Papa Bear 🧸 @givecare2her - Tumblr Blog

He/Him

Able-bodied caregiver to my sweet and lovely little wife

I will post and reblog anything and everything that reminds me of us

I love you, baby 🥰

#I love my wife #caregiver #interabled couple #disability #disabled #interabled #able bodied #agere caregiver #sfw agere

faintlyhauntedsanctuary

"Exercise is literally dangerous for me and makes my disability worse, so I'm going to push myself anyways!"

Please stop pushing this shit you are not only harming yourself but you are harming other disabled people by trying to normalize ignoring what your body is telling you.

You are describing Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME/CFS), not dysautonomia. So many people mistake their dysautonomia for purely dysautonomia when it is actually ME, and that is how they end up bedridden and severely disabled because they kept pushing themselves instead of listening to their bodies. People with ME can die from overexertion, people with ME should never exercise no matter what.

Its time to accept that being disabled means you can't do everything that abled people can do, and that's okay. Stop forcing yourself to do everything that abled people tell you to do.

for your blog! 🫶🏻 🐇🩵🐇

#muah!#caregiver #sfw agere #sfw caregiver #love drawing for mr mommy

your blog heals a big part of my soul. to see someone so unapologetically and radically caring is really nice, as a disabled person that sometimes regresses!

Aw 🥺 I'm glad that my posts can help you in some way.

I made this blog mainly to support my wife and her posts, but she recently had her accounts deleted. So now I just reblog the things that remind me of us, posts about disability advocacy, and regression. I'm mostly able-bodied for now, and unfortunately i don't see a lot of positive content for interabled couples. That's what I want to help bring to this side of tumblr. ♥️

#asks #stellaltumi #interabled couple #agere caregiver #age regression #disability

Another beautiful piece of artwork for the corkboard. Thank you so much baby girl. @dizzy-dai ♥️ You're just as adorable as Bingo 💗🥰

#caregiver #age regressor #agere #sfw

charseraph

Say I love you to your friend who walks slow. Who pauses long and often to gather their thoughts. Who forgets what they were trying to say. Who can’t focus on you because of pain. Who can’t give complex responses even though they wish they could. Who struggles to ask for anything because the answer could be no. Say I love you to your friend who feels safe enough to be slow around you.

sickbitterandcoveredinglitter

Like a month ago I messaged a craft group about accessibility for wheelchairs and the answer I got was “there’s a lot of stairs but we have cute boys who can carry you”. And it’s…not good. As a wheelchair bound person I largely depend on people when I want to go out and do *anything* so I’m used to it, I laugh it off, make an annoyed post about it and off I go. But I wanna just say a thing real quick.

Even if I wasn’t gay, wasn’t a survivor scared of men, getting help as a disabled person is just…Not a pleasant thing to us! Imagine for a sec how you’d feel being carried up a flight of stairs. You’re a grown person. You’re being touched in an awkward way. You’d rather do it yourself. You’re So Uncomfortable. It’s not where I look for the beginning of a romantic relationship. So like…could abled people stop doing this thing where they think helping us in a condescending and infantilizing way is cute? Cause I’m real tired. Just get me a ramp or lift and I’m cool. I don’t need a dating service when I’m just trying to go about my day

sickbitterandcoveredinglitter

If you’re abled please reblog it cause like…the more ppl knows the better

mounchii

The Moon✨🌕

sycamorality

shoutout all my neurodivergent folk who Dont have autism or adhd

sycamorality

hey fellow autistic folk and adhders. this post isn't about you. this post is about all the other neurodivergence that is specifically Not autism or adhd. maybe the clearest post on the site about that actually. i'm autistic and have adhd too, but this post is specifically not about that. stop making it about your autism or your adhd.

it's about npd, bpd, psychosis, schizophrenia, dyslexia, dyscalculia, dyspraxia, dysgraphia, epilepsy, DLD, did, osdd (and any other plurality/multiplicity), depression, brain damage, anxiety, tourettes, down syndrome, ptsd, and everything else. it's specifically about neurodivergence that ISNT autism or adhd.

sylvanianfamilieslove

cgcomfort

you are never too old to want to be treated softly, you deserve to be.

you are never too old to regress, everyone should feel safe doing so.

you are never too old to feel small, its such a big world, sometimes you just need to be.

you are never too old to play with your toys, they still love you.

you are never too old too buy new toys, they want to meet you.

you'll always be tiny to me. <3

nimandmossy

Ok but can we talk about the loneliness that comes with being chronically ill? If you’re not able to work or go to events, there’s so much time spent by yourself.

It feels like Im a zoo animal with no enrichment or friends, just me staring out the glass

stormysparrow-deactivated202605

nope, kiddo, no more scrolling and losing track of time. come lay in the fort.

hundredacrepapa

˗ˏ 🏥 ˎ˗ concept

having a scary medical episode / incident and having your carer there to hold your hand and help you answer big questions when you're feeling extra tiny and scared . . .

" let [ carer ] help you with that angel " " oh sweetheart don't worry i brought your stuffie " " let's get you comfy as we can ok? i know it's not nice baby but [ carer ]'s here "

mytinytinytiny

Waking my kiddo up and they’re already so tiny. Oh, my, what a soft day we will have! Sitting in bed with them, listening to sleepy babbles as they wake up for the day. Holding them in my arms, rubbing their back gently while I talk gently, asking them how they slept.

Getting to prepare their outfit for them, helping them brush their hair and teeth, and then have some water in their bottle while I make food for us. Ahh, just a tiny day from the start, it’s so precious.

The house filled with a show safe for a small mind, feeding them what I got to make, snuggling with my happy little one before they want to play.