₊✩‧₊˚ Grave ˚₊✩‧₊

𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 𓆝 𓆟 Hx/Hxm

[grave-ghost-sys]

‧₊˚♪ 𝄞₊˚⊹ Hi!

My name's Grave

A quick intro...

꒰ྀི১ ໒꒱ིྀ

I have survived ST and other traumas throughout my life.. I will not be quiet about it but I will TW

ʚɞ Bodily . . .

20 , white , intersex , disabled , semiverbal due to FND and autism

ʚɞ Disabled with . . .

FND , Fibromyalgia , POTS , HEDS , Endometriosis and possibly more

ʚɞ Also got . . .

HC-DID , OCD , Cluster B + C PD's , AuDHD

ʚɞ Some of my stances . . .

anti harrassment , anti endo (and all kinds of 'non traumagenic plurality'... its ableist) , pro abortion , anti TMA/TME labels (they're intersexist and transandrophobic) , anti transandrophobia/transmisogyny , anti proship

ʚɞ I hate/DNI . . .

zionists , bootlickers , bigots , calling other introjects of the same source 'doubles' , poor use of TWs , people who believe in cluster B abuse , AI bullshit

꒰ྀི১ ໒꒱ིྀ

ʚɞ Important to note . . .

I often lose the ability to communicate coherently due to FND- be patient or be ableist , I also have visual issues caused by FND and may misread a lot

ʚɞ Tags . . .

Original posts: grave posting

Anons/asks: grave responds

Reblogs: grave posession

Vents/rants: grave gets mad too

Silly posting: boo!

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trying not to be a burden but it just makes me more of one because i dont ask for the help when i need it but then if i do ask then im even MORE of a burden cus i didn't ask the first time so now the problema worse but if i keep not asking then im more of a burden but if i ask then its worse

[grave-ghost-sys]

people laugh at older generations for not understanding/fearing or being able to spot AI

help them.

they are going to fall for scams and misinformation

laughing does nothing to fix the problem but make them turn further to AI.

[grave-ghost-sys]

i love when the host gets surprised when an emotion holder fronts

like gods forbid i feel so strongly about my body's father that i HAVE to front just to hold that vitriol in my chest

he can't handle that emotion. he can't stand hatred.

i live on it. i hate that man. he will never apologise and change is simply not enough

[autistic-cirquemaars-for-life]

We have a gofundme in our pinned

[grave-ghost-sys]

reblog for mutual aid!

whether you can donate or not a reblog can get it to someone who can! <3

[grave-ghost-sys]

YA KNOW

if my body's father can't fucking admit what he did I think I can be selfish and not go see him

FUCK THAT

~ a very fucking justifiably angry trauma holder and persecutor

[grave-ghost-sys]

protect your child alters online

adult and minor body systems alike

so often these parts are taken advantage of... by strangers... by people you know...

[grave-ghost-sys]

to add...

this is not to say child alters can't be mature/adult ... they're in the same brain that you are so of course they can understand more than an actual child

BUT

that does not mean

A) every child part can be mature

B) that even mature child parts are exempt from this, it is still a regressed part of your brain.

[grave-ghost-sys]

protect your child alters online

adult and minor body systems alike

so often these parts are taken advantage of... by strangers... by people you know...

[grave-ghost-sys]

i've never been into football aside from when i was relatively sporty as a kid (being trans in secondary school definitely ruined it for me let's just say that)

but having no particular team to root for, just one to root against... has definitely changed my mind

gods i hope argentina lose (they won't it's rigged with money laundering and bribes)

[anti-willo-kinger]

harassing a disabled person for saying you're ableist isn't really helping your cause

[the-io-collective]

actually i thought about this. this isn't a callout, this is a call-in. white systems, i am literally begging you to hold each other accountable. stop making it safe for other white systems to engage in racist bullshit.

stop letting alters that don't belong to an ethnic group claim it.

stop letting fetishization of "exotic" culture slide.

stop letting people google names in other languages and not show those languages the respect they deserve. like ffs, at least learn how to pronounce what your part is calling themself. at least learn the context the word is used in.

stop being nonconfrontational about racism. yeah, you'll ruffle some feathers. maybe those feathers need to be ruffled.

stop. letting. this. shit. slide.

[grave-ghost-sys]

quietly crying cus im so hungry but nothing is low histamine/not a histamine liberator and ive already had a week-long flare caused by histamines and im so exhausted

[grave-ghost-sys]

i am fine now! partner made me a plain omelete with some apple cut up..

my happiness isn't worth tormenting myself with always worrying.

my plan for future is to avoid highly triggering foods and anything that causes an immediate reaction but if i have something that triggers a reaction it's not the end of the world

can't let my world collapse

[grave-ghost-sys]

quietly crying cus im so hungry but nothing is low histamine/not a histamine liberator and ive already had a week-long flare caused by histamines and im so exhausted

[grave-ghost-sys]

i've learned that unless it's a highly vulnerable part i really don't have to care when i switch and i think other systems need to know that too honestly

there's so much pressure on knowing who you are at all times but that isn't necessarily healing

focus on your safety and happiness first

everything else follows naturally

[autistic-cirquemaars-for-life]

Every time someone uses narcissist to mean abuser, or the term narcissistic abuse, I make all of their favorite characters have NPD 

[grave-ghost-sys]

blessing them with NPD 🙏🏻

[grave-ghost-sys]

cuteness aggression but it's just biting off people's heads?

and by people i mean the people in my head.

biting them.

[grave-ghost-sys]

a drag path but it's me battling medical misogyny and medical gaslighting as a trans guy with endometriosis that's rapidly progressing