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The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy

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I tried to scroll past this. I really did

tortagnamgnam

This is the lucky clover cat. reblog this in 30 seconds & he will bring u good luck and fortune.

unclebabie

THIS ONE!!! THIS IS THE ONE THAT WORKS!!!!!

I reblogged him the day i started treatment and 1. GOT TO MY APPOINTMENT ON TIME 2. FOUND A FREE PARKING TICKET SOMEONE LEFT IN THE METER FOR ME AND 3. GOT FREE STARBUCKS AFTER MY APPOINTMENT!!!!!

cutedemonbabe

I’m convinced bc I reblogged this on Friday, got hired at a job I had a million interviews for, went on a first date that went well, and got kissed a billion times so like hell ya to the luck cat

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I love the good luck cat. And we can all use a little luck

deepasyourvoice

EXCUSE MEEEEE

#😮😮😮

tommosgun

‘What is going on in this kids brain?’

#display this on my tombstone

stylesarchive

MorningMashUp: Attention @Harry_Styles stans! Aidy Bryant shared with us a secret about Harry’s recent appearance on #SNL

#omg #harry as a fellow vegan is giving me life

moonblessd

I just think Liam is straight and rushed into a relationship after 1d ended with someone who really wanted a baby. And he didn't think that deeply about it. He speaks about him like a father imo. I don't know what's happening with his label, but with any boyband, there's an industry prejudice that only one can prevail. And obviously industry anointed Harry that person. Sony blatantly bought H a blockbuster album. Liam's label used him for single success, not as a long term artist. Which sucks.

Apologize in advance for how long this became….

I agree with a lot of what you say Anon. I cannot and won’t debate the particulars of Liam’s relationships and whether he is actually a father to Cheryl’s child. That’s not my business. I am not hung up on that particular relationship and do think they have been close. My issue is not to debate whether something is true or not, related to what some call stunts. We aren’t meant to know for a reason…

I am most upset about the blatant cruelty toward Liam, first and foremost. OT5 (and OT4 stans) will remember how much Liam always did for the band and for this fandom. We called him Daddy Direction NOT just because he is literally “Daddy” but because he took care of all of us. Remember after the hiatus, at the 2017 Brits when we were all DYING for a 1D red carpet moment (there were rumors OT4 were all in London)? And it did not happen but 1D were up for Artist of the Year? We all thought Satan was going to accept the award on the boys’ behalf when they of course won but then our hero…Liam…swooped in and accepted it for the guys and I was so endeared that even 18 months into a hiatus that we all were still having Liam come in and save us.

Fast forward to now…Liam has struggled. He’s been forthcoming about the struggles he has had with alcohol and body image and mental illness both when he was in the band and then since leaving. I have seen so few people supporting him in understanding and having compassion for those struggles. Instead, I see judgement about his being given alcohol to do the Hugo photo shoot, judgment about a song on his album that, most likely, is about his own experiences with exploring the various facets of his own sexuality. I’m not saying people can’t feel what they feel and be offended by things that any of the boys do. I’m just saying that they write from their own experiences and it’s really likely that no one thought anyone would be offended by Both Ways. if you were offended…I get it. I’m just saying that you can take your offense and move on. There are offensive things and imperfect people all around us. We can’t constantly expect celebrities, who are imperfect people on their own growth journey, to have forethought everything that they could possibly say and how it may land with certain groups of people.

Bottom line…none of these boys is completely 100% unproblematic. They all have said or done things in the not too distant past that has been a little or a lot cringe. ALL OF THEM. We could literally find something offensive about any of them, if we wanted to do so. My suggestion….how about we stop comparing their solo and individual growth journeys to one another and just let them live? If you are here only for Harry and Louis or just Niall…fine. Stay in those lanes. If you are an OT5 fan like me, then please, for the love of God, use your critical thinking skills and compassion to figure out when something isn’t right with one of the boys’ situation. No matter what you believe about Liam and his present contractual obligations or PR narrative, something isn’t right. He deserves our support and love, even if he is sometimes a messy human. I firmly believe in the Treat People With Kindness motto Harry has advocated for all of us to use. Kindness starts with yourself. I have a quote hanging up by my desk…it says “It’s not your job to detox toxic people. It’s your job to detox the part of you that resonates with their toxicity.” Let’s work on ourselves first and let everyone else worry about their own selves. Lend support when you can…step back when you feel inclined to judge or be mean. Seems simple to me.If you read this far…I love you all. Please have a great holiday season and Love Yourself!! Practice great self-care and reach out if you ever need anything. My inbox and DMs are ALWAYS open and I’ll talk to anyone about nearly anything at any time of day or night.

Always,

Tammy <3

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a plan™

ukulelekatie

Me trying to figure out what my mutuals are vaguing about when they write entire sentences made of asterisks

wern

yall: i cant wait for him to **** * ***** *** ******* **** ** ** *****

me: can i buy a vowel

marsliving

yo-daddys-my-bitch

May the 10 of Pentacles bless your account with more money than you can spend. 💵✨

hermes-is-my-homeboy

10 of Pentz came thruuu

violaslayvis

Omg this actually works!!! Thank you 10 of Pentacles!!!

borkdork

I could seriously use this money right now….

ashashi-corner

Please give me my refund of 400$ soon…

hermes-is-my-homeboy

I feel obligated to reblog this every time it shows up in my dash

hermes-is-my-homeboy

No bragging, just 100% floored and grateful. Work hard, maintain a positive attitude, and believe that anything can happen.

virgocity

So I reblogged this exactly a week ago because I thought it was funny and uh lo and behold, a family friend wrote me a big ol’ check just to help me out of a tough financial spot AND my bank refunded me $32 for fees they’d originally taken out. SO UH YEAH. Reblogging this again in hopes that it brings equally good fortune to my followers.