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Queer pride blog but it's safe for the multiply marginalized

[freakflags]

A blog for posting about queer issues. Run by a 25 year old dyke. TME. They/any pronouns.

[freakflags]

I think we need to start punching people for transmisogyny. I think people aren't angry enough. This shit should get you beaten.

[maidslime]

Shinigami Eyes is actually a really good app. You're just a transmisogynist.

[selene1311-f]

No it really REALLY isn't; it's deeply racist, intersexist, and will mark you red for the "crime" of being nonbinary alone. It's shit, and if you use it (with the exception of feeling the need to monitor it), you're shit.

[crypticraccoon96]

Ofc they have a jax pfp

🦝

[maidslime]

Of course I love my girlfriend's art and wanna show it off. Ya got me. Not my pronouns btw, transphobe.

[crypticraccoon96]

Ah, that explains it. You're one of those. Feel free to fuck off 💕

🐈‍⬛

[noticesghosts]

"One of those"??? What the fuck is *that* supposed to mean?

[maidslime]

It means they're a homophobe and a transphobe and blocked me instead of apologizing for misgendering me.

[calamity-corner]

fucking insane behavior, sorry you're being made to deal with it mordred

also i always find that "criticism" so funny; "you'll get marked red just for being nonbinary!" interesting, i'm nonbinary and i'm not marked red. i wonder what reason there could be that the "mark people who are transmisogynistic" extension marked you red but not me if we're both nonbinary? there couldn't be any other reason, surely. let's just take a look at what you have to say about trans women and- ahh, there it is.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

same energy as homophobic assholes saying "you hate me because im a christian" after immediately telling you to go to hell

[freakflags]

This shit is fucking beyond appalling. All transmisogynists get drawn and quartered challenge.

[fairycosmos]

IDK it pisses me off the way people act like murderers are some sort of great puzzle to be solved when 90% of the time its literally just a boring freak that hates women

[zaktreas]

Take that's probably gonna get me yelled at: I'd be really interested to see how many trans men would still identify with queer womanhood if the word "lesbian" didn't exist. Like if they had to call themselves "gay women" or something like that. Because I, for one, have never seen a trans women who doesn't hate herself identify with the label of "man," gay or otherwise. I just feel like "lesbian" is seen as linguistically flexible enough to accommodate the men who want to make it theirs.

[zaktreas]

1) If you're going to use quotation marks, don't alter my words in them. It's dishonest.

2) I never claimed to know shit about anyone's gender.

3) That's not what exorsexism is. I'm not talking about nonbinary identities. I'm talking about trans men. Using that as a gotcha kind of makes it sound like you think trans men aren't men. Which you don't think, obviously, because that's pretty blatant transphobia.

4) Again. Not talking about butches, who I specifically said can be masc. That includes transmasculine butches. Not the same thing as men.

5) That history is exactly what we're talking about here. Historically, trans women have been excluded from lesbianism (an orientation based around attraction to women and non-men by women and non-men) and trans men have been included. Do you think, perhaps, it might be a little bit of a problem if people who specifically identify as men are welcome in lesbian spaces while a certain type of woman is excluded? Have I painstakingly explained myself well enough for you to listen to what a woman has to say about her own community and identity, or are you just going to continue putting words in her mouth?

[phorusrhacidae-lesbian]

when you wonder why people call you a nazi

[andrinoaddiction]

This post is stupid but imagine if tme people talked about other real lifes binaries. Having or not having a tv is transandrophobic against afab nonbinary people. Asking someone if they do or do not have a tv is essentially misgendering someone. Its interesting food for thought

[rhoselacksthorns]

It's like saying:

"more characters should be trans" explain what you mean by that without once mentioning the characters assigned gender at birth or otherwise inserting them into a binary of trans/cis. Quickly.

[donald-trump-offical]

Trans men are men

Trans women are men

Everyone is man

And i am definitively not homosexual

[kiwineverdies]

Can I ask what's progressive about insulting a homophobic politician by accusing him of being gay.

What's the joke here.

Tone deaf fucking blog. Delete.

[donald-trump-offical]

OOC

I have decided that you deserve a response instead of blocking you, so here it is.

Is there a post on this blog stating that it is meant to be profressive? No there isn't.

Is insulting a homophobic politician wrong? No, I don't think so.

The fact that you cannot find the humour in a blog does not mean that someone else can. People have different senses of humour, deal with it.

Why did you not block this blog when you first found yourself being offended when it is so easy?

Why did you think hating on a blog is the right way to spent your time on the internet?

I don't want an answer to these questions, I want you to understand that this was not the right course of action in this situation.

I am not blocking you to give you the option to do it yourself, you can block or not I will not care, but this will be the first and last time I will give attention to people being mean on the internet.

I genuinely hope you have a good rest of you day.

[kiwineverdies]

So homophobia is good when it's weaponized against people you don't like. Gotcha.

[andpierres]

hello trans man on tumblr dot com. i am speaking directly to you right now. Do Not Go Down The Transandrophobia Rabbit Hole. like every other ~ progressively branded ~ vein of transphobia & transmisogyny that came before it, not only will it not save you, and not only will it make you a miserable, hateful person, but most importantly, you will be contributing to the systematic oppression and alienation of trans women in a time where it is suffocating them in literally all walks of life, public and private. you will drive the women in your life away. you will show that you are an unsafe person to be around. it is not cute, it does not describe experiences that we don't already have the words for, and it's preventing you from seeing the systemic causes of the very real threats that are actually affecting you as a trans person.

[the-kill-all-tmes-lady]

just gonna say if you know the difference between mogai, liom, and radqueer youre just as fucked as me

[the-kill-all-tmes-lady]

ok heres the difference putting it behind a cut so you can choose to ignore it

MOGAI: acronym for Marginalized Orientations, Gender Allignments, and Intersex

LIOM: acronym for Labels and Identities, Orientations and other Minorities (however explicitly excludes the big three and other paraphilias which are arbitrarily seen as inherently harmful as well as "transX identities/transids") usually seen as a more inclusive version of mogai sometimes written as LIOMOGAI

and finally the one thats gonna make me regret making this post

radqueer: coined as a term adjacent to MOGAI in those spaces (by someone i think genuinely believed it was a valuable concept) not an acronym rather a label in and of itself includes the idea that almost everything and everyone is queer (not an exaggeration) explicitly (originally) pro-contact and pro-troll labels and movements however a lot of the ppl who now identify with it are anti-c or complex-c or whatever some points i think are necessary to make clear

the original coiner was pro baby and child rape believing these things to be in some cases consensual

the original coiner was pro bestiality believing animals could consent

radqueer is STILL pro "transrace" and other bigoted nonsensical "trans" identities like "transabled" and many others

people within the "radqueer community" groomed me into being pro-c for awhile as a isolated without any community recently adult trans girl (around late 18-20) and im still comming to terms with how i let it happen to me

people within the radqueer community will try to say that it has changed (ie more anti-c and less abuse-normalizing) but it has not theyre still pro-bigotry and excuse abusers actions and ppl who point out abuse within the community are usually isolated or claimed to be bigots for not "supporting the whole community"

if i havent made it clear i fucking loathe this "community" so much

theres also an agacent stance known as political satanism/xenosatanism likely made by people within the same circles and is explicitly pro-rape and pro-abuse (no exaggeration) and i refuse to acknowledge it more than that

k thats it if you read this all im sorry

[freakflags]

I blame the MOGAI community entirely for the existence of the vibes based politics that led to the creation of "radqueer" communities and somehow nobody else is capable of seeing the obvious connection.

[the-kill-all-tmes-lady]

im almost 100% convinced at this point that transneutral, transxenine, etc. all exist for one purpose so transmascs can feign ignorance abt having privilege over transfems

[freakflags]

Good because that's exactly the case!

[reg1ment]

> watch a movie that is “foundational queer media”

> it sucks

[muzzlesbian]

> watch a movie that is “foundational queer media”

> it’s transmisogyny

[donald-trump-offical]

Trans men are men

Trans women are men

Everyone is man

And i am definitively not homosexual

[kiwineverdies]

Can I ask what's progressive about insulting a homophobic politician by accusing him of being gay.

What's the joke here.

Tone deaf fucking blog. Delete.

[kayla-denker]

The issue of trans women being sent to men's prisons isn't brought up as being a monstrous thing because of the misgendering, it's monstrous because we're sent there to be legally sex trafficked.

That's what V-coding is. That is why they are so adamant about sending trans women to men's prisons, because sex trafficking trans women within the men's prison system is an essential part of that system. Being misgendered by this isn't even an issue that's on our radar!

[donald-trump-offical]

ooc:

[kayla-denker]

Friend. This predates Trump's presidency by generations. This has been done to us for at least the last half century. Through the presidencies of JFK, Johnson, Carter, Clinton, and yes even Obama and Biden. Violent transmisogyny is a bipartisan issue.

[rcmbhirev]

Did you know that if you fall off your bike you can get a special unskippable cutscene called surgery and months of physical therapy?

Imagine that as an already-too-disabled-to-work trans woman in an actual sundown town.

Imagine you lose Medicaid and SNAP since you aren't working or considered Disabled Enough not to.

Imagine watching debt pile up while you have no choice but to use credit cards to get through.

Imagine not being able to reliably get to appointments because your car is too expensive to fix up and your city has no transit (hence, the bike in the first place!!).

Imagine seeing your partner who works full-time as a student struggle to support you while you feel overwhelming guilt that you can't do anything about it.

Please donate and share if you can. Anything helps.

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[rcmbhirev]

think about the kind of person that goes into sportsmed. is that person transfeminist? fuckkkk no

[rcmbhirev]

sidenote

i think this is good right

[jyncxouppy]

Isnt it so awesome how they term your friends the moment they're in need of money????? Isn't that fucking amazing???? Anyways everyone give morrigan one hundred dollars

[freakflags]

"Why do you dislike MOGAI/QAI?" gestures to this shit.

[freakflags]

"you can be nonbinary and cisgender" <- transphobia. Blatant fucking transphobia and you should be ashamed for believing it.