Gently Loved

sideblog for me basically, feel free to follow though ; I’m in my 20’s.

[gentlyloved]

fuck you to anyones who has ever emotionally fucked up a person to the point they no longer trust another human being, a big fuck you for emotionally damaging someone to the point where they are terrified of receiving and giving love. i hope you sleep really shit at night knowing what a terrible person you are for breaking someone's softness for this world.

[glazyvent]

what sin could i possibly have

[joli--coeur]

reminder: what’s yours will be yours. no need to rush. no need to feel anxious. all good things take time. and when it does come, your heart will be so grateful. give it time. rest your mind. and enjoy the present moments.

[thatbrunettebarbiedoll]

Be a bad bitch with a warm heart. It's not cute to be rude and disrespectful. You can be confident, have no tolerance for insults and still be gentle and kind to people who deserve it. This is the dream combination that needs to be mastered.

[gentlyloved]

Sometimes you have to say, "I love you and I will always love you, but I'm no longer interested in the quality of life you have to offer, so I must let you go." You don't even have to change; I only need you to realise that while you are free to carry on as you have been, it is not possible to do so with me. You must occasionally love someone from a distance.

[gentlyloved]

fuck you to anyones who has ever emotionally fucked up a person to the point they no longer trust another human being, a big fuck you for emotionally damaging someone to the point where they are terrified of receiving and giving love. i hope you sleep really shit at night knowing what a terrible person you are for breaking someone’s softness for this world.

[kaleighfratkins]

Trauma often messes with one’s ability to say “no”. 

You either consciously or subconsciously think, “I don’t want to hurt this person’s feelings” or “If I say no, then they’ll hurt me” or “It won’t really be that bad” or “I can handle this” or “I need to do this to prove myself” or “I deserve this”, or you forget that “no” is even an option.

It’s still not your fault if you didn’t say “no”, even if you think maybe you could have. It’s still not your fault. You didn’t deserve what happened to you and you didn’t bring it upon yourself. It was never your fault.

[labellabrianna-deactivated20250]

I’m forever questioning someone’s intentions.

[dholeful]

[bitter-and-angry]

Am I angry at my abusers? Yes, absolutely. You know what I am MORE angry at? The bystanders. The people that knew what was happening. The ones who saw what was happening with their own eyes. The ones who did NOTHING and allowed people to continue to make me suffer.

[interlibros]

[myopressivedepression]

[isloveevenrealanymore]

[traumatrash]

We shouldn’t have to spend our entire lives recovering from our childhoods

[depression-healthy-carrier]

I’m so ashamed of myself because I know i should be better but I have no idea how to get there

[peepuddle-deactivated20230124]

having a body causes me so much agony i wish i was just a floating entity with no physical form

[dog-teeth]

dog teeth #34