

- Anyone who's anti or weird towards less common religions. Including hellenism (Greek gods) and satanism (atheistic and theistic alike), which I have been a part of both religions in my life.

- Conservative and toxic religious people. Stop traumatizing people with something that was supposed to provide safety.

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One last thing; this is our lil mascot, Leon the Leopard :)

He's my disability based sona :))

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[disability-safe-space]

Do you think it's ableist for jobs to require a driver's license when the job doesn't involve driving? I have some mental health challenges around driving, and haven't gotten my license yet, but it makes getting job difficult. Like why does this job as a grocery store stocker require a license? Why do I need a license for this job of walking back and forth on a train?

I think it's ridiculous, considering not everyone is able to drive, or some people just don't feel comfortable driving. It would make sense for a job to require a state-issued ID, which *could* include a driver's license, but could also accept a non-driving ID like I have.

Honestly a lot of the time I feel like it's just a way for businesses to sneakily prevent people with disabilities from working there, while also claiming to be an "equal opportunity employer"

Honestly, yeah. In places like here, driving lessons also cost a lot too. It's not very accessible at all. Even getting a regular ID can be a process (one I'm going through right now actually lol) especially for those with disabilities.

I think if there's no driving in the job description, they shouldn't be legally allowed to ask for a driver's license.

I've noticed a lot of businesses do something to prevent disabled people from working there. There's not many disability friendly jobs, even in very "woke" areas.

[decadentqueentidalwave]

It’s also an anti poor person thing. They paint people who take the bus or get dropped off as “unreliable.”

Common advice is to borrow a car and drive yourself to the interview and your probationary period of work, if you can.

[disability-safe-space]

Oh definitely. Especially if you're somewhere where driving lessons + a basic used car cost a bajillion dollars.

[disability-safe-space]

For the record I am anti proship.

Proshipping tends to excuse very awful things. I do not care that it's fiction because most of the time it's bordering reality or supporting the bad ideas instead of "this is interesting lore, plot, etc"

Please block me if you are a proshipper. I will not be arguing about it, I do not feel safe around that community. This blog is not for you.

[disability-safe-space]

Texts with my mom, trying to figure out why her response upset me. Ive been physically disabled for like 2 years now and its always really bugged me how she talks like it can be fixed or like I dont need things cause in the future I might get better.

I guess this is an 'is this ableism' type ask, dont know if it is or if im just losing it over nothing lol

This is ableism. I've noticed a lot of ableist parents are convinced physical disabilities are fixable... Hell even ones with good intentions are sometimes.

I'm sorry she said that to you. I think a better response on her end would've been something that actually related to your point about them advertising to seniors.

I looked up "rollators for young adults" myself yet all of their images still feature seniors. I get that's a large majority of rollator users but... jeez.

I hope you find one you like and get it without hassle or judgement !!!

[disability-safe-space]

(Anon image text translation is in the image alt text. Please let me know if it's broken.)

Ooooof... That's genuinely awful. I feel bad for the kid, imagine talking and then your teacher just laughs. I imagine it's likely not the first time someone has had a reaction to their speaking, either, since unfortunately it's very common for some people to pick up the differences and make fun of others over it.

Your stepmother is ableist, yet again. Someone get her fired.

[disability-safe-space]

Do you think it's ableist for jobs to require a driver's license when the job doesn't involve driving? I have some mental health challenges around driving, and haven't gotten my license yet, but it makes getting job difficult. Like why does this job as a grocery store stocker require a license? Why do I need a license for this job of walking back and forth on a train?

I think it's ridiculous, considering not everyone is able to drive, or some people just don't feel comfortable driving. It would make sense for a job to require a state-issued ID, which *could* include a driver's license, but could also accept a non-driving ID like I have.

Honestly a lot of the time I feel like it's just a way for businesses to sneakily prevent people with disabilities from working there, while also claiming to be an "equal opportunity employer"

Honestly, yeah. In places like here, driving lessons also cost a lot too. It's not very accessible at all. Even getting a regular ID can be a process (one I'm going through right now actually lol) especially for those with disabilities.

I think if there's no driving in the job description, they shouldn't be legally allowed to ask for a driver's license.

I've noticed a lot of businesses do something to prevent disabled people from working there. There's not many disability friendly jobs, even in very "woke" areas.

[disability-safe-space]

My lil bro got recently diagnosed with ADHD and was struggling with homework when his mom decided to explain to him about his symptoms and stuff. She also mentioned "but look you're so smart and did very well there and there!" and mentioned one specific exercise. Upon explaining what it was I realized it was the same that I had done when I got diagnosed. My six years old brother did better at me at remembering words sob.

Pfft 😭 (also hello partner :3 sorry for the month wait)

[disability-safe-space]

Sorry for not answering asks- I've seen the few, I will be answering, I've just had a rough week! Your asks did not get deleted I'm just out of spoons.

[disability-safe-space]

(requested to be anon. I do not have the spoons to add the transcript but if anyone needs it I can get it after I've slept just let me know)

Insert me firing the stepmother from her job or at least, getting her 30 years of disability knowledge class /silly

This is, knowingly or not, ableism.

[disability-safe-space]

(requested to be anon. I do not have the spoons to add the transcript but if anyone needs it I can get it after I've slept just let me know)

Insert me firing the stepmother from her job or at least, getting her 30 years of disability knowledge class /silly

This is, knowingly or not, ableism.

[disability-safe-space]

Hey, does anyone have any good more inexpensive wheelchairs they'd recommend? I'm just planning ahead a bit and although I can't get one at this moment when I can, I'd like a good "starter" option. My cane can only do so much every day rip 💔

[disability-safe-space]

Currently writing a character with Synesthesia (Chromesthisia with associative sound-smell) and figured to at least ask here in case you (or anyone following) had any tips on how to write it with a bit of grace (aka any tropes and/or any distasteful things to avoid when writing)

(I don't have it and I don't worry too much about me doing anything insensitive because I personally find it more difficult to write stereotypes/caricatures rather than characters but I want to at least be aware of some things to avoid when writing her)

I'm not super knowledgeable on those specifically so my only tips is not only to do your research, but to try and find stories from people who experience it for an inside perspective!

Other than that, leaving this one to anyone who wants to help out!

[dromaeosauri]

btw if all you are doing as a physically disabled person is survive, you're worthy of being here as much as everyone else. even if you can't work, make art, or leave your home. even if you don't see anything beyond your bedroom and phone screen. even if you gain or lose weight, or your appearance otherwise changes because of your disability. even if you aren't awake or aware most of the time. you being here is enough to contribute to the world. i love you

[disability-safe-space]

Alright I dunno what some of y'all's problem is but if you're going to bring negativity or arguments onto this blog, leave. Block me and move on. I would do the same to you, it is not that hard.

I will rarely mention discourse other than my DNI or others bringing it onto my blog.

As for a more positive note:

Remember you are loved. Doesn't matter how much your disability affects you. You're loved regardless because you are worthy. You always have been. You always will be.

I hope you get to eat your favorite food this week <3

[disability-safe-space]

.𖥔 ݁ 🌈 Disability Safe Space 🛝 ˖ִ ࣪𖤐

🍄 Intro, byf, dni, and extra info ☁️

[Scroll to bottom for DNI]

‧₊˚🌈✩ ₊˚🫧⊹♡

Hi! I'm the creator of the blog. My name is Leonis, and I'm the host of the Crimson Skies ✦ system. The PFP art is by me, but the mask I used for it is not.

Pronouns; He/cloud/fish/blood/fang, feel free to just use one of these, all, or some :)

Gender; I'm sebgender ! (Self-coined Sebastian Solace xenogender) And also a trans dude. I align on a very masculine side of stuff in general :)

Age; I'm 18. If you're uncomfortable with my age you may block or DNI ! :))

Extra; I'm an alterhuman, trauma survivor, and I have a silly cat

Main acc : @princeleonis

Popular Sebastian Solace rp acc ; @official-sebastian-solace

‧₊˚🌈✩ ₊˚🫧⊹♡

Why the kidcore ish blog theme?

Well, I find kidcore and bright playful liminal stuff to be comforting. I tried to make it so the blog doesn't cause eyestrain (I really hope that's the case) while remaining colorful and fun. It also serves as a reminder that disability doesn't have to always be doom and gloom, but those who are disabled can still be whimsical :)

Also, it's nostalgic for many, and might bring some smiles in these hard times!

‧₊˚🌈✩ ₊˚🫧⊹♡

What can I submit here?

- "Is this ableism?"

- "Ableism is when..."

- "Am I being ableist?"

- Mobility aid stuff, pos, neutral, or negative

- Disability or ableism related vent (these may often just be posted with a single sentence for others to reply to, as I'm not great at comfort)

- Disability related polls

- Disability positivity

- Questions about me / my bio / my beliefs and dni (for example, if you're unsure if you fit in my DNI or not, feel free to send an ask about it before blocking or following)

- Symptom talk

- anything else related to mental or physical disability!

TW appropriately at the top of any submission that may have TWs so I can tag them

‧₊˚🌈✩ ₊˚🫧⊹♡

Before you follow;

First of all, read our DNI.

Second of all, I am not a licensed professional. I don't know about every disability or what they may be like, and I cannot provide comfort very well a lot of the time.

Third of all, I am self diagnosed with certain things. I cannot afford to get medical exams, I live in America. Do I plan to get diagnosed? Once I move, slowly, yes. With everything possible.

Some things I WILL mention I may have, especially because it changes how I interact with people;

DID/a CDD, autism, BPD, NPD. These actively affect how I interact online.

I am also physically disabled, currently suspecting fibromyalgia. I am diagnosed with mild scoliosis as well. Also have lung problems with no actual source cause other than getting covid from 2020 or so? But yeah. Just some stuff :3

‧₊˚🌈✩ ₊˚🫧⊹♡

Do Not Interact

- (Pro) endos/willos. I don't believe in fakeclaiming anyone's experiences, but endogenic and willogenic claims are medically impossible. Plus, a lot of the community likes to harass peeps. Neutrals are on thin ice- endos/willos, especially willos, are pretty ableist, and not siding can often be siding.

- Anti Polyminds. POLYMIND IS NOT A TERM RELATED TO SYSTEMS, ENDOS, OR ANYTHING SIMILAR. I am a polyminded alter due to the symptoms of my personality disorders.

- Anti sysplex. Sysplexes are not endos. They are disordered and traumatized. They are just not systems and don't have CDDs (usually, correct me if I'm wrong)

- transandrophobia deniers! It exists. I had someone who used to be really close to me go heavy transandrophobic towards me, you will not convince me it's not real. Same goes for specific transphobias against any part of the spectrum, if you are a denier, gtfo :)

- T R A S H obviously

- Pro contact / pro harmful paraphilia. However, paraphiles in recovery are 100% supported here, actions will always speak over thoughts and disorders.

- Narcisstic abuse / cluster b abuse / "disorder" abuse believers. Doesn't exist. And again I have like two cluster bs and a bajillion disorders /exag

- Pro ai !!! We hate AI here. Boooo ai

- (Pro) Radqueers and transids.

- Anti good faith / contradictory labels

- Anti mogai (Xenogenders, neopronouns, etc)

- Anyone who condones harassment (unless we're harassing a corrupt politician, I'm in)

- Fakeclaimers. If you don't have ACTUAL, SOLID PROOF like admittance from the person about DID or any disorder, don't even TRY

- Anti alterhumanity ! Including non harmful physical therians. As far as I can tell, only a small part of physical therians are being harmful in the first place

- Anyone who's anti or weird towards less common religions. Including hellenism (Greek gods) and satanism (atheistic and theistic alike), which I have been a part of both religions in my life.

- Conservative and toxic religious people. Stop traumatizing people with something that was supposed to provide safety.

‧₊˚🌈✩ ₊˚🫧⊹♡

One last thing; this is our lil mascot, Leon the Leopard :)

He's my disability based sona :))

‧₊˚🌈✩ ₊˚🫧⊹♡

[x147]

>disability safe space

>look inside

>plurality discourse

get outta here

“medically impossible” you are 18 i dont think youve been in med school long enough to know that

and youre also a transmisogynist?? that’s cringe dude! i hope you learn and grow. i hope your blog withers away soon.

[disability-safe-space]

Absolutely wild didn't even read the whole post. I believe in transmisogyny AND transandrophobia AND ALL FORMS OF SPECIFIC TRANSPHOBIAS for one, and two, it's a DNI for a reason- you guys are literally bringing discourse onto the blog. You and that anon specifically. So how about ya block and follow the dni bub, move on

"discourse :(" proceeds to engage to try and create discourse

[disability-safe-space]

Why does Tumblr recommend the exact opposite of my DNI... Tumblr are you secretly ableist and transandrophobic... /J

[disability-safe-space]

Chat I made this blog last year already 😨

/silly