[earlyburningsun]

Intro!

Before you follow: minor, anti ai, anti censorship, will not and cannot donate to anything

My DMs are open to mutuals

Name: Oleander

Age: 17

Pronouns:

xe/xem

he/him

Gender:

Trans man

Agender

Bigender

Genderfluix

Sexuality:

Aromantic

Asexual

Aplatonic (friendship favorable/oscillating)

Abro

Electio aroace

Anattractional

Polyamorous

Religion:

Hellenic Polytheist

Pagan

Apollo devotee

Worshipping:

Apollon

Dionysus

Nemesis

Artemis

Magical Practice:

Elemental magic

Planetary magic

Cartomancy

Scrying

Aspiring traditional astrologer (I will do free readings)

My astrology chart

Aquarius sun

Scorpio moon

Scorpio rising

Capricorn mars

Music genres:

Dark/Punk Cabaret

Small groupJazz

Punk rock

Alternative

Indie

Instruments I play:

Piano

Percussion

Mallet Percussion

Drums

Favorite artists and bands:

Will Wood and the Tapeworms

Jhariah

Waitress

Miracle Musical

That Handsome Devil

Sarah and the Safe Word

Daniel Kahn and the Painted Bird

Fandoms:

Deltarune

Undertale

Stardew Valley

The Magnus Archives

Serial Experiments Lain

Sideblogs:

No currently active sideblogs

Updates to Intro:

Posted Dec 9, 2025

Edited Dec 31, 2025 (added to BYF)

Edited Jan 20, 2026 (age)

Edited Jan 31, 2026 (general edit)

Edited Feb 12, 2026 (removed empty links section)

[s1gmar1zzy]

Cough y'all remember that one recent art trend where you add lighting to a cute doodle and it changes the vibe completely? Yeah I did it with Valkasa because I've been thinking about him a lot wahoo!! ˃͈◡˂͈

Ghh I love you Valkasa you deserve to be a cute pretty cannibal from time to time 🫶

[thisisexorsexism]

For context, I am cisgendered.

When I went to a restaurant with my freinds and I took an order, the waiter was super sweet to everyone...except me. They got quite snappy when I was indecisive about my order, and scoffed when I chose some soup instead of what they thought was an "actual meal."

She kept being passive aggressive towards me the whole time through the restaurant experience.

At around the end, I heard them whisper "these fucking nonbinary whores..." to another waiter while looking at me.

Huh?

this is exorsexism

[endcrys]

Happy disability pride to dissociative people, those with personality disorders, people with schizophrenia, and everyone elsewise labelled ‘insane’ and ‘crazy’ by annoying assholes. I hope you all have a pleasant & comfortable July and beyond

[svetochey]

i want my own shitty eridian. meet Fingies

[maalidoesart]

every miku is canon…..

[adorablegorilla]

"Trans men and women are both suffering" and "trans women are often specifically targeted by bigotry and harassment even within their own communities and deserve to be able to talk about their own unique challenges without being talked over" and "trans men are often erased from conversations about how bigotry and transphobia targets them and are not exempt from all the horribly draconian laws transphobes are attempting to pass" and "being trans doesn't make you immune to participating in horrible transmisogyny even and especially if you aren't aware you're doing it" and "holy shit don't reinvent bioessentialism but for trans people like holy fuck men are not destined to be evil and women aren't automatically incapable of harm" are all opinions that can and fucking SHOULD coexist

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

always some new bullshit in the ocean

[local-demon-in-your-area]

Why is it always orcas or dolphins

Why can't a salmon do some bullshit for once

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

worry not ☝️ they're doing coke

[mawofthemagnetar]

What do you mean “chat” is now referring to ChatGPT and not twitch chat? What? What? What the fuck? No?

When I address chat I am speaking to a presumed Greek chorus of real human people shitposting on their lunch break, not a machine that devours lakes to covert electricity into slop.

[red-garden]

“Do dishes” and “take out trash” both require the use of a spell slot, vs “use phone” is a cantrip, and brother, I am a level one wizard

[messsssmer]

"Whimsy" is truly a wretched term. What maketh thee so carefree?

[avidcollectorofdust]

Really glad predictive text exists. Should i bring my own parking lot

[artistformerlyknownasbutttrumpet]

i was training a young person at work, and she referred to sexual assault as "SA" out loud, and i immediately was like, "no, it's sexual assault, call it what it is," bc idgaf if the algorithm overlords have taught y'all that you should fear direct language, how tf do any of you expect to ever address real issues with any amount of seriousness if you can't even say the words? imagine an advocate looking a sexual assault survivor in the eyes and asking "did he grape you?" it's absolutely fucking absurd, but these young interns and new hires are coming into an environment where we deal with survivors of all different kinds of abuse, and they're coming with the mindset that the words are as bad as the actions, and that makes them shitty at the job and look juvenile af

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

say the fucking words, guys. just say the goddamn words before i go insane!!!

[wondroustaels]

"symptoms you should NEVER ignore!" ok but what the fuck are you supposed to do when the DOCTOR(S) ignore them?

[cringecorp]

they say you can't pour from an empty cup but i've been doing it my whole life and aside from all of these mysterious ailments it's working out great for me

[the-irreverend]

Here's to hellsite solidarity!

[sketchy-mf]

[iknowitwontwork]

REBLOG IF IT'S OKAY FOR ME TO BOTHER YOU IF YOU'RE MY MUTUAL