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My film friends and I have this āpoetic cinemaā inside joke, where if weāre filming for a project and someone messes up (breaks a prop, falls over, etc) someone says āpoetic cinemaā and the person filming has to go on a long bullshit explanation about symbolism and why itās relevant to the plot
Anonymous asked: Wait, I signed up for a trans kid when I decided to become pregnant? Are you joking or are you really that crazy?
Hey there,Ā
Iām not joking at all and I donāt really see how this would be a laughing matter to you.Ā
Yes, you signed up for a trans kid. And while we are at it, you also signed up for a disabled kid. Autistic kid. Gay kid. A kid who doesnāāt look like you. A deaf kid. A kid who will have interests that donāt match up with yours at all. You signed up for a shy kid and a loud kid and a kid who wets the bed and a sick kid.Ā Ā
Thatās the beauty, the miracle of parenthood, donāt you agree? You decide to care for a little person you donāt even know yet. You decide to open your heart and home to them, you promise to nurture and love and protect a tiny human being. How can you promise that, if not unconditionally?Ā
You canāt pick and choose your kid. Maybe even more importantly, they canāt choose you. They depend on you to keep that promise - and not only if they live up to whatever expectations you had.Ā
With all my love,Ā
Tumblr MomĀ
you signed up for a fucking human being now grow up
Chris Evans helps Regina King up the stairs to the stage after her Oscars win
Okay listen up, all you dudes out there! Itās time for some life lessons from Chris Evans.
Wonder why women are fine with this when he does it, but they find you opening a car door or offering to carry stuff for them annoying? Well, wonder no more! It works like this:
A large number of women have had to learn how to dodge and swerve and sometimes even slap away menās hands from the time they hit puberty - and sometimes before. Ladies, cis and trans both, are unfortunately experienced at being groped, poked, prodded, āhelpedā, and otherwise humiliated and threatened by men. Then also thereās the condescending attitude that of course we need a manās help, and we should be grateful he offered it.
No thanks.
Chris is doing something very different here, and youāll see it in similar video clips of him at other events. You can read his mental process in his body language. He starts with just clapping and congratulating. He offers nothing until there is a need, which doesnāt happen here until Reginaās shoe gets caught on her dress. Since women have literally tripped up the stairs at this ceremony several times over the years (because the shoe and clothing requirements are ridiculous), it is reasonable at this stage to think that my-shoe-caught-on-my-dress is a problem that actually needs to be addressed. This is when Chris offers.
How he offers matters. He starts with an open hand toward her, but this is a big no-no. Open hands are a red flag. Open hands grope and grab and shove. He quickly corrects by flipping his arm over and offering his forearm instead. This makes it her choice whether to grab on or ignore him. She doesnāt have to contend with a potentially threatening hand while sheās also contending with her dress.
He also bends down a bit to do this. I donāt know if youāve noticed, but Chris is kind of a tall, beefy guy. Guys like that can be a bit intimidating without meaning to be, at least when theyāre up close. Also, his arm is a bit too high to be useful to her if he stays at his full height. So he bends down. This is even more visible in the video from him doing this for Betty White at the 2015 Oscars, because sheās shorter than Regina, I guess.
He offers his arm for exactly as long as she leans on it. When she lets go, he steps back. This is a guy who isnāt interested in showing off how much she needs his help. Heās just interested in helping, and when heās not needed, heās done. He goes back to sit down. He doesnāt hover.
Also, Regina King knows who Chris Evans is. His behavior at work thus far has certainly made it into the rumor mill, thus factoring into whether she accepts help from him. Is he a dudebro or jerk to women at work? That doesnāt appear to be the case.
Women are not helpless. Compared to men, our clothes are more often obstacles to getting where we need to go safely and with our dignity intact, but conversely, weāve also learned to deal with that better than most men have. Itās not that we never need or want help; like all people, we do sometimes need a hand. Itās just that āsome kinds of help are the kinds of help we all could do without.ā
If you are offering help to a woman, first make sure she actually appears to be struggling. Second, make yourself as unthreatening as possible and let her do any touching, not the other way around. Third, make sure she can refuse without any consequences. And fourth, back off as soon as she doesnāt need you anymore and let the moment go.
I hadnāt even registered why exactly it was that he was so unthreatening in this and the Betty White assistance incidents, but youāre right. Itās all in the way he helps. Itās not that this is unthreatening behaviour ābecause heās Chris Evansā ā its because his body language is genuinely unthreatening and merely helpful.
A+ analysis ā I hadnāt even registered the details of why and how this behaviour was 100% ok, while from another man (who probably would have gone about it differentky) it might not have been
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Coco Chanel, The Gospel According to Coco Chanel: Life Lessons from the Worldās Most Elegant Woman (via goodreadss)
Pride is our family history. Pride is taking on the weight of all that courage, realizing we are what they hoped for,
Pride is a group of girls in 1922 dancing in the basement of a Parisian gay bar,
Pride is Gavin Grimm standing in court day after day for the sake of all the trans kids who just want to use the bathroom at school,
Pride is Marsha P. Johnson walking down the street with flowers in her hair, wearing a dress thatās going to get her arrested,
Pride is all the lesbians in the pews at every gay kidās funeral in 1982, 1983, 1984, 1985,
Pride is Harvey Milk repeating You gotta give em hope. Smiling at the cameras, waiting for that bullet to find its mark,
Pride is Magnus Hirschfield and the WhK showing up to lobby for gay rights day after day in 1898, getting the police to hand out gender passes to the trans kids in the streets, collecting 100,000 queer peopleās stories for posterity, We were here,
Pride is a Victorian priest marrying two men in the sight of God and several dozen noisy friends. Pride is a dried bouquet kept on display in two menās front parlor,
Pride is Edward Carpenter holding Georgeās hand while they walk around the garden and the village police refusing to give a damn about it because George and Edward are ours, they take care of us and we take care of them,
Pride is a hundred generations of indigenous queer tradition held onto in defiance while the colonials make straightness the way of the Lord,
Pride is Lili Elbe waiting in the hospital with her wife for a surgery only a half-dozen people had attempted in all of history,
Pride is a butch girl putting her arm around her girlfriendās shoulders outside a drag show while the police kick and push people into the back of a van one by one,
Pride is identity, Pride is family history, Pride is holding onto other peopleās memories, Pride is us.
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The day after The Last Jedi came out I was shopping for a birthday present for a friend at a nerd store and these two guys walk up behind me, obviously wanting to look at where I was looking. One of them said āprobably buying something for her boyfriendā¦stick to blow jobs bitch itās not like you know what youāre looking atā so I turned around and say āLuke Skywalker dies.ā
They look at me speechless, they hadnāt seen the movie yet. āWhat did you say?ā
āI said Luke Skywaler dies. He force projects himself to fight Kylo Ren and then dies. And if you donāt get the fuck away from me Iāll tell you how Snoke dies tooā
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itsĀ āthighs rubbing together under ya sundressā season
Buy cute, cheap lace leggings. Cut them a little above your knee. Hem them or donāt, but then you can wear them under your sundresses and not worry about how you sit or if your thighs chafe, and if anyone sees them they look cute af so hell yes
Or a little deodorant between the thighs is magical
Also, LUSH sells this dust called Silky Underwear that makes your skin smooth so they donāt stick together or chafe.
I love that weāre all here for each other in this season of need
Monistat has an anti-chafing gel that works wonders and I live by. You can usually find it in the feminine care aisle of any drugstore.Ā
Thereās this stuff called Glideā¦pretty cheap & works hella miracles
Iām so ready for sundress season.Ā
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Also bandelettes, anti-thigh chafing bands. I love these things.
share share share and be confident and comfortable in your dresses/skirts this summer, lovelies! :) Ā Ā
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I am saved! This was one of the main reason why I never liked dresses!
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LGBT musicians
Ā Artists of color are bolded.Ā
Lesbian/Bi
Adult Mom - Indie pop band
Alex the Astronaut - Alternative Pop
Alix Dobkin - 1970s lesbian folk music
Alix Olson - Early 00s alternative and spoken word
Ally Hills - youtuber popĀ
Amanda Palmer - Alt Pop
Amandla Stenberg - R&B inspired Pop
Amy Winehouse - ballads
Angel Haze - Rap
Angie - Hiphop inspired Pop
Ani Difranco - 90s Folk
Asha Santee - folk
Austra - electronic music bandĀ
Azealia Banks - Rap/Hiphop
be steadwell - R&B/alt pop
Beatrice Eli - Pop
Bec Sandridge - Pop
Bella ThorneĀ
Bikini Kill - Riot grrrl bandĀ
Bitch and Animal - Folk pop band
Boyskout - early 00s pop
Brandi Carlisle - Americana/Folk
BRE-Z - hiphop/rap
Caitlyn Scarlett - hiphop inspired pop
Catey Shaw
Catie Curtis
Cyberbully Mom Club - indie pop band
Charlotte Day Wilson - R&B ballads
Chely Wright - country/folk
Chynna - rap
Clairo - alt pop
Cris Williamson - 80s lesbian folk
Daisy O Connor - folk
DEV - pop
Demi Lovato - pop
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Dizzy Fae - R&B
Dodie Clark - youtuber alt pop
The Dollyrots - punk pop rock
Domo Wilson - rap
Doria Roberts - early 00s pop
Dream Wife - indie rock
Elektra
Ember Swift
Etta Bond
Frankie Cosmos - alternative
Frankie Simone - pop
Gia - pop
Gina Young - riot grrrl inspired rock
girl in red - alternative pop
GIRLI - uhhh idek how to describe her music
Girlpool - folk/alternative
Girlyman - alternative/folk
God is my copilot - punk rock
God-des & She - hiphop/rap
Gossip - indie rock
Grace Petrie - folk
Grace Petrie and the PC Brigade - folk
GRLwood - riot grrrl inspired punk rock
Halsey - pop
Hayley Kiyoko - pop
Heavens to Betsy - rock
Holly Miranda - alt pop
Holly Near
Hunter Valentine
Hurray for the Riff Raff
IAMDDB -hiphop/rap
It was romance - indie rock
Indigo Girls - lesbian folk duo
Jamie Anderson - folk
Janelle Monae - hiphop/pop/rap
Janis Ian - folk
Jasmine Kennedy - folk
Jay Som - alternative popĀ
Jen Cloher - alternative
Jen Foster - folk pop
Judy Small - folk
Julia Sinclair/Sinclair - singer songwriterĀ
Julia Weldon
K.D Lang - lesbian 90s folk pop
Kaki King - indie rock
Kate Nash - pop
Kate Reid - indie
Kehlani - R&B/pop
Kelela - R&B
Kesha - Pop
King Princess - Pop
Kitty - popĀ
Kodie Shane - Rap/Hiphop
Ladyhawke - Electric pop
Lady Gaga - Electric pop
Laura Marling - alternative pop
Lauren Ruth Ward - rock
Lauren Sanderson - R&B
Lavender Country - Country/folk
Le Tigre
Lesbians on Ectasy - Rock
Lights - electropop
Lindsey Jordan/Snail Mail - indie rock
Lipstick Homicide - rock
Lovers - alternative/folk
Lowell - alternative pop
LP - ballads
Lucie Blue Tremblay - lesbian 80s folk
Lucy & La Mer - pop
Lzzy Hale/Halestorm
Mal Blum - alternative/indie
Mara Levi - britpop
Marika Hackman - indie rock
Maris - indie pop
Mary Lambert - pop balladsĀ
Melange Lavonne - rap/hiphop
Melissa EtheridgeĀ
Melissa Ferrick
Miki Ratsula - indie pop
Miley Cyrus - pop/country
Mirah - alternative pop
Moaning Lisa - indie rock
MUNA - pop
Nakala - indie R&B
Natasha Kmeto - pop ballads
Naz & Ella - indie pop
Ness Nite - R&B/hiphop
Nicole Dollanganger - alternative pop
Nicolette Forte - indie/alternative
Oh Pep!
Otep - nu metal/rock
Palehound - folk/alt popĀ
Partner - soft/alt rock
Peaches - genre crossing pop music
phem - genre crossing pop music
Princess Nokia - hiphop
PVRIS - rock
Qiao Qiao - chinese lesbian singer
REYNA - pop
Ria Mae
Rita Ora - pop
S.J Tucker - alternative/folk
SALES- electropop
Sami Grisafe - ballads
Sapphic Lasers - indie pop
Sara Renberg - indie rock
See - electropop
Sequin Sally - alt pop
Shura - pop
Sia - pop ballads
Siya - rapper
Sizzy Rocket - pop/electropop
Skin
Sleater-Kinney - riot grrrl era rock
Sofya Wang - pop
Soko - alt/indie pop
Sophie B. Hawkins - 90s lesbian folk pop
St. Vincent - electropop/indie rock
Starley
Studio Killers - electropop
Syd - R&B
Tegan and Sara - pop
Tender Forever - alternative pop
Teresa Trull - 80s lesbian folk
Thao & The Get Down Stay Down - alt/indie pop band
Theesatisfaction
The Aces - poppy girl group
The Blow - alt pop/early 00s pop
The Butchies - late 90s butch lesbian soft rock band
The Degenerettes - rock
The Ditty Bops - britpop band
The Greeting Committee -indie/folk band
The Internet - R&B band fronted by Syd
The Japanese House - alt/indie pop
The Veronicas - pop/electropop
The xx
Tiara Thomas - R&B/hiphop
Tiffany Gouche - R&B
Tret Fure
TT the Artist - rap/hiphop
TORRES - pop/alt pop
Torrey Mercer - indie pop
Tove Lo - pop
Tracy Chapman - 80s lesbian folkĀ
Tribe 8 - riot grrrl era punk rock
Two Nice Girls - 80s lesbian folk
Tyra B
Veruca Salt - indie rock
Von Grey - electropop/ballads
Whitney Lindquist - indie pop
Willow - pop/R&B/alt pop
Wyvern Lingo - folk/folk pop
Young M.A - rap
Zolita - pop
Zoe Lewis - alternative/alt pop
Gay/Bi
A Great Big World - pop
Adam Lambert - pop
Adore Delano - drag queen musicianĀ
Aja - drag musician, rap
Anthony Rapp - broadway singerĀ
Big Freedia - queen of bounceĀ
Billie Joe Armstrong/Green day - emo boy rock
Billy Gilman - country
Bloc Party - english indie rock band
Brayton Bowman - rhythm/blues singer-songwriter
Brendon Urie/Panic! at the disco - todays emo boy pop rock
BROCKHAMPTON - hiphop/rap
Bronze Avery - pop
Cakes Da Killa - hiphop/rap/electronic
Calum Scott - pop
Christeene - drag musician
Conchita Wurst - drag musician, pop
Cub Sport - indie pop
David Bowie - 80s popĀ
DreBae - hiphop/rap
Doug Locke - pop/rhythm and bluesĀ
Elton John - 70s/80s ballads
Frank Ocean - R&B
Freddie Mercury/Queen - rock
Hercules and Love Affair - dance/disco
Holland - K-Pop idol
Jamie Stewart/Xiu Xiu/Former Ghosts - experimental rock
Jesse Saint John - pop
Joey Graceffa - youtuber pop
John Grant - singer-songwriter, former alt rock band memberĀ
Kadie Elder - pop
Kaytranada - hiphop/dance
Keiynan Lonsdale - pop
Kele Okereke - english indie rock, former member of bloc party
Kevin Abstract - rap/hiphop, member of brockhampton
Kidd Kenn - hiphop/rap
Lavender Country - Country/folk
Le1f - rap
Leo Kalyan - dance/electronic
Leuan/Holly Lavender - indie alternativeĀ
Lyon Hart - pop
Matt Alber - folk rock/alt rock
Matt Fishel - pop
Michael Blume - pop
Mika - pop/balladsĀ
MNEK - pop/R&B/dance pop
MRSHLL -Ā Korean R&B singer
Mykki Blanco - rap/hiphop/alt hiphop
Neon Trees - pop rock bandĀ
Pansy Division - 90s pop punk/queercore/alt rock
Pet Shop Boys - 80s dance pop/art pop
Perfume Genius - electropop/indie pop/art pop
Rico Dalasam - hiphop/rap
Rostam Batmanglij - electropop/indie rock, former member of vampire weekendĀ
Rupaul - drag race pop
Sam Smith - pop balladsĀ
serpentwithfeet - experimental
Shamir - indie rock/disco/hip house
Shea Coulee - drag musician, electropop/dance
Solomon Ray - latin pop/dance pop/reggaeton
SSION - dance/electronic/pop
Steve Grand - country
Superfruit - pop duo
Sufjan Stevens - indie folk/alt rock/baroque pop
Taylor Bennet - rap
Tokio HotelĀ
Tom Goss - singer-songwriter
Trixie Mattel - drag race popĀ
Troye Sivan - pop/alt pop
Ty Herndon - country
Tyler Glenn - singer-songwriter/pop rock, fronts neon trees
Tyler the Creator - rap/hiphop
Vardaan Arora - pop
VINCINT - pop
Who Is Fancy? - pop/indie rockĀ
Woodkid - pop/art pop
Years and Years - electropop/britpop/dance popĀ
Zebra Katz - rap/hiphop
Trans/Nonbinary
1.8.7/Jordana LeSesne - trans woman, dance musicĀ
Adult Mom - nonbinary, indie rock
Against Me! - band fronted by a queer trans woman, rockĀ
Ah Mer Ah Su -trans woman, electropop
Amandla Stenberg - nonbinary lesbian, pop
Angel Haze - queer & nonbinary
Anohni - trans woman
Athens Boys Choir - trans man, spoken word/hiphop
A.W - nonbinary, indie music
Axis of Awesome - lead singer is a trans woman
Billy Tipton - trans man, 1950s jazz musicianĀ
Cavetown - trans man, alternativeĀ
Cayetana - one of the members is nonbinary
Ezra Furman - genderqueer
G.L.O.S.S - trans-feminist band
imbi the girl - nonbinary
Jake Edwards - bisexual & nonbinaryĀ
Jesus and his Judgemental Father - band fronted by a trans man
Katastrophe - trans man, hiphop
Katey Red - trans woman, creator of sissy bounce musicĀ
Kim Petras - trans woman, electropop
King Princess - genderqueer lesbian, popĀ
Laith Ashley -trans man
Lars Randa - trans man
Lucas Silveira - trans man
Mal Blum - queer & nonbinary, alternativeĀ
Mina Caputo/Life of Agony - trans woman
Miss Blanks - trans woman
Miss White - trans woman
Native Cats - one member is a trans woman
Ness Nite - genderqueer lesbian
Nervus - bisexual trans woman
Peppermint - trans woman
PWR BTTM - nonbinary bandĀ
Quay Dash - trans woman
Rachel Maria Cox - nonbinary, indie pop
Rae Spoon - nonbinaryĀ
Ryan Cassata - transman
Sateen - one member of the married lesbian duo is a trans woman
Sam Smith - genderqueer
Shawnee/She KingĀ - two spirit
Shea Diamond - trans woman
She/Hers/Her - trans woman
Skyler Kergil - trans man
Smoothboi Ezra - nonbinary, indie alternative
Steam Powered Giraffe - band fronted by a trans woman
Sons of an Illustrious Father - has genderqueer members
SOPHIE - trans woman, electropop
The Cliks - band fronted by a trans man
The Spook School - fronted by a gay trans man, indie rock
Too Attached - one half of the duo is a bi trans woman, political pop
Wendy Carlos - trans woman, filmscores and compositionsĀ
WilmerĀ āLittle Axā Broadnax - trans man, 1950s hard gospel singer
Worriers - genderqueer
This blog loves and supports Demi Lovato in her struggle with addiction. Addiction is no joke and is a horrible disease. Get well soon Demi.
