want it to be known recovering pedophiles do exist and we really should not just be lumping them in with sex offenders. most pedophiles are not just touching people and when we start generalizing shit like that and stigmatizing it, it makes it so much harder for those people to come out and GET HELP FOR IT.
No, amnesia isn’t blacking out and coming to like you’ve passed out.
Amnesia is the lack of memory. It’s completely omitted from your mind. It’s akin to trying to remember before you were born. It’s simply impossible! You had no awareness before you’re born, and that lack of awareness is the same for amnesia.
Those who have not experienced it can only piece together what it is like through the accounts of those who have it, which leads to this popular idea of it being a hard transition from point a to point b. The truth is, it’s much more complex. It more looks like your mind blocking off the bad parts of a moment and keeping the parts it’s okay with to fill in the gap of time. That’s why things seem to happen so fast for those of us with it! Because we are experiencing that time— just way faster because we forget half of the moment we experienced.
The way it’s portrayed in such a single, specific way bothers me… (´-`).。oO
have YOU ever thought like this?????? i know WE hate the current plural diagnostics!!!! so! WE MADE OUR OWN!!!!!!!
it's 44 questions long, you can receive a total of 50 points!
it's unfortunately hosted through google forms for now unless we find something better...
*Due to how Google Forms is built, your "System Percentage" is shown as your amount of correct answers.
Plural systems typically get a score
we are not doctors, do not take your result as medical advice.
feel free to reblog with your result!
note: if you're a system and got under 60%, let us know! the 60% minimum is based solely off of, like, five non-system takers. we're working on getting a bigger sample size!
we've been getting some questions about this quiz! the primary one we'll answer here is "these questions feel normal, why do they prove you're plural?"
the idea behind this quiz is pretty much exactly that. these are all fairly normal symptoms. on their own, none of these are a sign of plurality.
however, they start to become a sign of something more when there's a large percentage answered "yes"! all diagnoses are collections of symptoms, that was the core idea behind this :) we sent this to several singlets to make sure it worked, and every time, singlets got a significantly lower score than systems!
a lot of plural quizzes have confusing, vague questions that are really hard to answer when you have, y'know. a disorder that causes memory issues. so we wanted to help that by making the questions as simple and, like, normal as possible. that's why we say that systems(not all, but many) usually get a score of about 60% ^^
of course, there is overlap with other disorders that cause disassociation, we are 100% aware of that. like we said, this isn't a diagnosis!! 🫶🫶
also, not all systems will get 60% or more! it depends wholly on who you are :) this quiz was based off of ourself and the people around us/online, we didn't really do a lot of intensive outreach because we honestly didn't think it would get as big as it did </3 everyone is different! just because your symptoms aren't the same as everyone else's doesn't make you more or less valid.
the online identity and gimmick-ifying of autism is so odd. I'm diagnosed with autism and yet I barely identify with any stuff I see about it anymore. It feels like autism is being rebranded as the Silly Guy Disorder that gives you smart and beautiful hyperspecific interests. it's not that I mind silly jokes or being lighthearted about being autistic- but when the entire social movement is based around marketing us this way, I just can't help but feel isolated from it. it feels like I'm not the right kind of autistic. I'm not marketable and digestible to common audiences, and therefore I am discarded by the movement in the name of progress and acceptance. it feels foul.
i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users
would be remiss not to mention that the rainbow notably straight up just removed the trans flag colors from it. like they’re gone. it’s the progress flag minus the trans flag colors.
I’m going to be honest. I’ve loved running this account. Absolutely loved it.
But I don’t know when I’ll be off my break - my health has taken a massive decline. Not just physically but mentally too. My system is in shambles and no one knows what to do anymore.
I’ve loved helping so many people with their headmates, helping their fragments gain identities and helping people split new headmates. I’ll forever cherish being able to help you all.
But. I’m not sure when I’ll be off break. If ever. I’m always around on discord (spoiledmutts) and you can always say hello if you see me in a server!
That being said. @pluralconfess is also on a break. I know - early considering it’s new. But I just cannot physically or mentally keep up with the asks and being on social media at the moment.
Please feel free to message me here if you wish to stay in contact with my system. You may see a new personal blog come up for my system. We still want to be around on tumblr as a system. But for now, farewell kandibah and farewell pluralconfess 🫡❤️
tumblr is showing me posts my moots commented on. oh my god shut the FUCK UP
@staff hey can we not do this pretty please???? pretty please with a cherry on top??? stop making changes to your app ??? whatever the higher ups are doing ignore them. eat them. please devs please staff
You ever talk with someone about something, and come to a weird realisation that you somehow never noticed before?
Like, I just came to the realisation that the weird shift in my identity and how I perceive myself and others (particularly my shift in opinion towards my parts) might have happened around the time I had a really unlucky and distressing mix of events (possible high stressors/traumas) about a year and a half ago. Realising that has become really interesting for me.
We're a system (PRO endo) and most of the time we are in our singletsona mode. sorry not sorry.
Some names you might hear pretty often:
Reina (She/her)
Turqui (She/It)
Scorpia (She/It)
Aether (It/its) yes there is a headmate named aether in a system named aether. idk how it happened either.
No we won't share our origins, if you send an ask, try to specify to whom or you get the singletsona.
We're not human. use it/its sometimes for us (collective).
Kitsune-kin
Dragon-kin (we don't know what kind yet, flip flopping between black dragon and another seccret kind we cant determine)
Skunk-kin
And also Pangolin-kin. though this one might not be a thing and we might just really like pangolins. dunno yet
We stream!! here's our twitch, if you wanna hear our voice. we flirt a lot in stream cuz... our partners cute and we like seeing them blush.
Speaking of partners, we have multiple.
@gay-tulips-ina-trenchcoat
@the-lunacy-system
@cado-thingy
@suchabadhabit
@thatacefrog
mossyy <33
+ others not on tumblr or only with certain headmates
Others we like but can't put our relationship into words.
@thebelovedlion
@tera-of-the-dragons
Friends + moots
@achilles-the-loser
@cgsdraws
@extinctavialae
@puddlesl1me
@facetsofconfusion
(there are more, if you want to be added you can comment under here cuz i have awwffulll memory)
We have no dni, but we will block you if you're a transandrophobe or anti endo. i also just block you if your vibes are trash so no offense if you follow me, and you find out i blocked you.
We have some interests.
Pokemon, Power rangers/super sentai, minecraft. there are more, i have forgotten.
NSFW under cut
We have an NSFW blog.
@aethers-dungeon
we don't use it much. it's mostly for our kinks/horny ramblings. or getting mad over rule34 comments. <3
thanks for reading my whole intro post~ you're so special!! thank you so much !!!
Honestly, I couldn't fully describe it. I've always wanted to increase my knowledge of my taste. I guess just like, energetic music... That's the most I know about it? I see it as unoriginal because I mostly listen to stuff from my friends' playlists lol
do you have a LEAST favourite colour? or a colour you think is very middle of the ground
Honestly I'd usually say something unoriginal like bright magenta or like sickly neon greenish yellow
I don't hate it 100% but I also love to bring up Pantone 448C, which I dislike because it reminds me of cigarettes and the taste of them, but I also like the colour's legacy