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white autistic transfem - mostly-t4t poly mostly-lesbian - it/she - anon sideblog - 18+

[avakkins-alter]

Catsune Mimiku | 🐍SNEGOVSKI

[lesbianmarrow]

free use is kind of a funny kink bc it relies on the idea that everybody wants to touch you and have sex with you but what if they don't. what if you tell everybody at the party you're free use but they all ignore you and mind their own business

[tunnaa-unnaa]

taking notes

[studentofetherium]

"having sex with your friends is basically incest" is a take of all time

[studentofetherium]

this deserves to go in the takes hall of fame

[loud-triangle-thoughts]

Reblog if you have incestuous desires about your friends

[capnsoapy]

A lot of people are so willing to disbelieve transmisogyny that they'll frame it as a privilege

[capnsoapy]

No, trans women aren't "immune to criticism for unethical sexual behaviour". They are actually overly criticised for sexual proclivities which is a bias you need to account for.

[capnsoapy]

No, trans women aren't "massively overrepresented in media compared to other trans people". They are actually almost entirely unseen because the caricatures and stereotypes used to demonise them are not in fact representation.

[harlow1898]

Petitions about Transgender Rights – Support Causes & Make a Difference · Change.org

Explore and support petitions about Transgender Rights on Change.org. Discover what people care about and take action on causes that matter.

A list of petitions and information if you guys want to shut the fuck up long enough to actually help trans people

[plaidos]

This response is so crazy because of how blatantly, openly hateful to trans women it is. the replier went on to immediately vaguepost about how trans women shouldn’t whine about the ways in which we’re oppressed. The post is framed as if it’s in response to Capnsoapy has said that trans women are the most oppressed trans people, but OP never said anything like that (even though she would be well within her rights to do that) — all she did was point out specific ways that trans women are targeted by transmisogyny and how that affects us.

This replier has revealed the smoking gun of anti-transfeminism discourse: even when transfems are speaking exclusively about our own experiences, with no comparison to anybody else’s, just mentioning the ways in which we are oppressed & marginalised is enough to be treated as an insidious transphobic force separating the community

All OP did was point out that trans women are scrutinised higher than TME people when it comes to sexual impropriety and that we are caricatured more often than represented in fiction. That’s it. Those two statements should be uncontroversial to anybody even slightly aware of the concept of transmisogyny.

So then why are trans women even mentioning our own oppression nigh-universally treated as nasty self-centred separatists? Why is it acceptable for people to literally misgender us whilst dismissing our oppression in the same breath as outright saying that discussing the ways in which trans women are oppressed is pointless & doesn’t help anybody? How do you all not see that as blatant, open hatred of trans women — you know, real trans women, who actually live in the real world, not the imaginary ones who never complain that TME people hypothetically support in their head?

To the average TME person, trans women are supposed to be pliable, agreeable, quiet if we are expected to be supported or helped in attaining our rights. Simply pointing out that we are treated with discrimination is enough to lose respect from a self proclaimed ally. We’re the fucking women of women.

[sailatina3]

Transandrophobia theory vs transfeminism can be boiled down to whether you value assigned genders or actual genders more.

[reachartwork]

carrion.chat is now in beta.

for those who missed the original posts: carrion is a privacy-first adult roleplay chat platform i built after another popular adult roleplay platform announced they wanted to store everyone's chat logs unencrypted in arizona, and then when they walked it back they said "btw we're going to take another however many months to finish the new site because we built the entire thing assuming everyone would just roll over and let us store their logs".

as someone who would mass delete their own DMs on discord every couple months out of pure paranoid compulsive fear of data breaches, this was Simply Not Acceptable.

so i made my own website.

as of today, every feature i set out to build is complete:

zero server-side message storage. your chats live in YOUR browser, not my database. there is nothing to subpoena because there is nothing stored.

iceland-based hosting for maximum legal protection

f-list profile import (now with gallery import!)

cherubplay-style persistent rp ads (remember those?)

mxrp/omegle-style matchmaker chat

flexible profiles with optional myspace-era HTML+CSS customization for people who want to go a little crazy

user self-service ads for $10/month that let you advertise whatever you want

what's next? honestly, not much. i built what i wanted to build. i'm not going to keep adding features until the site becomes an unusable mess. i will fix bugs, i will keep the lights on, and i will let you freaks do your thing in peace.

the internet does not need to suck. people can simply build a good website and then not add to it. we do not need to accept this in general, and we certainly don't need to accept it for our porn stuff, our furry stuff, and our gay stuff.

bad websites are a choice made in greed. we can do better and we deserve better.

come eat carrion with the barbarians.

Adult roleplay platform with zero server-side message storage. Messages route through XMPP in real-time and persist only in your browser.

(and discord for bug reports and other stuff like that)

Check out the carrion.chat community on Discord - hang out with 386 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

one last note: in the current political environment making this sort of thing is what i'd like to call "super inadvisable" so if anyone asks, internet artist reachartwork and internet pervert programmer vulture are different people. okay? let's keep secrets with mama

[reachartwork]

do you fucking hate filling out f-list or carrion profiles because the kink list is super daunting? i have great news for you. i just invented a kink wizard that uses geometry (cosine similarity) to help guide you to filling your profile out Super Duper Easy. it goes "okay, you have indicated your character is a submissive transgender catgirl... what do all the other submissive transgender catgirls like?" and then suggests. and then the more kinks you add the more it begins to cluster around "what do people who like your kinks also like". you just click and it goes. very easy, very simple.

[maidslime]

Trans woman in need of help!!!!!

tl;dr trans woman needs help paying bills, money for meds, and money for food!

Hi! I'm Mordred! I'm a trans woman that loves photography, writing trans smut, and streaming video games for folks to watch. I'm disabled, unemployed, I've tried for many months to get a job, but no where has given me a call back. I'm really desperate to keep a roof over my head, food in my fridge, and the electricity and Internet kept on since my husband (only source of income) works from home.

This is Dove.

I also need money for his food and litter.

I'm genuinely very desperate. And could use any help possible. I have been banned from PayPal and Venmo after a terf harassment campaign got me removed from both and ruined a lot of my life (keeping me from making money).

My only ways to receive money are with cashapp and zelle. Cashapp info below, DM me for zelle. If you need PayPal or Venmo, I could share my husband's in dms.

Cashapp: $thecatgirlprincess

[sailatina3]

Tgirl power fantasies: friends who genuinely like you unconditionally

[pathos-p]

oops all transfems

[enba-and-luka]

[gremlingirlsmell]

transfem ralsei is less a headcanon and more just a reading and interpretation of text & subtext & foreshadowing at this point.

and transfem kris is literally just canon. did y'all like, play a different game?

[theswarmtheswarmtheswarm]

We are gonna come out and say it, afab Kris headcanons/aus or whatever are transfem erasure at this point. If Kris is afab man country makes no sense. It just kinda ignores the fact that Toriel imposes a lot of control over how her kids present themselves (if you interact with Kris's wardrobe in Castle town it basically straights up tells you Kris doesn't get to pick what they wear), like it's pretty obvious if Kris was afab Kris would be in skirts and there would be no binders in sight whether they like it or not. We ofc might have a bias because we have a trans woman Kris in our system, but again, like man country either deconfirms Kris being afab or just straight up doesn't make any sense and means nothing. If you wanna add anything, go ahead. There's more stuff that supports Kris not being afab that we simply couldn't articulate well.

[plaidos]

everybody who shares tumblr posts to r/curatedtumblr should be shot & im not joking & i truly believe this is actionable political policy that will make a difference in the world

[cdigoddess]

[cdigoddess]

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

separate post so you don't have to interact with the transmisogynist:

concerned anon pointed out to me that transmascvoicesproject's "blocklist" is going around "gender critical" forums and is functioning as a hit list for them (shocker), take a look and see if your name is here. if the name of someone you know is here, please let them know.

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[melodies-stereo]

always always always imply that a cis man might actually be a trans woman, it might save her life

[melodies-stereo]

i am being completely serious when i say it is a moral imperative that you do so

[catgirl-kaiju]

really awesome how easy it is for tme queers to be uwu smol beans "cartoons can be for adults too!", but if ur tma engaging in childish interests and behaviors, or even simply showing too much weakness, can end up with you getting called a pedophile