mainly blogging about: kingdom hearts / final fantasy xiii / final fantasy vii 💫
I do my best to tag triggers/current events* but please let me know if I need to start tagging something!!! you can mute the tag "buggie sounds" if you don't want to see my personal posts!
I also reblog:
games - nier, yakuza/rgg, tales series, 13 sentinels aegis rim (play 13sar!!!), pokémon, zelda, xenogears/xenoblade, fire emblem
tv - kamen rider w, kamen rider geats, kamen rider zeztz, amc's interview with the vampire
music - my chemical romance, malice mizer, hatsune miku
books - stormlight archive (reading oathbringer rn!), red rising series (done! waiting for red god!)
about once every 4 months something comes over me and I go on a giant naruto/sns reblog spree. I am sorry. it will happen again. I can't control these episodes. my inner thirteen year old gets to drive sometimes.
thanks for reading! be kind to yourself! TRANS RIGHTS!! 🏳️⚧
BONUS! here are my bingus baby cats. Bibby and Jabber (not either of their legal names).
EXTRA BONUS!!!!! this is my childhood cat, Kitty!!!!!! (that is her legal name) :o) she is 17 and has a raspy grandma voice and still meows at me and eagerly crawls onto my shoulder when I visit her at my mom's house 💜 witness her scrungly whiskers!
*for your tag filtering purposes: I tag just the word itself with no "cw" or "tw" in front of it. for example, my tag for flashing gifs/videos is "flashing". I also have a tag called "current events" that is mostly for, well, current (political, social) events that you may or may not be trying to avoid while online. happy filtering!
“what does the woman who shaves gain from not shaving” i don’t know, an extra 3+ hours of free time a week? peace of mind and comfort in her femininity? not having nicks and cuts and ingrowns all the time? having a healthier skin barrier? do people think at all whatsoever before saying shit on my posts?
parents are allowed to straight-up torture their kids with zero consequences. they can withhold food and water, lock you out of shelter, confiscate your belongings, bar you from human contact, attack and harm you and exert complete control over your physical appearance. and this is just the norm. if you speak out against it you're seen as a delinquent or a predator. even otherwise progressive people get uncomfortable with the idea of dismantling the nuclear family unit because they still see it as the best way to keep kids safe when that simply couldn't be further from the truth. it's evil.
This is also part of why I'm so loud about homeschool reform, specifically in the USA.
In the US, there is no meaningful legal definition for educational/academic neglect in any of the 50 states or federally. What this means is that a child can be "homeschooled" and exclusively be taught how to cook and clean, reach the age of 18 being unable to read, write, or count, and this alone is not considered neglect. That 18yo, should they even have the knowledge that suing exists, has no legal grounds to sue their parents for denying them an education.
In over 40 US states, a convicted child abuser can homeschool their children. So someone who has done time for child abuse and somehow regains access to their child(ren) can decide upon returning home that they want to "homeschool" their kids. Those children are now locked in a home with their abuser where nobody can see them.
There are no welfare checks.
There are no routine assessments.
There aren't even databases — state or federal — keeping track of how many homeschooled kids there actually are.
Meaning a child can be locked in their home for their entire life with their convicted abuser, learn absolutely nothing, never go to the doctor, and so long as that child is fed, clothed, and the abuse isn't physical or sexual, that child has almost no chance of rescue and no legal ground to seek restitution if/when they escape.
The only way homeschooled children get rescued is if they're beaten, starved, or physically neglected and they're able to get the right person to see that. Otherwise? They have to wait until someone finds out they were murdered as a result of their parents "homeschooling".
And feral homeschool parents love to jump down my throat about this, and then get even more pissed when I tell them I'm a homeschool alumni.
Because I know it's not all homeschoolers. But even one is too many, and the lack of protections should scare everyone. If you're a good homeschool parent, nothing will change. If not, you deserve whatever comes your way as a result of adequate oversight.
"i don't care at all about the stock market or know what an estate lawyer is, because i'm not rich 😏" your death will be a nightmare for your loved ones to deal with and their death will be a nightmare for you. if you are an adult i'm not saying you need to have a trustee on standby for your vast fortune but you should at least know what "probate" means
this is your reminder that you should make a will. if you are in the US you can make a simple one for free at freewill.com, or willfora.com if you're in Canada. if you need anything complex talk to a lawyer (i promise a consultation with a lawyer is cheaper than probate delays/an extended legal fight.) but these sites will cover your basics (I want my partner to get my car, I want my roommate to get my cat, everything else goes to charity/my other partner/my kids/my next door neighbor who brings me brownies.) the state does not care that you have been estranged from your parents for a decade or have been separated from your spouse the money will go wherever the state says it does UNLESS! you have a will.
freewill also has healthcare directives! if you have ever been concerned about your partner(s) being unable to visit you in the hospital or make medical decisions for you if you are unable to make or communicate your own wishes - especially if you are unmarried/poly - you should have a healthcare directive. they are extremely easy to put together and you can designate multiple people as agents; freewill's tool also lets you designate people you do NOT want making decisions for you (for instance, your very Catholic parents.) if you're outside the US you can search "advanced healthcare directive (country)" and usually find a toolkit; often end of life advocacy-type organizations will have them.
nobody wants to think about these things but even more do you not want your loved ones to have to think about these things, very stressfully and expensively, while they are grieving you. make a will. 🫵
In the red carpet you won't see the bloodstains - Ryou & Bakura copic art
IT’S FINALLY DONE!
I’m so happy with the result and so happy to finally doing this drawing that it’s been in my head for years already.
The drawing itself is highly inspired by the song A Strange Thing to Say by Sopor Aeternus so it’d be great to listen to it while looking at the drawing ehehehe.
This was part of the Mystery Letter~
And here’s the process pictures, I hope you like it!
