gender examples

Orin (he/they, 30s) / main blog @greenthey / faegender header flag by @pride-color-schemes

[frayed-wind]

[theweirdwideweb]

Hey check your titties for any lumps

[gunsandfireandshit]

And ur balls if applicable

[theweirdwideweb]

And your balls

[ailithnight]

Assess the orbs for irregularities.

[enbaluka-tokyo-drift]

[ndiecity-deactivated20241101]

alright I reflected on the self. I'm 100% sure the beasts are the issue here

[runby2]

Hell yeah bro. 🤝Time for top surgery

[runby2]

sorry homie. I see now you said beasts. Like, The animal . Not breasts. The word for boobs. Did not mean to threaten you.

[ndiecity-deactivated20241101]

this is so fucking funny

[sceptixfakemon]

does anyone else also feel extremely uncomfortable with the number of "dark side of testosterone" "bad things about t" "gross testosterone hrt side effects doctors won't tell you about" articles/posts/videos that are around the internet. with most of the information being downright false or exaggerated to scare young trans men and mascs out of taking t. please is anyone else also really angry about this i feel insane

[genderexamples]

Them: testosterone will make you big and hairy

Me: promise?

Them: your clit will get bigger 🤢

Me: thank god

Them: you'll go bald

Me: I like my new hairline, it looks so masc 😍

Them: your skin will be slightly less smooth

Me: that has no bearing on my life

Them: your saliva will be thicker?

Me: better at spitting contests

Them: it'll be harder to cry

Me: ...you got me there

Them: ok but the real problem is you will be less fuckable to straight men

Me: 🙌😭 *marked safe* 🪬

[acquired-stardust]

Pokemon HeartGold Nintendo DS 2009

[homoidiotic]

Paint sketches from yesterday

[bonivers]

i almost let comparison be the thief of my joy again

[goslinggf]

"girl dinner" "boy kibble" can y'all just eat a meal gender neutrally

[goslinggf]

gender neutrients

[trash-fuckyou]

Audience note from test screening of VIDEODROME, 1983

[palebluepixel]

This person hated videodrome so much they forgot their gender

[eldritchbauble]

Having a body is unbearable. Thankfully, with the power of dissociation,

[homoidiotic]

Nino: Trans Joy! Feral Magazine, Cape Town, 2024 by Steve Marais

“A raw, documentary-style interview and photo essay detailing the life of a black trans man in South Africa. The interview with Nino covers his entire journey: being kicked out of his home, experiencing homelessness, working on the docks, navigating the healthcare system for his transition, and becoming an accidental social media activist. The photography is direct and honest, capturing his strength and joy without glossing over the hardships. The narrative deliberately focuses on his perspective on sex, identity, and survival” Ayanda Nino’s instagram

[polishwave]

[savyir-genesizz-the-wizard]

[Polish. A red writing on the wall saying "no smoking" changed to "beating meat compulsory" with a black sharpie]

[decompose1]

neovaginas can get wet naturally

a neophallus can get erect with an implant (this will either be a bendable rod or a device that inflates with saline at the press of a button, usually in the testicles)

both can feel sexual pleasure and experience orgasm

most neovaginas will be able to tolerate larger insertions with enough dilating/training

the nerves in neophalluses take a while to regrow but it is incredibly rare to experience no sexual nerve growth

both can look and feel "normal" if that's what you want, just take good care of your scars and look at your surgeons' results portfolio (and don't be afraid to be picky! its your genitals, you get to decide!)

in fact it's possible for many people to stealth and for their sexual partners to never know. even for phallo, some people with natal penises have erectile implants too, ED is common. neocaginas are often indistinguishable from natal vaginas

many surgeons are starting to offer preservation options for patients who want a more mixed look/don't want to lose what they have

YOU HAVE OPTIONS! demystify bottom surgery

[deerbrain]

you can also have nothing, if you want!! nullification is starting to become available alongside vaginoplasty and phalloplasty

you can have nothing and retain sexual function, even! it's called nerve-preserving nullification. similarly to other bottom surgeries, they use the most sensitive tissue (glans/clit) to create a subdermal pseudoclitoris

yes you can pee like normal. urethral reroute leaves a small hole at the perineum (taint)

all the advice about scars from OP applies here too!! take care of yourself well and it can heal well

(also, for people interested in the "mixed look" OP mentioned: the magic words are "penile-preserving vaginoplasty"/"phalloplasty without vaginectomy"!!)

[her-aurora-doll]

As someone who has had nullification done, my inbox is always open.

[enbaluka-tokyo-drift]

[recoveredcombatsister]

its a real shame we cant talk about gendered socialization as the violence that it is without some fuckass rocking up like "and thats why trans women arent women!"

[recoveredcombatsister]

like children gendered as girls are fed less and given less opportunities to play and make messes, and children gendered as boys are offered less help and given less emotional support, and this is hurting them! but no actually we need to stop trannies from using the womens washroom

[toloveviceforitself]

The thing missing from the transphobic analysis is that children gendered as one but perceived to conform more to the other (or to "fail" at their gendered socialization) tend to get a sampler-pack of the worst of both, plus a bunch of outright abuse on top.

[genderexamples]

My brother once told my mom that when we were little, she never talked directly to him, only to me, and dat.is sad. Also she talked to me constantly which was overwhelming and saw me as her "little friend." I learned to emotionally caretake others way too early. And my brother is now pretty inconsiderate of others, only does what he wants all the time, doesn't seem to care if he hurts ppls feelings. In some ways I wish I could be self-focused like that. We both deserved more balance.

It's interesting because my mom is a tomboy who doesn't even believe in traditional gender roles, it's just how she unconsciously behaved. In some ways she taught me some toxic masculinity things, like expressing sadness was not really cool. God forbid if you complained about something. My parents would go out of their way to fix anything by practical means if it meant avoiding talking about emotions

[shitter]

absolute gold on Reddit today