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Leo, xSFP. Mostly posts about Fairy Tail, Kris Wu, and RWBY

[margomoment]

how do u tell the difference between executive dysfunction, procrastination, and laziness bc fuck idk how to

[laranoa]

Idk if you were actually looking for an answer but I talk about this with my therapist a lot so heres his wisdom:

Laziness=You don't want to do a task, so you choose not to, and you're fine with that. You either dont care if it gets done or you figure someone else will do it.

Procrastination=You want to do the task, but you put it off because it seems difficult/boring/time consuming.

Executive dysfunction=You want to do the task, and intend to at that very moment. There is no significant reason not to, but you can't because your brain is having difficulty transitioning between activities.

The key difference, he points out, is that if you experience guilt or shame from not doing it, then it's NOT laziness, because those feelings indicate, on some level, a desire to complete the task.

The latter two have more overlap imo, but for myself, I think of it as whether you are having trouble confronting the task itself, or just the transition.

[jeanjauthor]

An excellent explanation!

[wingzeroalchemist]

Facets

It bothers me when I read someone doing a take on Yang Xiao Long and calling the confident and badass demeanor a “mask”, a “facade”, or a “false front” before proceeding to talk about the other elements to her character. Even some of the best analysis I’ve read from really insightful people seem to fall to this. Because this idea of it not being real, of it being fake, misses something very important.

Humans are multifaceted, complicated, and often contradictory creatures. The key word here is multifaceted. 

By calling Yang’s confident demeanor a mask, you over-simplify her character and do her a great disservice. Yang is badass, she is strong, and she knows it. She’s not a smug shit like Mercury, but she is confident in herself, her looks, and her abilities, and she earned that. She has a fighter’s instinct, passion, and she enjoys a thrill. She enjoyed things, was able to have a good time, and had a sense of humor. This is all a part of her. It wasn’t a facade.

And when she lost her arm, she was shook. She was traumatized and no longer acted like her old self. Which is to be expected. And we did get to see more of the hurt she holds inside, the grief, the doubt, her abandonment issues, her feelings of having no direction, all things that were hinted at before and all very important parts of what make her who she is.

But that doesn’t make the other things any less real.

The confident, smirking fighter is the same person as the girl who’s hurting over feeling abandoned again and again and again. The teen making jokes before a food fight or laughing as she pulls one on Nora with a trick from her new arm is the same one that broke down to Weiss about how Blake’s leaving hurt.

You can see it even in Volume’s 5 and 6.

This woman and her grin is still around.

She was hurt, and didn’t feel like grinning, but now she and that grin are back, and just as real.

She’s just wiser, more experienced, and with a few more scars and notches on her belt and rendered/animated in a different software. It’s called growth.

Don’t over simplify a character by reducing an aspect to just a mask. People feel lots of things, have a lot of different facets to themselves. And good characters are supposed to be like that too. That person you see brimming with confidence isn’t always putting on a mask. They may really be that confident while playing that sport or doing that job or whatever it is they’re doing. That doesn’t mean they might not feel or act differently somewhere else, nor does it make either of those sides of them any less real.

[the-memedaddy]

meirl

[jjjunah]

Me: I’m gonna read this story without skimming

My adhd ass seeing long paragraphs:

[adhighdefinition]

me: no need to write it down, i’ll remember it :) my brain: you literally have adhd but go off i guess

[dankmemeuniversity]

[buckychristwrites]

due to personal reasons i’ll be slippin’ into the lava and im tryna keep from goin’ under baby you turn the temperature hotter cuz i’m burnin’ up burnin’ up for you baby

[deadinparadice]

100 Reasons NOT To Kill Yourself

1. We would miss you. 2. It’s not worth the regret. Either by yourself if you failed or just simply left scars, or the regret everyone else feels by not doing enough to help you. 3. It does get better. Believe it or not it will eventually get better. Sometimes you have to go through the storm to get to the rainbow. 4. There’s so much you would miss out on doing. 5. There is always a reason to live. It might not be clear right now, but it is always there. 6. So many people care, and it would hurt them if you hurt yourself. 7. You ARE worth it. Don’t let anyone, especially yourself, tell you otherwise. 8. You are amazing. 9. A time will come, once you’ve battled the toughest times of your life and are in ease once again, where you will be so glad that you decided to keep on living. You will emerge stronger from this all, and won’t regret your choice to carry on with life. Because things always get better. 10. What about all the things you’ve always wanted to do? What about the things you’ve planned, but never got around to doing? You can’t do them when you’re dead. 11. I love you. Even if only one person loves you, that’s still a reason to stay alive. 12. You won’t be able to listen to music if you die. 13. Killing yourself is never worth it. You’ll hurt both yourself and all the people you care about. 14. There are so many people that would miss you, including me. 15. You’re preventing a future generation, YOUR KIDS, from even being born. 16. How do you think your family would feel? Would it improve their lives if you died? 17. You’re gorgeous, amazing, and to someone you are perfect. 18. Think about your favourite music artist, you’ll never hear their voice again… 19. You’ll never have the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day 20. Listening to incredibly loud music 21. Being alive is just really good. 22. Not being alive is really bad. 23. Finding your soulmate. 24. Red pandas 25. Going to diners at three in the morning. 26. Really soft pillows. 27. Eating pizza in New York City. 28. Proving people wrong with your success. 29. Watching the jerks that doubted you fail at life. 30. Seeing someone trip over a garbage can. 31. Being able to help other people. 32. Bonfires. 33. Sitting on rooftops. 34. Seeing every single country in the world. 35. Going on roadtrips. 36. You might win the lottery someday. 37. Listening to music on a record player. 38. Going to the top of the Eiffel Tower. 39. Taking really cool pictures. 40. Literally meeting thousands of new people. 41. Hearing crazy stories. 42. Telling crazy stories. 43. Eating ice cream on a hot day. 44. More Harry Potter books could come out, you never know. 45. Travelling to another planet someday. 46. Having an underwater house. 47. Randomly running into your hero on the street. 48. Having your own room at a fancy hotel. 49. Trampolines. 50. Think about your favourite movie, you’ll never watch it again. 51. Think about the feeling of laughing out loud in a public place because your best friend has just sent you an inside joke, 52. Your survival will make the world better, even if it’s for just one person or 20 or 100 or more. 53. People do care. 54. Treehouses 55. Hanging out with your soul mate in a treehouse 55. Snorting when you laugh and not caring who sees 56. I don’t even know you and I love you. 57. I don’t even know you and I care about you. 58. Because nobody is going to be like you ever, so embrace your uniqueness! 59. You won’t be here to experience the first cat world emperor. 60. WHAT ABOUT FOOD?! YOU’LL MISS CHOCOLATE AND ALL THE OTHER NOM THINGS! 61. Starbucks. 62. Hugs. 63. Stargazing. 64. You have a purpose, and it’s up to you to find out what it is. 65. You’ve changed somebody’s life. 66. Now you could change the world. 67. You will meet the person that’s perfect for you. 68. No matter how much or how little, you have your life ahead of you. 69. You have the chance to save somebody’s life. 70. If you end your life, you’re stopping yourself from achieving great things. 71. Making snow angels. 72. Making snowmen. 73. Snowball fights. 74. Life is what you make of it. 75. Everybody has a talent. 76. Laughing until you cry. 77. Having the ability to be sad means you have the ability to be happy. 78. The world would not be the same if you didn’t exist. 79. Its possible to turn frowns, upside down 80. Be yourself, don’t take anyone’s shit, and never let them take you alive. 81. Heroes are ordinary people who make themselves extraordinary. Be your own hero. 82. Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect. It means that you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections. 83. One day your smile will be real. 84. Having a really hot, relaxing bath after a stressful day. 85. Lying on grass and laughing at the clouds. 86. Getting completely smashed with your best friends. 87. Eating crazy food. 88. Staying up all night watching your favourite films with a loved one. 89. Sleeping in all day. 90. Creating something you’re proud of. 91. You can look back on yourself 70 years later and being proud you didn’t commit 92. Being able to meet your Internet friends. 93. Tea / Coffee / Hot Chocolate 94. Sherlock season three. 95. Cuddling under the stars. 96. Being stupid in public because you just can. 97. If you are reading this then you are alive! Is there any more reason to smile? 98. being able to hug that one person you havent seen in years 99. People care enough about you and your future to come up with 100 reasons for you not to do this. 100. But, the final and most important one is, just, being able to experience life. Because even if your life doesn’t seem so great right now, literally anything could happen

IF that isn’t enough:

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[brain3at3r]

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[transgender4days-deactivated202]

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[thestarsdiary]

I will reblog this constantly for everyone to see it!This is importantant!💞

[fangirl-moment-x]

Didn’t see a helpline for India so here are a few:

1Life: 91-78930-78930 (24X7) [email protected]

Aasra: 91-22-27546669 (24X7) [email protected]

Vandrevala Foundation: 1860-266-2345 / 1800-233-3330 (24X7) [email protected]

SUMAITRI: 91-11-23389090 (Mon-Fri 2pm to 10pm and Sat-Sun 10 am to 10pm) [email protected]

Sneha India: 91-44-2464 0050 / 91-44-2464 0060 (24X7) [email protected]

Lifeline Foundation: 91-33-24637401 / 91-33-24637432

[hufflepuffyellie-deactivated201]

I just copied this and sent it to one of my best friends, and now he said he’s crying. I feel sorta bad that he’s crying but he said that he really needed to hear that, and now I’m about to cry

[damnjk]

I don’t care if it ruins your “theme” this is important.

[danandphileveryday]

Omg pls share 🙏🏻❤️

[eryn-n-g]

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[kingantlion-deactivated20231130]

Never gonna stop reblogging this

[all-hail-mono-onion]

i need this so much and other people do too

[mystarnova]

Reblog

[sodomymcscurvylegs]

I want Chris Evans to cum in me so much that I can slide on my ass around the living room like a slug.

[tchannel]

Do you ever… just once… use your one God-given brain cell to think before you post?

[sodomymcscurvylegs]

CAN’T HEAR YOU DYLAN! I’M BUSY!

[comfycloset-deactivated20201005]

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[akhunty-deactivated20240130]

IF YOURE EGYPTIAN AND LGBTQ+ GET OFF ANY QUEER DATING SITES, THE POLICE ARE TRACKING AND HUNTING PEOPLE DOWN AGAIN. DELETE YOUR ACCOUNTS.

[salty-red-mage]

This is very real.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/amp/human-rights-groups-urge-egypt-halt-crackdown-gays-n806641

[sparkhelpful-deactivated2024022]

I DON’T CARE IF YOU HAVE ONLY ONE FOLLOWER PLEASE EVERYONE REBLOG THIS!!!

[the-real-numbers-deactivated202]

Try it out here!

[honeyby]

I know everyone’s super gay for Yang’s “Gotcha” but I feel like y’all are sleeping on her triumphant scream right after that when she takes Adam’s sword and decks him

[yang-xiaodonna]

This new meme template is pretty cool

[asheternal]

Doodled some differences in the bees and how I (try) to draw them.

[sailorsxturn]

Hey- quick appreciation post for Sailor Jupiter

So when I was a little girl, I was always taller and more aggressive than other girls my age. I typically found myself playing with the boys because the girls would get upset if I messed around too much because I didn’t know my own strength. I was quickly bullied because of that fact and was made an outsider. 

Then I found Sailor Moon

The first thing I watched was the movie Sailor Moon R, and I was introduced to Sailor Jupiter. As a tall little girl with long brown wavy hair, I saw myself as her. I saw someone like me fighting bad guys and being part of an amazing team. I saw someone like me being accepted by other girls, and being an integral part of the team.

I saw a tomboy, with a fem??? side???? It was wild to me. I never thought you could be a “tomboy” AND a “girly girl” I always felt I had to choose one or the other- and could never switch sides. 

 I was amazed. I remember crying. I remember thinking “she’s just like me!” I couldn’t get enough of her. I was entranced by her. I went to school the next day with this new confidence that I could only attribute to her. 

She changed my life. She made me feel like I could embrace myself. And because of her, I’m who I am today. 

Shes so underappreciated. I just had to get this off my chest. 

I love Sailor Jupiter. 

[owenoak95]

Sailor Jupiter 

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[gray-fullbunny]

     You heal everyone else, but nobody’s there to heal you. You possess the biggest heart, yet it’s the most broken. You’re the light of the group, yet you allow yourself to drown in your own darkness. Hard as you try to keep your demons to yourself, your fans and your fellow members see your battered, heavy heart, the scars inflicted on you.

     You’re a survivor; you’ve overcome so much. Leaving your friends, family, and home to train in country where you didn’t even know the language. The endless nights, the blood, sweat, and tears that nobody sees. The years being unsure if it’ll all be worth it. The mockery that you got for your chin. The endless doubt, self-hatred, stress, and misery. The feelings that you’re not valued within the group. The self-imposed dieting until your ribs can be seen straining against your skin, until the members begin to fear for your health. You bore it all with a smile because you wanted to prove your strength. You wanted to show the world that you’re unbreakable. 

     You’ve done nothing but prove your strength, your athleticism, your humour, your vivaciousness, and your immeasurable talent. We see your compassion and selflessness towards your members and your fans. We see your will to give even when there’s nothing left. You singlehandedly organized an entire tour and catered to what your members would like the best and what would make for the best memories, while dealing with a damn near impossible schedule, and your own personal demons. Can just anybody do that? Nakamoto Yuta, you don’t need to be so hard on yourself. You deserve to experience the same happiness that you try so hard to give everyone else. You deserve to bask in your own brilliance the way everybody else gets to.