I was at a "sapphic event" recently and there were a few transbians there. One of them was so loud and kept trying to be a part of the conversation my date and I were having. He would infodump to anyone about video games, worked in tech, and constantly talked like a Twitter user and would always be calling himself "dyke" and shit. It was so embarrassing for him, the male socialization was so obvious surrounded by actual women. Like most others were pretty quiet and not engaging with him and yet he constantly was trying to find an in and blabbing about how "everything I do is lesbian so jot that down!" quirk chungus redditor type humor. He was like a walking parody, but I guess it's really true what they say about men lacking in creativity. All they do is copy eachother.
Anyways, me and my date moved away from that table and to the back of the place to continue. It is so tragic to me that there are 0 actual female only lesbian spaces that I can visit in my city. I couldn't stop thinking about how different it would have felt in there if there were ACTUALLY no men. Women come alive when there are no men. We shrink at their presence because on an innate level we know that they are predators.
