hi!!! I'm goma! and I don't quite know what I'm d

PFP by @guuuurei !!!!!!!111!!! main 2 many blogs. dont follow 4 fanart please. if you know me irl please turn back. like actually.

[goldensunset]

if you or a loved one have ever tried looking up discussion of a female fictional character online only to see terms like ‘waifu’ and ‘best girl’ used you may be entitled to financial compensation

[gomadayo]

Sometimes u wannapodt a fanart u made but u know that ppl e going to be extremely annoying and immature about it so u dont

[qualityrain]

@aphantomdweeb

[fiff1]

[catball]

all my haters become cicaders when i enter the summer of success

[lesbianmarrow]

free use is kind of a funny kink bc it relies on the idea that everybody wants to touch you and have sex with you but what if they don't. what if you tell everybody at the party you're free use but they all ignore you and mind their own business

[tunnaa-unnaa]

taking notes

[evilwizard]

dude i didn’t want to say anything but the other guy in my torture dungeon is straight up ‘painmogging’ you

[funstealer]

Alfredo Bannister Cow Leather Lace Up Inside / Zipped Outside Boots. via fernzenmoss

[6mayhem]

do my mooties even know about transreads.org. its such a lifesaver when i was writing papers about transmisogny n gender in general....

[creatingblackcharacters]

If you think Remmick's behavior in Sinners towards Sammie was in any way queer or motivated by sexual attraction, boy do I got a book you'll love!!

Join your fellow centuries of believers as you learn the racist history of white people (yes, the women too!) taking advantage of their enslaved Black victims' bodies in any way they saw fit, because they had a psychosexual obsession with the power they held over them! I'm sorry, I mean the "enemies to lovers obsessed vampire trope"!

[fidelcostco]

can't believe the only options are 30 minutes early or 10 minutes late. if only there were some other way. but what can you do

[spiribia]

Why is so much adult oriented 2d animation bastard ugly, do they know they don’t have to do that? The characters don’t have to projectile vomit all the time either, but maybe that’s asking too much

[artistformerlyknownasbutttrumpet]

i was training a young person at work, and she referred to sexual assault as "SA" out loud, and i immediately was like, "no, it's sexual assault, call it what it is," bc idgaf if the algorithm overlords have taught y'all that you should fear direct language, how tf do any of you expect to ever address real issues with any amount of seriousness if you can't even say the words? imagine an advocate looking a sexual assault survivor in the eyes and asking "did he grape you?" it's absolutely fucking absurd, but these young interns and new hires are coming into an environment where we deal with survivors of all different kinds of abuse, and they're coming with the mindset that the words are as bad as the actions, and that makes them shitty at the job and look juvenile af

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

say the fucking words, guys. just say the goddamn words before i go insane!!!

[gomadayo]

Not to be mean but i lowkey think that if u cant look past small discrepancies that clearly have no relevance narratively (esp in world where fucking magic exists) then maybe u need to reevaluate how u interact w art. It's not a documentary my gooooood. Stupid.

[femalegothic]

men just love to run their fucking mouth about what women do or do not want without even once considering consulting any actual women on the matter

How Women’s Sports Uniforms Became So Controversial, Long Before The Paris Olympics

Nike’s viral track kit is just one part of the story.

Faced with restrictive and uncomfortable uniforms, these women athletes fought to change their gear

(cnn) — When Olympian Tess Howard put on her new uniform for Great Britain’s women’s field hockey team in 2021, she

Women’s beach handball team fined for choosing shorts over bikini bottoms | CNN

The Norwegian women’s beach handball team has been fined after players opted to wear shorts instead of bikini bottoms during a European cham

Top female athletes speak out amid Olympics, defy convention through their uniforms

Female athletes are breaking with their sports' apparel conventions -- if not regulations -- to prioritize their comfort during competitions

Women’s Uniforms: judgement of women clutters sports front

Sports Commentary Historically, women in sports have not garnered the same respect as men, though they perform the same tasks and play the s

An Olympic medalist who refused to compete in bikini bottoms says skimpy outfits are putting women off athletics

Pole vaulter Holly Bradshaw refused to wear the customary bikini bottoms and crop tops favored by the majority of female athletes.

Underlying Injustices: Female Athlete Uniforms

According to Women in Sport, 78 percent of girls avoid participating in sports while on their period. 78 percent.  CEO of Women in Sport, St

[ot3]

i hate viral clip farms so bad its unreal i had to dig through so many of them to find the original source for those cars. i understand why reupload accounts with a gimmick or bit like the lodi one dont credit their images and videos even if i think they should, but the rest of them are literally just not doing it because its easier to not do it, and because they dont ever want anyone looking at any social media accounts other than theirs so will discourage that as much as is possible. on tumblr specifically we don't really have those types of aggregator accounts, our bread and butter there is aesthetic bloggers who just dont credit artists because they think it looks ugly to have any amount of text on their posts. it sucks.

i honestly dont even think the worst part of it is that people aren't getting credited for their work, i think the worst part of it is people are being robbed of the opportunity to understand and appreciate what they're actually seeing and go find more of it if they want to. to strip everything of its context makes it all ephemeral noise. it changes from something that meaningfully captures a small and intriguing snippet of the world you live in and just becomes Content. the way real life has been so structurally slopified like this has paved the way for everything people think is bad about ai. frankly i think if you won't share an AI image or video but will share unsourced or misleadingly framed viral clips you're just kind of a hypocrite because there is essentially zero difference in the outcome.

[jewfrogs]

falling asleep during the day: slipping away on a clouds so easy

falling asleep at night: I heard an ant gasp downstairs