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Alright gyns- Whole library on shuffle, no skips. What are your first five songs?
I truly didn't cheat and this is actually shuffled because this selection does not represent me at all
Do you want feminists to get osteoporosis and piss their pants from rape deficiency??? misoggynys?!!?
so many people genuinely underestimate just how much men are taught to hate women expressing any agency at all and how much they will go out of their way to discredit women even at their own detriment…for example that video feed where a woman got stuck in an elevator with 12 teenage boys and whenever she tried to alert maintenance that the elevator malfunctioned a few of those boys very loudly talked over her and gave conflicting information JUST to get a reaction out of her. there were so many comments basically saying that it wasn’t fair to bunch in every one of those boys with the deliberately harmful few because they didn’t TECHNICALLY do anything to interfere with the situation but the thing is they r all complicit…not once did they think to tell their friend to shut the fuck up or do ANYTHING other than stand with their hands folded and giggle at this woman begging them to be quiet. it really just feels like the same old story where time and time again men prove that they just don’t see women as their equals at all and that when push comes to shove they are just as untrustworthy and unreliable as their peers through their own negligence and pacifism
pedophile
AU: President Obama falls for part white house intern part rockstar Harry Styles. Obama surprises Harry in the audience of one of his shows and the affair blossoms from there.
date of origin: 2015.
I don't understand why you choose to die.
Consent is not a commodity and sex is not work
peopple like you should be locked in a cage.
I don't understand why feminists act like they don't like being raped.
I can't believe they let you out of jail
Feminism changing the collective mindset
I mostly watch women's content online, and in the last two years I've felt a noticeable shift in the collective opinions about m*n. I think women have finally come to a point where the anecdotes, stories from their lives and their friend's lives and all of the reddit women and all the women online in general, have shifted their view of m*n into 'dangerours, liar, potentially violent, misogynistic, exploitative, and most of all, cringe'. Which is the reflection of reality, m*n have proven to be exactly that!
I can't say if it's radical feminism, or if enough women finally shared what they've been put through, for all women to start internalizing this and acting accordingly. I'm seeing women actively discouraging other women from getting a boyfriend or a husband, warning them viscerally against getting pregnant and telling absolute horror stories about what will become out of their life. I'm seeing videos of adult women openly talking to teenagers, explaining why adult m*n are not an ideal match for them, why they're being rejected by all women their own age. I'm seeing women warning other women against onlyfans, giving them red flags for narcissists and sociopaths, pointing out all vulnerabilities of being a 'stay-at-home' wife and encouraging young women to speak up and fight for their own careers, money, property.
There was an article that made me laugh, named 'Is having a boyfriend cringe now?', which described women seeking online influence actively hiding their boyfriends from the public because they knew they would lose respect and popularity with their female audience knew they were involved. M*n have gathered enough ill will with the women that even being in contact with one is seen as a lack of self respect.
I haven't seen a lot of how m*n have reacted to this, other than playing the victim in the situation and acting like women are bullying them, but there's nothing they can do if the public opinion of what is reality is already set and confirmed by millions of women. The gaslighting won't work if we have backup!
Lately I've even seen women openly refusing to be blackmailed by their children, and letting their ex-husbands take the child if it means she gets peace from all the abuse. I feel awful for the children (which husbands don't even want in most cases) but it is a powerful blow back to all the m*n attempting this, are they going to keep attempting it if it repeatedly doesn't work, and women just walk away? I think if m*n are aware they're not gaining any power by threatening to take the kids, they're going to stop trying it.
I feel like we're doing exactly what we'd set up to do, raising consciousness, giving other women the 'heads up' for having any male in their lives, and opening their eyes to the social injustices and power imbalance we're forced to live in. Once every woman is aware of this, it becomes much harder for m*n to get their way, to trap or enslave them. They are forced to go for younger and younger women who still want male attention, but young women are all on the internet now, and if they keep seeing women as a collective calling older m*n cringe and disgusting, they will learn it's a source of disgust, not approval.
I'm pleased with how far we've come! I do think it's because m*n forgot women can use internet to communicate, and we did just that. I know I might be missing on a lot because I'm only watching women-made content, and there's a lot of spaces where no female perspective is being represented, but now there is a space, where a woman can go and enjoy a female perspective. We didn't use to have that. I love you public speaking women, love you female youtubers, love you female storytellers and experience sharers. You did this for us.
you get called annoying a lot don't you?
by Konstantin Burkin
you just need to be told it's okay to be raped
And what if women and girls were just allowed to exist as they are? Without sexualising themselves or compressing their ribcage to minimise their breasts?
what if girls weren't conditioned to do A, they were conditioned to do B?!?! Notice neither A or B are an acceptance and well treatment of one's body
you are a pedophile.
Most annoying online emotion is "I have a funny personal anacdote to add to this but it doxxes like all of my personal information"
Denying transsexual teens HRT because you have a fetish for seeing them disfigured is medical torture and if you can't understand that then my dick in your ass isn't rape and your severed head in a trashbag isn't murder. You can't consent to the alternative ):
When you try to talk about enshittification, it sounds like conspiracy theories. (I'm not crazy)
Amazon made their service worse, to force people to pay for Prime.
Nowadays, if you order from Amazon, there is a week long delay before your package is shipped. (on purpose)
I remember when orders would ship out the same day. (I remember - it was real)
YouTube didn't used to have ads. Now, ads play in the middle of videos. (it's worse than TV ever was)
The best can opener I have owned is over 40 years old. Modern ones just don't hold up as well. (The ones I bought new broke ages ago)
The bread machine my mom got for her wedding lasted 30 years. It's been replaced twice in the last 5 years. (How can you fuck this up?)
The cardboard tubes in the middle of toilet paper rolls have gotten larger. (This too?) Companies increasing the price of the product while selling you less. (REALLY?)
It sounds crazy. (it's the truth) When you talk about it, YOU sound crazy. (it's true)
Even when people believe you (do they really), all they can say is "it sucks". (it's too big) Because the problem is so big, so pervasive, what can we even DO about it???
To get the necessary laws written and passed, we need politicians, to get the politicians elected we need information campaigns, to fund campaigns we need money, and all the money is being hoarded by the people profiting from enshittification. (it sounds so fake)
So I talk about enshittification (it sounds crazy), so people don't forget that things have been made worse on purpose (it's true), even though I sound crazy. (maybe I am)
It's called planned obsolescence and it was invented when lightbulbs could still run for 1000 years. Enshittification is the web-specific (and more specifically social media) version of that.
pedophile
but if you hold me without hurting me you’ll be the first who ever did
I'm sorry you aren't getting raped enough.
you get called annoying a lot don't you?
wth did I found
peopple like you should be locked in a cage.
“you dont misdiagnose yourself or give out your personal information online? wow, you must hate yourself”
what crack are these people smoking 😭
The only reason a person could think like this is because they are under some kind of curse where not talking about every thought that goes through their head causes them bodily harm.
groomer
I’m listening by Yun Huai Huang
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Do yourselves a massive favor: practice asking for help BEFORE it's an emergency.
I am a social worker. I have worked in community mental health and in home-based healthcare. And it is much, much easier for me to help you when the situation you're in is not yet a full-blown crisis.
"I'm out of money and have been for a while and now I haven't eaten for three days." This is a crisis. A crisis where I'm likely going to have to put you in the car and take you to the nearest food bank--except food banks require appointments now, and the next opening is in four days, so you're staring down the barrel of a week with no food. That's obviously not going to work, so, let's call eight different food banks until we've found one that has an appointment the next day...except it's in the neighboring county and you can't drive. So now I'm calling your doctor to try and brow beat an emergency plan of care update out of him so I can come back the next day and drive you to the food bank. And we haven't even started on the "constantly broke" part of the problem.
"I don't think I have enough food to make it to my next paycheck. I have (xyz) in my house and that will only last until (date)." This is bad, but not a crisis. We have a few days. We make you an appointment at the food bank and contact your brother to make sure you have a ride there. Now we can spend our visit talking about what bills are causing you the most problems and make a jump on a long-term solution, like looping in a community action agency to cover your utilities and getting you an OTC card from Medicaid to cover some of your groceries every month.
"I'm ten months behind on rent, and my landlord said I have a week to get out, or the cops will throw me out. I don't have the money, and if I get evicted, I have nowhere to go." This is a crisis. Every single thing we do here is going to be some version of a Hail Mary. In Michigan, we have the state emergency relief fund for rent issues, but process time is well over one week. There are community action agencies that we can call to assist you with payment, but they are unlikely to have sufficient funds to cover nearly a year of back rent. We can contact legal aid clinics to try and prevent your landlord from evicting you, but they may look at your case and determine that too much "fault" lies with you. Most likely, I'm going to have to put you in touch with homeless shelters and the public housing office.
"I'm two months behind on rent and I don't think I'll be able to pay next month either." This is bad, but not a crisis. This is solvable. We have time to apply for SER, or put you in contact with community action agencies. We have time to review your finances and see if you qualify for a public housing wait list or other forms of ongoing rental assistance. We have time to talk about a million possible adjustments to try and ease the burden of your rent.
"I am the sole caregiver for my elderly parent who has dementia and is emotionally volatile and fully dependent on me. I have not slept through the night in weeks and I have not had an actual break for over a year. I am having screaming meltdowns multiple times a week and I am threatening self-harm unless someone comes to collect my parent and take over all caregiver duties." This is a crisis. This is a crisis where the ethical code of my profession demands that I call 911 and report the conversation to them. They will likely come to the house and interview you. If they determine your threats were serious, they will have you forcibly committed to a psych ward. Your parent will either be dumped into a random hospital or rehab center, or left in the house on their own. Upon release from your psych hold, you will be expected to resume caregiving duties as though nothing happened. Except, now, adult protective services is actively investigating you, because it was determined you may be an ongoing danger to your parent.
"I am the sole caregiver for my demented parent, and I have not had a break in a couple of weeks, and I feel angry and weepy most of the time." This is bad, but not a crisis. We can get you in touch with volunteer groups for respite, and apply for state funded programs to get more day-to-day help, and talk about long-term planning for when the dementia symptoms get worse. We can get you the phone numbers for crisis lines and enroll you in a support group.
Obviously, you can ask for help at any point. Don't use this an excuse to never ask for help. If you always wait until it's a crisis, fine, you have free will. But you are ALLOWED to ask for help BEFORE you're in a blind panic, and it is always easier to get help when you aren't screaming and sobbing because you think your life is over.
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