no one talks abt being in a qpr while not being aro. im ace, my qpr is aro. i love him to bits, but i know he'll never really love me the way i need. hes my best friend in the whole world and i wouldnt want anyone else to be with all the time. but if i wanted an actual relationship, it would feel like cheating because hes my number one. i crave the intimate non-sexual nature of relationship, the hand holding and kissing, the love notes, waking up together in bed, flirting badly. but i wouldnt ask it from him, never. he doesnt like that stuff, nor does he want it. So i guess ill be what he needs. i dont really know how i need to be loved.















