Happy Aro week of visibility! 💚
(and an ace knight because these two often go hand in hand 💜)
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Happy Aro week of visibility! 💚
(and an ace knight because these two often go hand in hand 💜)
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Hedy Yang, On the Horizon
One of the most heartwarming things I’ve ever heard a dog trainer say “A pushy pet who makes small demands and communicates their needs to you is a safe pet. It means they trust you and aren’t afraid of your reaction if they misbehave and push your buttons a little”
Most people have a version of safe food, even if they don’t name it that way. For me, it is how I make eating possible.
Borzoi illustration inspired on one of my grandma's porcelain sets.
"but aromantic people can still be in romantic relationships! i headcanon this character as demiromantic" okay then
where's the "do i really love them romantically? or did i just convince myself i do?
where's the "am i still really aromantic? what if it was just a phase? what if i'm normal, actually?"
where's the "what even is romantic love. what even is the difference being romantic love and platonic love. nothing is inherently romantic, it all depends on intent. but that can't be the only difference, can it? then people could just chose to be in love. but that's not how it works, is it?? "
where's the not being aro enough for aro spaces but being too aro for allo spaces
where's the "i keep falling for my friends and it keeps costing me friendships. help!"
where's the "what even is dating. how does that even work"
where's the not getting crushes. it's either completely fully in love or nothing
where's the being perfectly happy without a romantic partner, but also happy if you happen to have one
where's the needing unusually long to get over a relationship and detangle yourself
where's the "love at first sight is fake, it doesn't work like that"
where's the "i don't know you well enough yet to be romantically interested in you. i don't even know you well enough to know if i could be romantically interested in you"
where's the usual aro stuff. having difficulty with romantic relationships or situations without knowing why. not being able to relate when others talk about their crushes and relationships. advice always being either "talk about it" or "break up" if asked. feeling like there's something wrong with you bc you don't work like everyone else
demiromantic people are still aromantic. you can't use that as a cop out to write aro characters as if they're allo
- sincerely, a demiromantic person who'd like more accurate representation
when the allegedly cishet neurotypical relative hits you with the "well i think everyones a little bit on the spectrum" "its normal to think about kissing your girl friends sometimes" "sure i've never felt like a woman but i can't change what i am." and you have to suddenly carefully evaluate whether theyre just being dismissive or if you've unlocked some very interesting potential information about your grandmother.
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I like ichthyosaurs, they are like if a lizard was also a tuna
Celtic Bronze Horse, C. 300 BC
Possibly used as a votive item, found near the border of France and Germany
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Britain has lost 97% of its wildflower meadows. Now cities, with their stressed soils and forgotten corners, may be where wildflowers stage
From the article:
Wildflowers are associated with rolling meadows, ancient grasslands, and a pastoral world that is rapidly disappearing. The UK has lost 97 percent of its wildflower meadows over the past century, driven largely by agricultural intensification. As Nadine Mitschunas, a pollinator ecologist at the UK Centre for Ecology and Hydrology, puts it: “Arable land is heavily managed, and everything that’s not a crop is taken out.” But the conditions that make cities hostile to most plants are exactly what wildflowers love. Stress keeps competition down, Mitschunas explains, and without competition, wildflowers can establish and spread. “They need an unstable environment, because in stable environments, only a few species survive.” A perfectly fertilised, well-watered lawn is, paradoxically, a harder place for wildflowers than a cracked pavement or a neglected roadside verge. Part of what makes urban environments so hospitable is their variety. Pavements, walls, rooftop patches, riverbanks, and railway sidings each create their own microclimate. That fragmentation, which would be a liability in conventional ecology, becomes an asset for species that would otherwise lose out to dominant grasses or shrubs. “In urban areas they can find their niche, because there are all these specialist habitats,” says Mitschunas. Even defining what counts as a wildflower gets complicated in this context. Cicely Marshall, a research fellow at the University of Cambridge’s Department of Plant Sciences, notes that the line between weed and wildflower is rarely objective. “A weed is any plant growing in the wrong place; one person’s weeds are another person’s wildflowers,” she says. That ambiguity is part of what makes urban ecology so interesting: a neglected strip of scrub that looks like an eyesore to one person may represent prime habitat to another.
It took me forever to work on in short bursts while still injured, but sometimes and idea just sinks its teeth into you and won't let go. 🦁
For a city to be walkable. It must also be sittable.
#every time I read this phrase the same thing happens#I read it as shittable and go wait that can't be right#oh right they were talking about public benches that makes more sense#but public bathrooms available without fees should also be a thing tho#cities should definitely be shittable#it happens EVERY SINGLE TIME
it must also be shittable
the “sexy lamp test” but for disabled folks: if you can replace your disabled character with a beloved pet dog that needs an expensive surgery to survive then you have to throw out your manuscript
Doorstopper fantasy is like the worst genre to be only moderately engaged with. Like, I very much do want to know what happens next, and it's killing me that I don't, but it just introduced a thirty-seventh viewpoint character, and I'm simply not invested enough to keep track of who all these people are.
Sculptor railing by Ariha Railings
Day 3 - Long-Tailed Jaeger and Day 2 - Cinnamon Teal of #migratorymay2026 hosted by @migratorymay